The Power of the Herd (82 page)

Rashid, Mark,
76–77
,
86
,
131

rationalism,
156
,
232–33
,
283–84

Reagan, Nancy,
26
,
35

Reagan, Ronald,
25–28
,
49–50
,
394

Reagan Democrats,
49

Recovering the Soul
(Dossey),
407

Rector, Barbara,
408

Redford, Robert,
178

reincarnation,
124
,
171
,
369

relationships

boundary setting for,
309–10

emotions for strengthening,
270

horses and improvement in,
22

mending, and emotional heroism,
400

myth and,
355–56

as power source,
23–24

See also
human-animal bond; human-equine relationships

relaxation,
39
,
43
,
270
,
285–86

religion

human-equine relationships in,
406

power and,
154–58

shamanic acts in,
224–25

shame as Power Tool in,
217

See also specific religion

renewal,
19–21

See also
Sacrifice and Renewal, Cycle of

resonance,
42

Resonant Leadership
(Boyatzis and McKee),
16
,
20

resource management,
324–25

retaliation,
205–9
,
250
,
395

Revelation, Book of,
406

revenge.
See
retaliation

Revolution in Horsemanship, The
(Miller and Lamb),
84–85

Riding between the Worlds
(Kohanov),
234
,
262

Riding with Reagan
(Barletta),
25

Riesman, Paul,
142–45
,
152

Rifkin, Jeremy,
130

risk management,
14
,
238–43

Roach, Steve,
21

Roberts, Monty,
81
,
412

“rock back and sigh” technique,
311
,
327

Rolle, Renate,
90

Rosenberg, Shelley,
153–54
,
220–21
,
360
,
387

Roush, Carol,
391
,
393

sabbaticals,
112
,
130

Sacrifice and Renewal, Cycle of,
18
,
19–20

Sacrifice Syndrome,
16–18

sadness,
237
,
246–47
,
257–59
,
274

Sage (horse),
75–76

Sagrada Familia (Barcelona, Spain),
7–8
,
11
,
17

Saint Peter's Basilica (Rome, Italy),
8

Sala, Fabio,
39–40

Salovey, Peter,
35

Sanctus (horse),
356
,
357
,
359

sarcasm,
40
,
243
,
303
,
307
,
381

Sarmatians,
90

Scanlan, Lawrence,
43

scapegoating,
251
,
393

Schwartz, Gary,
409

science,
157
,
175
,
202
,
221–22

Scooter (horse),
76

Scythians,
90–91

Secret Service,
25–28

Seely, Susan,
262

self, false vs. true,
353

See also
ego

Selfish Gene, The
(Dawkins),
102

sensations

baseline reading for,
294

dialog with,
293–94

mapping,
286–89
,
293

sexual revolution,
2

Shadowfax (horse),
75–77

shamanism,
224–25
,
405
,
407

Shamanism
(Eliade),
407

Shambo, Leigh,
261–62

shame,
303

-based retaliation,
250

constructive alternatives,
218–21

destructive behavior as result of,
216–17

guilt vs.,
217
,
248–49

messages behind,
249
,
251–52
,
272

nonverbal communication of,
381

objectification/projection and,
210
,
211
,
216

as Power Tool,
210
,
248
,
249
,
389

projected,
252

transformation and,
221–22

at workplace,
216–18
,
220
,
252

shame resilience,
220–21

sharo
ceremony (Fulani tradition),
208

described,
137–38

as emotional heroism,
390–92

love expressed through,
142
,
144

as metaphor,
391
,
394

power channeled through,
138–39

vulnerability and,
142

Sherman, Mary,
261

Siddhartha Gautama.
See
Buddha

Simmons EQ Profile,
256
,
372–73

Simonds, Mary Ann,
73–74

Siri (speech recognition software),
351

skepticism,
171–72

Skilling, Jeffrey,
102

slavery,
18
,
204
,
214–15

Smartest Guys in the Room, The
(film),
101–2

Smartest Guys in the Room, The
(McLean and Elkind),
101
,
102–3

Smreck, Rick,
284

sociability,
103–5

social Darwinism,
106–7

social evolution,
196

social intelligence

archaic power strategies,
201–3
(see
also
Stone Age Power Tools)

body scan as tool for,
292–96

boundary setting vs. assertiveness,
320

defined,
36

empathic insights and,
36–38

feelings read through,
276

horse training and,
154

human lack of,
181

shamanic acts,
224–25

skills,
3

sociopaths and,
45

See also
emotional intelligence

Social Intelligence
(Goleman),
34
,
36
,
277

socially intelligent power, horses as metaphor for,
1

sociopathy,
43–45
,
189
,
202
,
248

sociosensual awareness,
37

somatic intelligence,
286

Sorensen, E. Richard,
37

Soul's Code, The
(Hillman),
358

space

emotional,
307
,
313
,
319

personal/physical,
307–12
,
318–19

professional,
312

time,
313

Sparky (horse),
316–17

spindle cells,
33–34
,
36
,
37

Spirit (horse),
75–76
,
356–57
,
358–60
,
367

stallions,
149–52
,
179

stay-longer-and-stay-thoughtful technique,
348–49
,
397

Stone Age Power Tools

avoidance techniques,
222–24

need to change,
201

objectification/projection,
209–16

predatory dominance,
203–5

removal of, and horse wisdom,
226

retaliation,
205–9

shame/blame,
216–22

Story of Mary Washington, The
(Harland),
63

stress

pets as buffer to,
186–88

“tend and befriend” response to,
140

stress tests,
186–88

Stuart, Charles,
59

stud colts,
74
,
149–52

Such Is the Real Nature of Horses
(film),
74

Suddhodana (Indian king),
167–68
,
170

suicidal urge,
251
,
267–68
,
274

SUNY Buffalo,
187

superego,
354

“survival of the fittest,”
74
,
76–77
,
86
,
121
,
261
,
334
,
366

Sussman, Karen,
74

Swedish University of Agricultural Sciences,
32–33

Swiffer (dirt magnet),
201
,
202

Swift, Sally,
165

Syevertsoff (naturalist),
104–5

Tabula Rasa (horse).
See
Rasa (horse)

“tall poppy syndrome,”
253

Tanacharison (Indian chief),
64–65
,
204
,
388

Taoism,
84
,
113
,
154

aggressive behavior of adherents of,
157

appeal of,
172

nonpredatory wisdom of,
159–62
,
205

wu-wei
in,
174–75

Tao of Equus, The
(Kohanov),
36–37
,
111
,
164
,
264
,
407

Tao Te Ching,
84
,
159
,
161

Taylor, Frederick,
46

Taylor, Shelley E.,
140–41

teamwork skills

consensual leadership and,
386

interpersonal strife,
301–2

resonance,
42

task delegation,
299

technology,
129–30
,
156

Teich, Howard,
358

telepathy,
33

Tellington-Jones, Linda,
165
,
178

“tend and befriend” approach,
140
,
141
,
158

tension,
285–86
,
300
,
364

Teresa, Mother,
18

Thatcher, Margaret,
394

Third Industrial Revolution, The
(Rifkin),
130

Trail of Tears,
197

training, lack of,
306

transference,
212–14
,
215
,
216

trauma survivors.
See
abuse/trauma survivors

Trenton (NJ), Battle of (1776),
58–59

Trenton (NJ), Battle of (1777),
52–53

triggers,
303–4

trust,
343–44

Trut, Lyudmila,
117–18

Truxton (horse),
194–95

T-Touches,
178

twins,
356–60

Ukraine,
89
,
90

unconscious behavior patterns,
2

United States

antigovernment sentiments as projection in,
215–16

destructive behavior in,
199

modern psyche of,
196

University of Arizona,
408

University of California (Los Angeles),
235

University of Parma (Italy),
31–32

unspeakable, communicating the,
164–66

urban lifestyle.
See
city life

Uvnäs Moberg, Kerstin,
119–21
,
122
,
140
,
141

Valley Forge (PA),
65–67
,
68
,
70–71
,
192

vasopressin,
122–23

Vavra, Robert,
74

vegetarianism,
81–82

verbal communication

boundary setting and,
317–21

cultural emphasis on,
34
,
46
,
49
,
156
,
277–78

limitations of,
46
,
51

multiple meanings in,
237

Veterinary Journal,
32–33

Vietnam War,
60

Vigneaud, Vincent du,
119

violence, acts of,
95–96
,
388–89
,
391–92

vision

leadership and,
13

multigenerational thinking and,
7–10

visionaries,
2–3

emotional heroism of,
259

intersubjectivity and,
48–49

nonverbal genius of,
173

qualities needed by,
51

religion and,
157–58

skepticism needed by,
171–72

suffering experienced by,
13–14
,
15
,
116
,
157
,
411–12

See also
innovative leadership

vocal tone,
299–300
,
315

Vonderfecht, Heather,
262

vulnerability,
144
,
208

-based trust,
343–44

defined,
242

fear vs.,
237
,
238–39
,
295
,
340–41
,
362–63

messages behind,
242
,
271

as Power Tool,
242–43
,
304–5
,
342
,
343

use of term,
342–43

vulnerability, tolerance for (Guiding Principle
5
),
230