Why Men Love Bitches (34 page)
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Authors: Sherry Argov
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #60If you take his chores away from him and praise someone else for doing it, he’ll want his chores back.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #61When you nag, he sees weakness.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #62He perceives an emotional woman as more of a pushover.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #63In the same way that familiarity breeds contempt, a slightly aloof demeanor can often renew his respect.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #64He’ll forget what he has in you…unless you remind him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #65Many women talk a lot out of nervousness-which is something that men will often perceive as insecurity.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #66Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he’s with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #67Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he’ll pay even less attention to your feelings.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #68In the beginning, the only thing you need to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming around, because he’ll only be able to suspend or hide his emotions for so long.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #69Men treat women the way they treat other men. They “play it cool” because they don’t want to appear weak or desperate.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #70The element of surprise both inside and outside of the bedroom is important to men, and it adds to the excitement.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #71Don’t always do the same thing over and over in the bedroom. Vary it so that it doesn’t become a predictable routine.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #72Most men tend to disrespect a woman who appears to be too malleable.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #73Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself or speak your mind. It will not only earn his respect, in some cases it will even turn him on.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #74Men often automatically assume that a bitchier woman will be more assertive in bed, and that a nice girl will be more timid.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #75When a man falls in love, suddenly he’ll go out of his way and think nothing of it. He’ll do things for this woman he wouldn’t have done for anyone else.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #76He’ll never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own two feet financially.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #77You have to show that you won’t accept mistreatment. Then you will keep his respect.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #78Your pink slip is maintained when you can stand on your own—with him or without him. He should never feel that you are completely at his mercy.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #79When a man views a woman as a “little girl” or a sister he has to take care of, the passion diminishes. He doesn’t want to make love to his sister.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #80The ability to choose how you want to live, and the ability to choose how you want to be treated are the two things that give you more power than any material object ever will.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #81In a relationship of any kind, if one person feels the other person isn’t bringing anything to the table, he or she will begin to disrespect that person.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #82Financial neediness is no different than emotional neediness; in both instances, he can still get the feeling that he has a 100 percent hold on you.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #83Regardless of how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain his respect. Appearance may pull him in, but it is your independence that will keep him turned on.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #84When a man is very consumed with not being taken advantage of, this is a sign that he’s “on the take.”
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #85People will show you they have self-respect simply by virtue of the fact that they want to carry their own weight.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #86The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #87If you make it too obvious that you’re excited to get something, some people will be tempted to dangle a carrot in front of your face.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #88When you alter the routine, your not being there is what will make him come around. Men don’t respond to words. What they respond to is no contact.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #89Don’t give a reward for bad behavior.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #90He simply won’t respect a woman who automatically goes into overdrive to please him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #91If he doesn’t give you a time, you don’t have a date.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #92Often the best way to adjust or fix the problem is by not letting him know it’s being fixed. When you alter your availability or change a predictable routine, it will mentally pull him back in.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #93Once you start laughing, you start healing.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #94You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #95A man feels he’s won, or conquered a woman, when she eats out of the palm of his hand. At which point, he begins to get bored.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #96The tension that arises with a slightly bitchy woman gives a subtle feeling of danger to a man. He feels slightly unsure because she is never in the palm of his hand.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #97A “yes” woman who gives too much sends the impression that she believes in the man more than she believes in herself. Men view this as weakness not kindness.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #98Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #99Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #100The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
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