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Figure 6. Erect penis showing apex (or frenulum) 45

Figure 7. Pressing against the clitoral shaft, or the

“Michael Douglas” stroke 62

Figure 8. Placement of second hand, thumb at base of introitus 85

Figure 9. Finger of second hand placed gently at introitus 86

Figure 10. Pressing clitoris indirectly through the hood 94

Figure 11. Pressure on both sides of clitoral hood 94

Figure 12. Lying side-by-side with a partner 96

Figure 13. Pressure on perineum and mons 97

Figure 14. Applying pressure to his perineum while squeezing his penis 97

Figure 15. Exposing the clitoris—thumb of right hand positioned

on left side of hood 105

Figure 16. Exposing the clitoris—thumb of left hand positioned

on right side of hood 105

Figure 17. Hook right index finger under hood to fully expose

upper left quadrant of clitoris 106

Figure 18. Sitting position on bed (what’s depicted is for

a right-handed pleasure giver) 114

Figure 19. Playing with her pubic hair 118

Figure 20. Pressure on mons while stroking clitoris 125

Figure 21. Side-by-side position (what’s depicted is for

a right-handed pleasure giver) 126

Figure 22. Position of hands in side-by-side position 127

Figure 23. Surround stroke 128

Figure 24. Pressure on perineum to prevent ejaculation 148

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acknowledgments

We wonder if most people even read the Acknowledgments. It does not mat- ter. Acknowledging is mainly for those who are doing it. Of course, it is nice to receive someone’s “thank you,” but the one who benefits the most is the acknowledger.

We asked the publisher for our previous editor, Kelley Blewster, and are so pleased that she said yes. She takes our original streams of consciousness and makes them into precise and concise thoughts that hit their mark. She de- serves just as much credit as we do for this book.

We really appreciate Regena Thomashauer for her continued love and sup- port, and also for all of her “Sister Goddesses” who have donated their bodies for the cause. Many of the questions that we have addressed have come from them. We think that a person learns best from teaching, and we are so fortu- nate to be able to serve real desire in our capacity as teachers. We would also like to thank Dame Lori Sutherland for her kindness and support in sending desirous women to see us, and also for her own special desires.

We are thankful to the people at Hunter House Publishers, who have stuck by us enthusiastically through the years, including Kiran Rana, Jeanne Bron- dino, Alex Mummery, and Christina Sverdrup.

We have not forgotten how we got here and are continually indebted to our training at the hands of Vic and Cindy Baranco and the gang at Morehouse.

We would also like to thank illustrators Teri Sugg, Kim Black, and the folks at paintyourlife.com, who came through like champs.

We would like to express a sincere and loving appreciation to Bruce Thom- ashauer for his friendship and the scintillating ideas he shared with us over the phone.

I (Steve) am grateful to Dr. Loosli, who gave me exercises for my frozen shoulder, and to Clair Davies, author of
The Trigger Point Therapy Workbook,
which reliably keeps the pain away. A bright smile to Dr. Cliff Broshinsky, who

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worked on my painful gums and teeth and made them feel the best they have in years.

And, dear readers, we are most thankful to you for your appreciation of our works.

some Definitions to Know Up Front

There are a number of terms used throughout this book that come from our earlier works and that you, the reader, should be made familiar with right from the start:

EMO (extended massive orgasm):
An orgasm of great intensity that lasts for a long time—several minutes or even possibly hours.

IO (instant orgasm):
A woman’s ability to feel orgasmic by focusing her at- tention on the pleasure of her clitoris on or before the first touch.

peak (
n
):
The highest point reached in each cycle of an orgasm. As in a moun- tain range, there can be many peaks in an orgasm.

to peak (
v
):
To notice when the highest point of the orgasmic cycle is reached and to deliberately reduce the orgasm’s intensity by stopping or changing the stroke. From here, the giver of the orgasm can intentionally continue the or- gasm by creating more intensity, progressing toward another peak.

turn-on:
When a woman is in agreement with her desires, either sexual or otherwise, and can stimulate a response in her own or another person’s body to gratify those desires.

tumescence:
Derived from the Latin word tumor, which means “to swell” or “to engorge.” We use the term to indicate an increase in sexual energy, or, dur- ing an orgasm, an intensification of the energy that drives the orgasm. It is synonymous with the phrase “going up.”

detumescence:
A decrease in sexual energy. In an orgasm, the term refers to the waning of physical intensity. It is synonymous with the phrase “coming down.”

a touch of Heaven

It seems like only yesterday that we met, yet you look better now than you did then,

and then you were a ten.

Many years we have spent together and it still feels pure,

it still feels grand; there is still that same amour and even more.

I wake up and you are sleeping quietly, sweetly.

I kiss your cheek and you stir so neatly. I speak your name and you are ready to play; maybe first just coffee

and you will give me my way.

During the day I can see paradise in every scene, utopia in each step, and bliss with each breath.

There is no turning back, which is fine when you are there at my side; viewing you and the viewpoints you define make it wonderful to go on.

To touch you is to feel heaven, to experience ecstasy, to capture rapture in your magnificent texture.

The days may get on; perhaps we get older,

yet our love becomes stronger and lovelier and more encompassing.

You are and always will be my dear sweet Valentine.

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dedication

This book is dedicated to those who have been trailblazers on the journey toward pleasure, specifically dr. Vic baranco. it is also dedicated to those who have chosen this path.

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