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About the Author

VIOLET BLUE (
tinynibbles.com
) is a blogger, high-profile tech personality, award-winning bestselling author and editor of over two dozen books in five languages, podcaster, web TV show GETV reporter, technology futurist, and sex-positive pundit in mainstream media (such as CNN and
The Tyra Banks Show
). Her podcast Open Source Sex has been downloaded over 8 million times. Blue is a
Forbes
Web Celeb and one of
Wired’s
Faces of Innovation. She writes for media outlets such as
Forbes, O: The Oprah Magazine,
and UN sponsored international health organization, RH Reality Check. Violet lectures to cyberlaw classes at UC Berkeley, human sexuality programs at UCSF, tech conferences (ETech and SXSW), in addition to sex crisis counselors at community teaching institutions and Google Tech Talks. Blue’s tech blogs are
techyum.com
and vb.ly, and she publishes DRM-free audio and e-books at
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.

Copyright © 2002, 2010 by Violet Blue
^®
. Foreword copyright © 2010 by Margaret Cho. Illustrations copyright ©2002 by Molly Kiely. Erotic stories copyright ©2002 by Alison Tyler.

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eISBN : 978-1-573-44551-1

Table of Contents

Ultimate Guides from Cleis Press

Title Page

Dedication

Foreword

Introduction

CHAPTER 1 - One Act, Many Pleasures

Receiving

Giving

Increasing Intimacy

Enhancing Lovemaking

CHAPTER 2 - How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Getting Head

The Four Fears

Building Blocks for Great Sex: Masturbation and Fantasy

Fantasy

Getting Connected

Being a Great Lick-ee