The Marriage Book (89 page)

Cartoon, Bülbül, “My name was Helen . . .” 1979. In Gloria Kaufman and Mary Kay Blakely, eds.,
Pulling Our Own Strings: Feminist Humor & Satire
. Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1980, p. 186. Copyright © 1979 BülbüI (Genevieve Leland Guracar).
309

Cartoon, Bruce Eric Kaplan, “Sometimes I think . . .”
The New Yorker
, November 15, 1999. Copyright © Bruce Eric Kaplan/The New Yorker Collection/The Cartoon Bank.
37

Cartoon, Lee Lorenz, “Your wife gets the house . . .”
The New Yorker
, March 20, 2006. Copyright © Lee Lorenz/The New Yorker Collection/The Cartoon Bank.
78

Cartoon, David Sipress, “You make a very compelling case . . .”
The New Yorker
, October 24, 2011. Copyright © David Sipress/The New Yorker Collection/The Cartoon Bank.
499

Cartoon, Mick Stevens, “Well, it was original . . .”
The New Yorker
, September 3, 2012. Copyright © Mick Stevens/The New Yorker Collection/The Cartoon Bank.
4

Cartoon, James Thurber, “Have it your way . . .”
The New Yorker
, January 30, 1932, p. 11. Copyright © 1932 by Rosemary A. Thurber. Reprinted by arrangement with Rosemary A. Thurber and the Barbara Hogenson Agency. All rights reserved.
42

Exhibit card, “Marriage prescription.” Exhibit Supply Card, 1938.
475

Honeymoon photo, John Lennon and Yoko Ono, Bed-in, Montreal, 1969. Copyright © Bettmann/CORBIS.
178

Honeymoon photo, Queen Elizabeth and Prince Phillip, 1947. Copyright © Topical Press Agency / Hulton Royals Collection / Getty Images.
258

Illustration, “Harmonious Man” and “Harmonious Woman.” In Nelson Sizer and H. S. Drayton,
Heads and Faces and How to Study Them
, New York: Fowler & Wells, 1897, p.181.
331

Illustration, “Expanding Spiral of Open Marriage.” In Nena and George O’Neill,
Open Marriage: A New Life Style for Couples
. New York: M. Evans, 1972, p. 266.
407

Illustration, “Love Will Survive.” Clara Elsene Peck. In Minna Thomas Antrim,
Phrases, Mazes and Crazes of Love
. Philadelphia: George W. Jacobs, 1904, n.p.
287

Illustration, “Woman’s Chance of Marriage” chart. In E.B.B.,
A Letter to Young Ladies on Marriage
. Boston: Tuttle, Dennett & Chisholm, 1837, p. 9.
507

Movie still, Henry Fonda and Katharine Hepburn.
On Golden Pond
, 1981. Copyright © Rex USA/TV.
88

Movie still, Joe E. Brown and Jack Lemmon,
Some Like It Hot
, 1959. Reprinted by permission of MGM.
357

Painting, William Hogarth, “Marriage a La Mode, Scene II: Shortly After the Marriage,” 1743. Courtesy of the National Gallery, London.
312

Photograph, baseball cap. Irony Designs, 2013.
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Photograph, the Mistress Stone, by Anna Hanlon. Courtesy of the Royal Scottish Geographical Society.
343

Photograph, the Marriage Bureau, circa 1900. Courtesy of the Library of Congress.
454

Photograph, Queen Elizabeth and Prince Phillip, 2007. Copyright © Tim Graham / Getty Images News / Getty Images.
258

Postcards, authors’ collection.
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Poster, “Predicting Happiness in Marriage.” In Evelyn Millis Duvall and Reuben Hill,
When You Marry
. Boston: D. C. Heath, 1945, p. 119.
162

Print, Currier and Ives, “The Day before Marriage,” 1847. Courtesy of the Library of Congress.
100

Print, “Judge Thumb,” by James Gilray, 1782. Courtesy of the Library of Congress.
448

Prints, British mezzotints, “The Wedding Day,” and “6 Weeks After;” 1777. Copyright © The Trustees of the British Museum. All rights reserved.
171

Sheet music, “Don’t You Think It’s Time to Marry?” 1906.
467

Sheet music, “Honey on Our Honeymoon,” 1909.
175

Trade card, “My Wife and my mother-in-law,” 1885.
226

TV still, Audrey Meadows and Jackie Gleason,
The Honeymooners
. By permission of the Everett Collection.
46

TV still, Vivian Vance, Elvia Allman, and Lucille Ball,
I Love Lucy
, Copyright © CBS Broadcasting Inc.
498

Wedding photo, Jacqueline Bouvier and John Kennedy, 1953. Courtesy of the JFK Library. Copyright © 1953 Toni Frissell.
457

Wedding photo, Croatia couple, by Zvonimir Barisin. Reprinted with the permission of the photographer.
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Wedding photo, Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka, 2014. Photographed by Danielle Levitt. Reprinted by permission.
311

Wedding photo, Marley Klaus and Kevin Dowling, 1987. From “25 Years,”
The Heathen Learns
blog, May 9, 2012:
http://marleytheheathen.blogspot.com
. Courtesy of Marley Klaus.
199

Wedding photo, Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton, 1973. Copyright © William Lovelace / Hulton Archive / Getty Images.
77

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Jacket design by Jonathan Bush Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data The marriage book : centuries of advice, inspiration, and cautionary tales, from Adam and Eve to Zoloft / edited by Lisa Grunwald and Stephen Adler. —First Simon & Schuster hardcover edition.

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1. Marriage—Quotations, maxims, etc. I. Grunwald, Lisa. II. Adler, Stephen J.

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