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The Kegelcisor 184

Genital Rings 184

Artificial Vaginas/Mouths/Erection Sleeves 185

Dildos 185

The Aneros 186

Communicating with Your Partner about Sex Toys 186

14 Feel the Heat: Sexual Positions for Maximum

Hot-Spot Action 188

Missionary-Style Positions 189

Woman-on-Top Positions 194

Side-by-Side Positions 197

Rear-Entry Positions 199

Sitting and Squatting Positions 200

Standing Positions 202

Conclusion 205

Glossary 206

Resources and Recommended Reading 213

Index 217

List of Illustrations

Figure 1.1: The chakras 6

Figure 2.1: The locations of the Womb and Vitals, Crooked Bone,

and Transverse Bone acupressure points 29

Yoga Pose 2.1: Clitoral stimulation and vaginal relaxation 30

Yoga Pose 2.2: Clitoral stimulation and heart connection 31

Yoga Pose 2.3: Clitoral stimulation and genital pressure 32

Figure 3.1: The internal female genitalia 35

Figure 3.2: The Sea of Intimacy acupressure points 43

Figure 4.1: The external female genitalia (vulva) 49

Figure 4.2: The Gate of Origin acupressure point 59

Yoga Pose 4.1: Vulval and root chakra stimulation 60

Yoga Pose 4.2: Vulval and penile stimulation 61

Figure 5.1: The external male genitalia 64

Figure 5.2: The Rushing Door and Mansion Cottage

acupressure points 73

Figure 5.3: The St. 30, Crooked Bone, Transverse Bone,

and Sea of Intimacy acupressure points 80

Yoga Pose 5.1: Penile stimulation and heart opener 81

Yoga Pose 5.2: Pelvic stimulation 82

Figure 6.1: The internal male genitalia 85

Figure 7.1: The Inner Thigh acupressure points 97

Yoga Pose 7.1: Perineal and scrotal stimulation 101

Yoga Pose 7.2: Scrotal and root chakra stimulation 102

Figure 8.1: The Center of the Breasts, Heavenly Pond,

and Sea of Tranquility acupressure points 104

Yoga Pose 8.1: Sex nerve stretch 110

Figure 9.1: The Gates of Consciousness, Yui-Gen,

and Wind Mansion acupressure points 116

Figure 9.2: Head, scalp, neck, and face acupoints 118

Exercise 9.6: Soul Gazing 123

Figure 10.1: The Shoulder Well, Heavenly Rejuvenation,

and Elegant Mansion acupressure points 138

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Figure 10.2: The Sea of Vitality, Gia-Pe, Mingmen,

and upper-back acupressure points 142

Figure 10.3: The sacral acupressure points 143

Figure 10.4: The V-zone 145

Figure 10.5: Seven reflexology love points 146

Figure 10.6: The acupressure and reflexology points on the legs 148

Yoga Pose 10.1: Couple cuddle 151

Yoga Pose 11.1: Stimulation of buttocks 163

Yoga Pose 11.2: Buttocks play 164

Yoga Pose 11.3: Pelvis on buttocks stimulation 165

Figure 12.1: Reflexology map of the hand 167

Figure 12.2: The Spirit Gate and Inner Gates acupressure points 171

Figure 12.3: Reflexology map of the feet 172

Figure 12.4: The Bigger Stream, Bubbling Spring, and

Grandparent-Grandchild acupressure points . . . 173 Figure 12.5: The Hidden Clarity and Great Sincerity

acupressure points 174

Figure 13.1: A variety of vibrators 180

Figure 14.1: Missionary-style—variation #1 190

Figure 14.2: Missionary-style—variation #2 191

Figure 14.3: Missionary-style—variation #3 192

Figure 14.4: Missionary-style—variation #4 193

Figure 14.5: Missionary-style—variation #5 193

Figure 14.6: Woman-on-top—variation #1 195

Figure 14.7: Woman-on-top—variation #2 195

Figure 14.8: Woman-on-top—variation #3 196

Figure 14.9: Woman-on-top—variation #4 197

Figure 14.10: Side-by-side—variation #1 198

Figure 14.11: Side-by-side—variation #2 198

Figure 14.12: Rear-entry position—variation #1 200

Figure 14.13: Sitting—variation #1 201

Figure 14.14: Sitting—variation #2 202

Figure 14.15: Standing—variation #1 203

Figure 14.16: Kneeling—variation #1 204

Figure 14.17: Kneeling—variation #2 204

List of Exercises

Exercise 1.1: Finding Your Energy 9

Exercise 1.2: Sensing Your Lover’s Aura 9

Exercise 2.1: Ride ’Em Cowgirl 21

Exercise 2.2: Playing Her Like a Twelve-String Guitar 22

Exercise 2.3: What’s under Here? Getting to Know the Clitoral Hood . 23 Exercise 2.4: Ultimate Lip Service 26

Exercise 2.5: Touch Her There 29

Exercise 2.6: Touch Her Here 30

Exercise 3.1: The “G” (as in Give-Me-More-of-That) Spot 41

Exercise 3.2: For More “Ohmigod” Gasps 43

Exercise 3.3: The AFE-Zone Stimulation Technique 45

Exercise 4.1: Ahhhhhh! 52

Exercise 4.2: Seventh-Heaven Stimulation 54

Exercise 4.3: The Kivin Method 55

Exercise 4.4: Basic PC Toning 57

Exercise 4.5: Egg-cellent 57

Exercise 5.1: Ultimate Hand Job 73

Exercise 5.2: Total-Penis Stimulation 76

Exercise 5.3: Doggie-Style Hand Job 76

Exercise 5.4: Oral Action Worthy of “Ohhhhs” 77

Exercise 5.5: Powerful Points 79

Exercise 5.6: Times Two Doubles the Fun 79

Exercise 5.7: Rockin’ His World 80

Exercise 6.1: Pleasuring the Prostate 89

Exercise 6.2: The Perineal Pause 92

Exercise 6.3: Pump This 93

Exercise 7.1: Scrotal Focus 97

Exercise 7.2: Taoist Testicle Breathing 98

Exercise 7.3: The Pull with Punch 100

Exercise 8.1: Holding Your Lover’s Heart 109

Exercise 8.2: Stimulating Your Lover’s Heart 110

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Exercise 9.1: A Head Massage to Die For 114

Exercise 9.2: Awakening 115

Exercise 9.3: The Third-Eye Chakra Press 117

Exercise 9.4: Merging Sound 120

Exercise 9.5: Eyelid Erotica 121

Exercise 9.6: Soul Gazing 123

Exercise 9.7: Tuning In to Your Breath 127

Exercise 9.8: Breathing Your Way to O 128

Exercise 9.9: Lip Exploration 129

Exercise 9.10: Kissing Two Lips at Once 130

Exercise 9.11: Titillating Tongue Action 132

Exercise 9.12: Tongue Slide 132

Exercise 10.1: Collarbone Stimulation 139

Exercise 10.2: Dirty Dancing 144

Exercise 10.3: Just the Trick 147

Exercise 11.1: Slip Inside 160

Exercise 11.2: Anal Probe 162

Exercise 12.1: The Hand Job Reinvented 168

Exercise 12.2: Palm Power 169

Exercise 12.3: Stimulating the Chakras 170

Exercise 12.4: Foot Fetish 173

Exercise 12.5: Playing Ball 175

Exercise 12.6: Stimulating the Chakras and Then Some 175

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Because they’ve nurtured me, loved me, and supported me in all of my efforts, this book is dedicated to my parents,

Charles G. Fulbright and Ósk Lárusdóttir Fulbright, and to my grandparents,

Lárus Kristinn Jónsson and Gud
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semd Jónasdóttir, Carl L. Fulbright and Lottie Chapman Fulbright.

Important Note

The material in this book is intended to provide a review of information regarding sexuality. Every effort has been made to provide accurate and dependable information. We believe that the advice given in this book poses no risk to any healthy person. However, if you have any sexually transmitted diseases, we recommend consulting your doctor before using this book.

The publisher, author, and editors, as well as the professionals quoted in the book, cannot be held responsible for any error, omission, professional disagreement, or dated material, and are not liable for any damage, injury, or other adverse outcome of applying any of the infor- mation in this book. If you have questions concerning the application of the information described in this book, consult a qualified professional.

Acknowledgments‌

There are a number of people I would like to thank for making this book possible.

To everyone at Hunter House for believing in me and for helping to cultivate healthy sexuality. In 2003, they took a chance on an aspiring sex expert, and I am forever touched by the time and devotion they’ve dedi- cated to my first two books. Special thanks go to publisher Kiran Rana, acquisitions editor Jeanne Brondino, editor Kelley Blewster, editor Alex Mummery, and senior marketing associate Reina Santana for making this second project happen.

To all of my family members for their continued loving support, particularly in the last year—my parents, Charles G. Fulbright and Ósk Lárusdóttir Fulbright, my brother, Xavier Þór Fulbright, my soon-to-be sister-in-law, Lauren Bryson, my grandfather, Carl L. Fulbright, and my relatives in Iceland, Eydís Kristín Sveinbjarnardóttir, Sigurd
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ur Snævarr, Þórunn Sveinbjarnardóttir, Anna Sveinbjarnardóttir, Sveinbjörn Thora- rensen, and Sigurlaug “Silla” Thorarensen.

To Bianca Angelino Grimaldi for being my rock.

To Rick Barth, Tiffany J. Franklin, and Andy and Marci Hunn for al- ways being there.

To my nonblood sister, Danielle Cavallucci, for her talent, vision, and infectious smile.

To Solveig Bergh, Casey Chamberlain, Sean Duffy, Melissa Eaton, Cheri Fowler, Frances Harber, Danielle Harms, Jamie Hess, Dara Holtz- man, Christy Kiely, Chris Klimek, Dr. Amanda Meulenberg, Vieng Rat- tanong, Ásgeir Sigfússon, Laura Sutton, and Leana Wen for their love, support, and friendship.

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To my yoga and acupressure models Paula D. Atkinson and Gregory Stuart; to illustrators Lisa Kroin and Alexis McQuilkin; and to my father, photographer Charles G. Fulbright, for helping to make this book visually appealing and clear.

To Bryson Coles and Brian Peppler at Snowday Designs for a super website.

To Dr. Steve Chandler for helping me to find my niche in contributing to AASECT, and for hooking me up with lots of books!