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suggestions, but don't look to them for the final word on what your dreams mean. Only you can interpret what a particular symbol means in your individual dreamworld. A dog, for instance, might symbolize a fierce and menacing presence in the dream of someone who has grown up with a fear of the animal, but appear as a friend and guide in the dream of a true animal lover. Again, it all depends on the context.
Although no two dreamers will derive the exact same meaning for every symbol, experimental dream research in this century has given us a way of dividing dream symbols into different categories along with some guidelines that will help you to recognize what these symbols mean in your particular dreamworld. Your dreaming mind, as director of several nightly movies, including a slightly longer "feature film" during the final stage of REM sleep, selects characters (and actors), dialogue, plot, and setting for a particular effect. The waking mind can then work backward, from the effect or emotion the dream contains to an analysis of each symbol and how it plays into the overall effect. In dreams, you'll find tragedy, comedy, and everything in between.
"A dream is the theater where the dreamer is at once scene, actor, prompter, stage manager, author, audience, and critic."
Carl Jung, Swiss psychiatrist and dream theorist
You may ask why, then, dreams can be so bizarre and difficult to figure out at times. For a moment, imagine you are in another country, where the culture and language are unknown to you. Things look familiar, but the customs surrounding them are totally different. This is the situation in your dreamworld. Words sound the same, but can have different meanings. The people you meet, the places you go, the things you see all appear familiar, but may in fact symbolize or represent other things,
 
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people, or emotions. You have your own individual dream language, devised by your subconscious to tell you stories that have special meaning to you. Dreams are valuable life experiences, and, like an anthropologist exploring a unique culture, you can observe them, learn from them, enjoy them, and even come to participate more actively in them.
Valuable Dream Areas to Explore
What can we gain from our dream travels? Here are some different types of dreams, with some suggestions about what they have to offer.
Nightmares
Nightmares are frightening dreams that reveal a fear we need to confront or acknowledge. Remembered more often than pleasant dreams, nightmares are defined by the intense feelings they cause, whatever the story line. But don't think of them as bad dreams: Although they bring up negative thoughts and images, they are a positive force in clearing up conflicts. Like the spider dream at the beginning of this chapter, a nightmare usually has an important message to convey, even if it may be so scary that a part of you wishes to forget it.
Message Dreams
Message dreams are dreams that convey some information you need about your current social, emotional, or physical life. These are teaching dreams in which someone is usually there to tell you something important directly: a teacher, a new announcer, or a clergyman giving you new information to apply to your waking life. At times, a message dream will come in the form of a disembodied voice (with no accompanying visual image); the dreamer may perceive this voice as a voice of the spirit or soul, or of God or an angel.
 
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Healing Dreams
Healing dreams are messages that point the way to better health, sometimes even ''diagnosing" a previously unidentified medical condition. How is this possible? True, it may seem like a premonition, but a healing dream is more likely the result of the subliminal perceptions we make throughout our days: our own physical health (or the physical condition of someone close to us, if the dream is about that person), information we've read, advertisements we've seen, and so forth. So a dream of rotting teeth that suggests the dreamer is due for a trip to the dentist could be the result of many things drawn from the dreamer's life: a dentist's appointment card found in a pocket, a commercial for fluoride rinse, a subtle pain in a back tooth. Only you, the dreamer, can decide whether the dream is offering a healing message. As you'll see later in this chapter, rotting teeth could symbolize something else entirely. It all depends on you, and what the symbol means in your life and in your unique dream language. Chapter 7 offers more discussion of healing dreams, including techniques for prompting or "incubating" these dreams.
Problem-Solving and Creative Dreams
Problem-solving and creative dreams offer a new way to look at a situation. Because your dreams take place within your own mind, you are free as a dreamer to sort through all the information and feelings surrounding a conflict or challenge, without the usual distractions of daily life. Your dreaming mind can go where it must to make connections with past experiences, imagine various scenarios, or even depict for you the real truth about an issue. There can be real value in "sleeping on it." Problem-solving dreams are the dreams that come after you ask your dreams to help you solve specific problems. They can also arrive spontaneously, as many creative dreams do, in response to your thinking about a difficult problem or perplexing issue the night of the
 
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dream. Many significant discoveries and new creations have arisen from this kind of dreamas chapter 7 reveals.
Mystical, Visionary, and Spiritual Dreams
Mystical, visionary, spiritual, or "high" dreams go beyond dealing with everyday events and concerns to access the dreamer's spirituality. The Tibetan Buddhists call them dreams of clarity. In their book
Exotic Dreams
, Stanley Krippner and Andre de Carvalho categorize these kinds of dreams in several ways: numinous (having "numen" or divine power), transpersonal (going beyond personal concerns into those of all humanity), transcendent (making contact with higher or divine knowledge), and spiritual (relating to the "spirit" or ultimate human values). These dreams often include exotic characters who have some universal meaning that is generally understood by all culturesa bird, a wise old woman, a monster. The spiritual aspects of these dream symbols were dismissed by Freud, who was antagonistic to organized religion, and by Adler, who was wary of anything occult in nature. Carl Jung, however, believed strongly in the power of dreamwork and spiritual practices to "cure souls.'' He referred to the universal characters in dreams as
archetypes
, attributing to them supernatural qualities and powerful aspects of the dreamer's personality. We call these characters dream helpers, beings who step in to show you the way or offer some new insight. It is quite rare for a dream to take on the added spiritual or mystical dimension of a visionary dream, but when it does happen, it will be clear to you that something special has transpired.
While infrequent, this kind of experience is readily available as a "spiritual exercise" to anyone regardless of religious orientation. And the more you focus on the spiritual aspect of your waking life, the more likely you are to have dreams related to
 
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spirituality. The Tibetan dream yoga tradition, which cultivates the experience of these kinds of dreams, recommends practicing meditation and other rituals during waking life to "clear the mind" for "higher" dreams of clarity during sleep. Further suggestions for cultivating spirituality in your dream life appear in chapter 7.
Completion Dreams
Completion dreams are another way to "sleep on it," serving to sort out the unfinished thoughts and emotions from the previous day or two. After a completion dream, you will wake up feeling resolved and refreshed, as though things are more in order than they were the night before. Sometimes, a recurring nightmare can become a completion dream if you are able to think about the content and pay attention to its meaning; you won't "need" the dream anymore once you have completed the thought, emotion, or experience that lay behind it.
Recurring Dreams
Recurring dreams repeat themselves with little variation in story or theme. They can be positive, as with an archetypal visionary dream, but they are more often nightmares, perhaps because nightmares depict a conflict that is unresolved; also, nightmares are more frequently remembered than other dreams.
Lucid Dreams
Lucid dreams are dreams in which the dreamer is aware of dreaming while the dream is occurring, and sometimes is able to make choices or otherwise influence the dream's outcome without awakening. These are very special dreams that occur spontaneously for some people, but that can be cultivated in others. (You may recall that the Senoi people of Malaysia encourage children to become lucid dreamers from a very young age.
 
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Spiritual Symbols
From time to time, you may have a dream that transports you into the realm of spirituality or visionary experience. If you want to interpret your dreams in a spiritual context, there are many common symbols to think about. Your own personal experience and religious background will determine what the symbols mean for you. The feeling you have upon awakening will give you more information concerning the particular meaning the symbol has for you. Pay special attention to any intense feeling or new meaning connected with the symbol.
Flower
Lotus flower of Hindu tradition
Golden flower of Taoism
Rose window of Christian cathedrals
Circle
Mandala of Tibetan Buddhism
Medicine wheel of Native Americans
Jewel
Blessed Pearl of Islam
Jeweled Net of Indra in Buddhism
Religious hero or heroine
Buddha in Buddhism
Jesus in Christianity
Moses in Judaism
Muhammad in Islam
Lord Krishna in Hinduism
Religious object
Wheel of Hinduism
Drum of the Sioux Indians
Cross of Christianity
Star of David of Judaism

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