The Marriage Book (81 page)

Cramer, Richard Ben.
Joe DiMaggio: The Hero’s Life
. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2000, pp. 367–68. Copyright 2000 by Richard Ben Cramer. Reprinted by permission of Simon & Schuster, Inc.
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Crane, George W. “Marital Rating Scale, Husband’s Chart,” and “Marital Rating Scale, Wife’s Chart.” In
Tests for Husbands and Wives
(pamphlet), 1939, pp. 1–8. Online at
http://www.scribd.com/doc/3086410/Tests-for-Husbands-and-Wives
.
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Curtis, Richard.
Four Weddings and a Funeral
, dir. Mike Newel. Channel Four Films, 1994.
358

Damon, Matt, and Ben Affleck.
Good Will Hunting
, dir. Gus Van Sant. Miramax Films, 1997.
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–46

Darwin, Charles. “This is the Question,” 1838. In John van Wyhe, ed.,
The Complete Work of Charles Darwin Online
. Online at
http://darwin-online.org.uk/content/record?itemID=CUL-DAR210.8.2
.
477
–79

David, Hal, and Burt Bacharach. “Wives and Lovers,” 1963. Copyright © 1963. Reprinted by permission of Sony Music Publishing.
194

David, Larry. “The Engagement.”
Seinfeld
, season 7, episode 1, air date September 21, 1995.
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–20

“A Death-Bed Marriage.”
Daily Evening Bulletin
(San Francisco), March 15, 1866, col. C. Online at Gale 19th Century U.S. Newspapers.
423

De Botton, Alain. “A Point of View: Why Books Do Not Prepare Us for Real Love.”
BBC News Magazine
, February 11, 2011. Online at
www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-12404332
.
291

“Declares Her Husband Was Jealous of Dog.”
Pittsburgh Press
, November 13, 1916, p. 8. Online at Google News.
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De Cleyre, Voltairine. “Sex Slavery,” 1890. Online at Molinari Institute Online Library.
http://praxeology.net/VC-SS.htm
.
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Defoe, Daniel.
Conjugal Lewdness; or, Matrimonial Whoredom: A Treatise concerning the Use and Abuse of the Marriage Bed
, 1727. Gainesville, FL: Scholars’ Facsimiles & Reprints, 1967, pp. 280–82.
399

Derenzy, Margaret Graves.
A Whisper to a Newly-Married Pair, from a Widowed Wife
, 1824. London: Wellington, Salop, 1824, pp. 97–98.
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Diana, Princess of Wales. Interview by Martin Bashir,
Panorama
, BBC1, November 1995, p. 198. Transcript online at
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/special/politics97/diana/panorama.html
.
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–215

Dickens, Charles.
Great Expectations
, 1861. Mineola, N.Y.: Dover Publications, 2001, pp. 43–45.
435
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Didion, Joan. Interview by Sara Davidson, “Playing It as It Lays.”
O: The Oprah Magazine
, November 2005. Online at ProQuest.
49

Dix, Dorothy. “Dorothy Dix Talks.”
Times-Picayune
(New Orleans), May 3, 1922, p. 12.
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Dixie Cup Advertisement,
Ladies’ Home Journal
, September, 1970
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The Don’t Sweat Guide for Newlyweds
. New York: Hyperion Books, 2003, p. 110.
314

“Don’ts for Husbands.”
Detroit Free Press
, November 22, 1891, p. 4. Online at ProQuest Historical Newspapers.
489

Douglass, Frederick. Finsbury Chapel speech, 1846. In
My Bondage and My Freedom
. New York: Miller, Orton & Mulligan, 1855, p. 409
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Dryden, John. “Why Should a Foolish Marriage Vow,” 1673. In Talia Felix, ed.,
Marriage à la Mode: With Original Music Restored.
Talia Felix, 2010, p. 5.
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Du Maurier, Daphne.
Rebecca
, 1938. New York: Avon Books, 1971, pp. 56–57. Copyright © 1938 and renewed © 1965 by Daphne du Maurier. Used by permission of Curtis Brown, Ltd. and Doubleday, an imprint of the Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, a division of Random House, LLC. All rights reserved.
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Dunbar, William. “Upon the Midsummer Eve, Merriest of Nights,” 15th century. In Conor McCarthy, ed. and trans.,
Love, Sex and Marriage in the Middle Ages: A Sourcebook
. New York: George Routledge, 2004, pp. 251–52.
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Duncan, Isadora.
My Life
. New York: Boni and Liveright, 1927, p. 187.
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“Dunmow Oath,” 1510. In Francis Grose and Thomas Astle, eds.,
The Antiquarian Repertory: A Miscellaneous Assemblage of Topography, History, Biography, Customs, and Manners Intended to Illustrate and Preserve Several Valuable Remains of Old Times
, vol. 3. London: Edward Jeffery, 1808, p. 343.
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Dunn, Stephen. “The Night the Children Were Away.” In
Local Time.
New York: William Morrow, 1986, pp. 42–43. Copyright © 1986 by Stephen Dunn. Reprinted by permission of the author.
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Dunton, John, ed.
The Post-Angel: Or, Universal Enlightenment,
vol. 1, March 1701, p. 200. Online at Eighteenth Century Journals: A Portal to Newspapers and Periodicals, c1685–1835 (Adam Matthew).
447

Dutch proverb, n.d. In Jon R. Stone, ed.,
The Routledge Book of World Proverbs
. New York: George Routledge, 2006, p. 447.
506

Duvall, Evelyn, and Sylvanus Duvall.
Saving Your Marriage
. New York: Public Affairs Pamphlets, 1954, p. 13.
231

Duvall, Evelyn Millis, and Reuben Hill. “Ways of Handling Conflict.” In
When You Marry
. Boston: D. C. Heath, 1945, p. 190.
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Earhart, Amelia. Letter to George Palmer Putnam, February 7, 1931. In
Letters From Amelia
,
1901–1937
, ed. Jean L. Backus, pp. 104–5. Boston: Beacon Press, 1982. Copyright © 1982 by Jean L. Backus. Reprinted by permission of Beacon Press, Boston.
364

E.B.B., Esq.
A Letter to Young Ladies on Marriage.
Boston: Tuttle, Dennett & Chisholm, 1837, pp. 8–9.
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Ebbutt, Blanche.
Don’ts for Husbands,
1913. London: A & C Black, 2007, pp. 2–34 passim.
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———.
Don’ts for Wives
, 1913. London: A & C Black, 2007, pp. 1–69 passim.
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Eddy, Mary Baker.
Science and Health.
Boston: Christian Scientist Publishing, 1875, p. 325.
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Editorial,
The National Advocate
, November 25, 1817, col. A. Online at Gale 19th Century U.S. Newspapers.
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Editorial,
The Raleigh Register
, June 22, 1850, col. B. Online at Gale 19th Century U.S. Newspapers.
308

Edward VIII. Abdication speech, December 11, 1936. Online at
http://www.historyplace.com/speeches/edward.htm
.
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Egyptian marriage contract, 200 BC. In “Trial Marriages 200 BC: Ancient Contracts Unearthed Reveal Curious Matrimonial Laws of Egypt.”
The Washington Post,
May 22, 1910, p. 10.
264

Einstein, Albert. “Conditions” for Mileva Marić, 1914. In Walter Isaacson,
Einstein: His Life and Universe
. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2007, pp. 185–86.
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Eliot, George.
Middlemarch: A Study of Provincial Life
, 1874. New York: Modern Library, 2000, p. 186.
103

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Romola
, vol. 3, 1863. New York: Croscup, 1896, p. 22. Online at Google Books.
340

Elizabeth I, 1563. Quoted in J. E. Neale,
Queen Elizabeth I
, 1934. London: Jonathan Cape, 1971, p. 143.
431

Ephron, Nora.
Heartburn
. New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1983, pp. 12–13.
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Estonian Proverb, date unknown. In Mineke Schipper,
Never Marry a Woman with Big Feet: Women in Proverbs from Around the World
. Amsterdam: Amsterdam University Press, 2006, p. 99.
437

Eubanks, Bob, and contestants.
The Newlywed Game
, air date circa 1972. Online at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qT4Xo3CAC0M.
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Euripides.
Medea
, 5th century BC, trans. Edward P. Coleridge,
Great Books of the Western World
, vol. 5. Chicago: Encyclopaedia Britannica, 1952, pp. 218–19.
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Exodus 20:14. The Holy Bible, Containing the Old and New Testaments. King James Version.
200

“The Family Circle.”
Ladies’ Repository,
September 1866, pp. 563–64.
488

“A Father’s Advice to His Daughter.”
Pennsylvania Inquirer and National Gazette
, August 24, 1843, col. C. Online at Gale 19th Century U.S. Newspapers.
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Faulkner, William.
Go Down, Moses
, 1940. New York: Vintage Books, 1973, pp. 107–8.
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———. Letter to the
New Orleans Item-Tribune
, April 4, 1925. In James G. Watson, “Faulkner’s ‘What Is the Matter with Marriage.’ ”
The Faulkner Journal
, vol. 5, no. 2 (Spring 1990), p. 7.
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