The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy (27 page)

Sharing Sex Toys

Dry Kissing

Deep Kissing

Ejaculation in Eyes

Ejaculation on Exterior of Female Genitals

Ejaculation in Nose

Anal to Oral Contact (Penis or Sex Toy)

Unprotected Anal/Vaginal Contact

Unprotected Penis/Vagina Sex

Unprotected Anal Sex

CHAPTER
13

Resources

The listings below, organized by chapter, are intended to help you translate your fantasies into real-life sexual encounters. The list ends with mail order and retail outlets in the U.S., Canada, U.K., and Europe, where you can buy sex toys, safer sex supplies, and other accoutrements. And if you want to learn more about the explicit adult videos listed in each section, or simply about how to watch porn together, pick up a copy of my book
The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn.

Chapter 1:
Choose Your Own Adventure

Popular Fantasy Themes

      
BOOKS, EROTIC FICTION:

            
Sweet Life: Erotic Fantasies for Couples
(1 and 2), and
Taboo
, Violet Blue

            
Naughty Stories from A to Z
(1 and 2);
Down and Dirty; Bondage on a Budget; Naked Erotica
, Alison Tyler

            
Best Women's Erotica
series, Violet Blue

            
Aqua Erotica
, Mary Anne Mohanraj

            
Wicked Words Black Lace Short Story Collection
(series; 1–10), Kerri Sharp

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality,
Lonnie Barbach

      
WEBSITES, EROTIC FICTION:

            
Clean Sheets,
www.cleansheets.com

            
Custom Erotica Source,
www.customeroticasource.com

            
Nerve,
www.nerve.com

            
Very Koi,
www.satinslippers.com

When Fantasies Make You Feel Bad

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Erotic Mind,
Jack Morin

            
Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma,
Staci Haines

      
VIDEOS, INSTRUCTIONAL:

            
Healing Sex: Finding Pleasure and Intimacy After Surviving Sexual Abuse
(S.I.R. Video)

Chapter 2:
Fantasies for One

A Tool for Men: The Squeeze Technique

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know,
Douglas Abrams and Mantak Chia

A Tool for Women: Your Vibrator

      
BOOKS, NONFICTION:

            
Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman's Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure
, Sadie Allison

            
Sex For One: The Joy of Selfloving,
Betty Dodson

            
The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
, Mikaya Hart

The Golden Rules of Anal Masturbation