The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus (16 page)

“Watch, Tamara,” she said next, “I like it when people watch,” and I opened my eyes and looked down at her.

Her nails were short, not past the tips of her fingers, and they were painted a shiny, glossy turquoise blue, like the color of water in the deep end of the club’s swimming pool. I stared down as she pinched my clit between her thumb and forefinger, and it looked as if my clit were being captured between two sparkling gems. She moved closer then, licking between my swollen lips, kissing me with her mouth open. Letting me feel her tongue, wet and sloppy against me. Easily, she probed inside me as she moved her head back and forth, tickling me with her short, black hair.

With extreme finesse, she slid her tongue in and out of my sopping slit, and I forced myself to keep standing, my knees threatening to buckle. And fuck, she was good, expertly using her fingers, lips, tongue to take me where I needed to go. With the water pounding down on me, the wetness seeping from between my legs, I felt as if I’d arrived at some fantasy place where dreams could come true.

When the climax rocked through me, Cleo kept her mouth pressed to my pussy, drinking in the sweetness that the orgasm brought forth. It took me several moments to get myself together after coming, and during this time, Cleo sat back on her heels and looked up at me, a pleased expression on her face as if proud of a job well done. I stared at her through glazed eyes. Her body was slender, with small breasts that I could have cupped in my hands. She looked so delectable that I wanted to go on my knees on the floor and wrap her in my arms. That might have happened anyway, since my legs were still threatening to give way.

Cleo didn’t leave me long to catch my balance, wanting more. Wanting her turn. She stepped out of the shower and motioned for me to follow her. Quickly, we found the sofa in the dressing room, falling onto it in a sixty-nine, her mouth again sealed to my cunt, my tongue lapping at her clit, my hands drawing her body closer to me. We took our time, sprawled out, wet all over. Wet from the shower, and from the languid way we touched each other. Now, I needed to pay attention to what I was doing, licking and lapping at Cleo’s velvety mound of Venus, driving my tongue inside her just to hear her moan.

She mimicked me, playing with my pussy in the same way that I took care of her. Then upping the intensity by adding a new move, letting me mirror her. I slid one finger inside her cunt, then two, crossing my fingers inside her so that she would feel filled by them.

“More,” she said, her request half a moan, half a sigh.

I immediately slid a third finger into her, then a fourth. She was hungry, swallowing me up, and I rocked my hand back and forth, stroking the inner walls of her cunt with my curled fingers, pressing in deep. She leaned her head back and said, “That is so fucking good. Don’t stop.” Her body arched as the vibrations worked through her. I didn’t stop until the contractions had subsided, and she lay back on the sofa and stared up at the ceiling.

And then she said the one word that started us all over again.

“More—”

CHAPTER 9

Tricks or Treats: Advanced Techniques

We so often think of any given sex act as the “main course,” but, if we are so inclined, we can dine on a sequence of main courses, stretching our appetites out over many savory dishes. Learning to think this way turns regular sex into extended lovemaking, and getting off into multiple orgasms. By adding a variety of advanced techniques to your cunnilingus sessions, you can make pleasure last for hours and enjoy the ebb and flow of orgasm.

Erotic Pressure Points

Touching your partner in specific areas while you’re going down on her releases blocked sexual tension, increases her excitement and blood flow to the genital area, and can make orgasm much more powerful than usual. Several centuries ago, Chinese doctors concluded that certain points in the body held muscular tension that could accumulate and block the normal flow of circulation of energy. These points, acupuncture or acupressure points, corresponded to physical ailments, and the doctors discovered that releasing tension through pressure on the blocked areas was medically therapeutic. They also discovered a range of erotic techniques.

Pressing acupressure points acts like a concentrated massage, releasing muscular tension and toxins held in the muscle, allowing blood and sensation to flow freely to the area. Increased circulation means increased feeling and responsiveness, which adds new dimensions of pleasure to cunnilingus.

You can activate pressure points by touching them in various ways—kissing, licking, caressing, sucking, kneading, and massaging—but the most effective way is to hold the point (or points) firmly with the pads of your fingers. Some points will be more sensitive than others; you should avoid pressing directly on the high ridges of bones. Your nails should be short, and you should apply a gradual, slow, and direct pressure. If the skin is pulling, lift up and reapply pressure directly to the point, as if you were pressing straight in. Hold each point for no more than five minutes at a time, and encourage her to breathe deeply as you press. Incorporate them at any stage during oral sex.

Points for increasing Sexual Energy and Awareness

The following three points are located on the mons veneris at the top edge of the pubic bone, in the center (if you need an anatomy refresher, see chapter 3, “Anatomy for Pleasure”). Pressing them produces a warm, pleasant sensation and focuses energy and awareness on the entire clitoral system. This is great for helping her concentrate on arousal.

HEIGHTENING SENSITIVITY

On the inside of the upper thigh, right at the crease where the thigh meets the body in front, are six points that heighten pleasurable sensitivity and awareness. They amplify any genital pleasure you are providing.

Illustration 13. Heightening Sensitivity

ENHANCING ORGASM

You can apply pressure directly on the perineum to make orgasms more intense. This increases blood flow to the genital area and is beneficial to all reproductive and pleasure organs.

Illustration 14. Enhancing Orgasm

INCREASING PLEASURE

These additional points on the base of the spine increase pleasure during oral sex and can be added to your erotic pressure point repertoire.

Illustration 15. Increasing Pleasure

In general, applying pressure to the vulva with the flat of your hand or flattened fingertips feels great, because you’re stimulating the entire clitoral system. You can also rub the mons while you lick, or massage it in a circular motion, press it, or gently pull on it. Using genital massage techniques to begin or end a sexual activity, or to transition to another one, can turn a bout of sex into a decadent encounter—use your imagination and these points as your guide.

Fire and Ice

The sensations of heat and cold are remarkable in oral sex. Imagine a hot, wet mouth enveloping your genitals, licking and squeezing and radiating heat. Or a cool mouth caressing and rubbing you when you’re so hot you’re already at the melting point. That’s the idea—using heat and coolness to prolong and increase arousal, or to turn up temperatures that are already in the triple digits.

You can bring temperature play into cunnilingus at any point when you want to tease or turn up the volume, though it’s more effective in the earlier stages of licking, before you get an orgasm-inducing rhythm going. There are two ways to go about it: applying the sensation to her directly, or changing the temperature of your mouth.

Direct Application

• Have a warm or cool washrag prepared in a bowl of warm or iced water at the bedside: pause your licking for a moment and apply the washrag, then continue. Make sure that a hot washrag isn’t too hot, or it will burn—discreetly test it on the thin skin of your wrist first. If you’re using an ice water compress, your tongue will feel hot and delicious on her cool clit.

• Set a bowl of ice cubes next to you, select one, and draw on her nipples, stomach, and outer lips, and all over her vulva. You can insert them in her vagina, but this may not get an overwhelming response. If you do, make sure they’re small cubes so they don’t burn the delicate skin of her vagina.

• In warm water, have a number of items heated and ready: dildos, waterproof vibrators, vegetables. You can also pull a teabag out of a not-too-hot cup of tea and massage her clit with it.

Changing the Temperature of Your Mouth

• From that bowl or cup of ice, put one in your mouth to cool down your tongue and lips.

• An iced or hot drink will change the temperature of your mouth perfectly—you’ll know if it’s too hot or cool because it will be uncomfortable for you, too. Pause while licking and take a mouthful of the beverage; swish and swirl it around your mouth for a minute, then swallow. Continue licking until you feel the temperature change, then repeat as necessary.

Cool and Tingling Sensations

When you pop a breath mint or a cough drop in your mouth, sometimes it feels like your entire oral cavity has the Arctic wind whistling through it, and that’s not always an unpleasant feeling. Now, imagine that feeling on aroused genitalia, the coolness mixing with the arousing, teasing strokes of a tongue. The feeling isn’t for everyone—it can get pretty intense and feel too much like heat—but once some women try it they like it a lot, so it’s worth experimenting with to see if you can add it to your cunnilingus pleasure kit.

Menthol and mint cough drops and breath mints are amazing sex toys that are available next to practically every checkout counter. Try to find lozenges with both menthol and mint (they’re the strongest), and be sure to get sugar-free versions to avoid irritating her vaginal ecosystem. During oral play, put one in your mouth and swish it around to activate it and soften the corners—should the corner scrape her vulva, your experience will turn from delicious to disastrous. When you’re good and mentholated, slip the lozenge between your cheek and gums. Putting it under your tongue will make it pop out, and trying to rest it on the back of your tongue while you lick could make you choke on it, so don’t do either of those. Your licking will transfer the effects to her vulva after just a minute, and you can also take the lozenge and rub her with it. Use mint and menthol on external genitalia only, please, such as nipples, vulva, or the outside of the anus. Insertion can have unwanted effects, such as bladder infections, and you should never insert anything into the anus that goes all the way in and disappears—even if you think it will dissolve (see the “Anal Penetration” section later in this chapter). Add to the icy sensations by blowing softly on her vulva—and remember, no puffs of air inside.