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Authors: Sherry Argov

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ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #2

The women who have the men climbing the walls for them aren’t always exceptional. Often, they are the ones who don’t appear to care that much.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #3

A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesn’t feel he has a 100 percent hold on her.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #4

Sometimes a man deliberately won’t call, just to see how you’ll respond.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #5

If you start out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get it.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #6

It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #7

Act like a prize and you’ll turn him into a believer.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #8

The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows that she’s not afraid to be without him.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #9

If the choice is between her dignity and having a relationship, the bitch will prioritize her dignity above all else.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #10

When a woman doesn’t give in easily and doesn’t appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #11

Being right on the verge of getting something generates a desire that has to be satisfied.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #12

A man knows which woman will give in to last-minute requests.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #13

Whether you have terms and conditions indicates whether you have options. Almost immediately, you present yourself as a doormat or a dreamgirl.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #14

If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #15

Whenever a woman requires too many things from a man, he’ll resent it. Let him give what he wants to give freely; then observe who he is.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #16

A bitch gives a man plenty of space so he doesn’t fear being trapped in a cage. Then…he sets out to trap her in his.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #17

If you tell him you are not interested in jumping into a relationship with both feet, he will set out to try to change your mind.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #18

Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #19

More than anything else, he watches to see if you’ll be too emotionally dependent on him.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #20

He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #21

If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take time to appreciate who she is.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #22

Sex and the “spark” are not one and the same.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #23

Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and the woman isn’t.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #24

Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not giving him what he wants up front, you become his girlfriend without him realizing it.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #25

A man intuitively senses whether sexuality comes from a place of security or from a place of neediness. He knows when a woman is having sex to appease him.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #26

Bad habits are easier to form than good ones, because good habits require conscious effort. Waiting encourages this effort.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #27

If you pull the sexual plug at the last minute, he’ll label you a tease.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #28

If he makes you feel insecure, let your insecurity be your guide.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #29

A quality guy fantasizes about a woman who genuinely loves sex.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #30

Any time a woman competes with another woman, she demeans herself.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #31

When there is that undeniable “spark,” there is only one key to the lock.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #32

Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing things you want done because he’ll always want to look like “a king” in your eyes.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #33

When you cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesn’t try to get power in an aggressive way.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #34

When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect. When you appear more aggressive, you appeal to his instinct to compete.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #35

He’ll let a woman who becomes his doormat pay for dinner on the first couple of dates, but he wouldn’t think of it with his dreamgirl.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #36

The token power position is for public display, but the true power position is for private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #37

If you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you and he’ll want to give you the world.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #38

When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #39

Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #40

Talking about the “relationship” too much takes away the element of the “unknown” and thus the mystery.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #41

Men respect women who communicate in a succinct way, because it’s the language men use to talk to one another.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #42

When you are always HAPPY; And he is always free to GO; He feels LUCKY.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #43

If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you’ll create a void. Then, to replace what you give up, you’ll start to expect and need more from your partner.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #44

Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #45

A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes when he can’t pull her away from her life, because she is content with her life.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #46

The second a woman works overtime to make herself fit his criteria, she has lowered the standard of that relationship.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #47

You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your “all.”

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #48

You have to keep from being sucked down into quicksand. Unless you maintain control over yourself, the relationship is doomed.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #49

Jumping through hoops often has a negative outcome: He sees it as an opportunity to have his cake and eat it, too. But when you stay just outside his reach, he’ll stay on his best behavior.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #50

The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #51

The relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #52

When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #53

When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still “right there.”

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #54

When the routine becomes predictable, he’s more likely to give you the same type of love he had for his mother-and the odds that he will take you for granted increase.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #55

Negative attention is still attention. It lets a man know that he has you—right where he wants you.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #56

When you treat him casually as though he’s a friend, he’ll come your way. Because he wants things to be romantic, but he also wants to be the pursuer.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #57

A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #58

A man takes a woman for granted when he’s interested, but will no longer go out of his way.

 
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #59

When you nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when you don’t nag, he deals with the problem.

 

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