The Anal Sex Position Guide (20 page)

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
directed by Tristan Taormino, Ernest Greene, and John Stagliano, produced by Evil Angel Productions, 1999, 238 minutes.

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women 2
directed by Tristan Taormino and Ernest Greene, produced by Evil Angel Productions, 2001, 135 minutes.

Uranus: Self Anal Massage for Men
directed and produced by Joseph Kramer, 1998, 40 minutes.

eroticmassage.com
This website of The New School of Erotic Touch features information on classes and videos about erotic massage, including anal and prostate massage.

fatalemedia.com
Fatale Media produces and distributes alternative erotic films, including
Bend Over Boyfriend
.

nina.com
Adult film star and sex educator Nina Hartley’s official website contains message boards where you can ask questions about anal sex and information about her sex-ed video series.

puckerup.com
Tristan Taormino’s sex advice website, which contains an archive of hundreds of questions and answers about anal sex, information about her books and videos, and sex advice message boards.

sexuality.org
Founded by the Society for Human Sexuality, this website contains an abundance of articles, advice, and resources for all things sexual.

sfsi.org
Got a question you’re too embarrassed to ask anyone else? San Francisco Sex Information to the rescue! This nonprofit organization’s website offers free, confidential, accurate, non-judgmental information about sex.

tinynibbles.com
Sex educator and author Violet Blue’s website contains smart, sexy advice on rimming, anal penetration, and strap-on sex.

vivid-ed.com
The educational imprint of Vivid Entertainment Group which produces sex ed videos for a new generation.

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

I want to thank Will Kiester, Jill Alexander, Rosalind Wanke, John Gettings, Laura Ross, and everyone at Quiver Books for all their hard work. Special thank to John Hays for putting Quiver in touch with me in the first place. Felice Newman of Cleis Press played an invaluable role as editor and publisher of my first book on anal sex, which, one might say, started it all!

My gratitude goes to Alison Tyler, M. Christian, and Rachel Kramer Bussel for contributing such incredibly sexy stories to the book.

Several amazing companies sent us the sex toys which appear in the book, and I want to thank them: Tony Levine and Pamela McKee at Big Teaze Toys (
bigteazetoys.com
) for providing the Tuyo vibrator; Greg DeLong of NJoy (
njoytoys.com
) for their gorgeous metal toys the Pure Plug and the PFun Plug (
p. 145
); Vixen Creations (
vixencreations.com
) for the Nexus dildo (
p. 146
), the Mistress dildos (
p. 106
), the Buddy and the Tristan butt plugs (
p. 105
); Carrie Gray at Aslan Leather (
aslanleather.com
) for providing the Wonder Woman (
p. 147
) and the Pleasure Principle (
p. 154
) strap-on harnesses; and Tantus (
tantussilicone.com
) for the anal beads (
p. 105
).

Thanks, as always, to my partner Colten for his patience, support, and inspiration.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Tristan Taormino is an award-winning author, columnist, editor, sex educator, and adult film director. She is the author of four books:
Opening Up: Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
;
True Lust: Adventures in Sex, Porn, and Perversion
;
Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
; and
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
. Her popular
Village Voice
column “Pucker Up,” which she has written since 1999, is nationally syndicated, and she is a columnist for
Hustler’s Taboo
. She is the creator and original series editor of
Best Lesbian Erotica
, which has won three Lambda Literary Awards. She runs her own adult film production company, Smart Ass Productions, and has directed more than a dozen adult films. She is currently an exclusive director for Vivid Entertainment. For Vivid, she directs a reality series called
Chemistry
and helms its sex education imprint, Vivid-Ed, for which she has written, produced, and directed several titles, including
The Expert Guide to Anal Sex
,
The Expert Guide to Oral Sex 1: Cunnilingu
s,
The Expert Guide to Oral Sex 2: Fellatio
, and
The Expert Guide to the G-Spot
. Tristan has been featured in more than 200 publications and has appeared on CNN, HBO’s
Real Sex
,
The Howard Stern Show
,
Loveline
,
Ricki Lake
, MTV, Fox News, The Discovery Channel, and on more than six dozen different radio shows. She lectures on sexuality, gender, feminism, and pornography at top colleges and universities, including Brown, Cornell, Columbia, Sarah Lawrence, Yale, Vassar, Smith, Wesleyan, New York University, University of California/Santa Barbara, and University of Wisconsin/Milwaukee. She teaches sex and relationship workshops around the world and runs two websites, puckerup.com and openingup.net. She lives in Upstate New York with her partner and their three dogs.

Text © 2009 Tristan
Taormino Photography © 2009 Quiver

First published in the USA in 2009 by
Quiver, a member of
Quayside Publishing Group
100 Cummings Center
Suite 406-L
Beverly, MA 01915-6101
www.quiverbooks.com

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized, in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, without prior permission in writing from the publisher.

The Publisher maintains the records relating to images in this book required by 18 USC 2257. Records are located at Rockport Publishers, Inc., 100 Cummings Center, Suite 406-L, Beverly, MA 01915-6101.

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ISBN-13: 978-1-59233-356-1
ISBN-10: 1-59233-356-7
eISBN-13: 978-1-61673-573-9

“Practice Makes Perfect” © 2008 by Alison Tyler and published with permission of the author.
“Wink” © 2008 by M. Christian and published with permission of the author.
“Win or Lose” © 2008 by Rachel Kramer Bussel and published with permission of the author.

Cover design: Holtz Design
Photography: Lucia Scarlatti
Printed and bound in Singapore