The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration of Language to Manifest the Life You Desire (21 page)

considered the “big dreamer.” Anything considered “di-

vine” is blissful or heavenly as the idealistic big-dreamer

energies of the 9 are called forth; “Meeting the queen

would be simply divine!” In the negative, “divine” loses

its dreamer quality, taking on a more practical and nar-

row-minded view as the critical and opinionated 9 takes

charge; “If there is such a thing as divine intervention,

now would be the time I could use some proof.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

174 Top Positive and Negative Words

Dream (5)

Meaning:
“Dream” vibrates to the 5, the number of the

heart, emotions, and compassionate “freedom of ex-

pression” energy. As an erratic and free-flowing energy,

the 5 affords us the ability to imagine outside the box or

“dream big.” The positive 5 vibration acts as a window

to the heart and soul of who we are, allowing us to see

clearly what our spiritual self wants us to do. In the neg-

ative, we dream through the lens of the power-hungry,

dominating, and bossy 5 energy.

Positive: loving, sensitive, irregular, artistic, free-

dom-seeking, passionate, and flexible.

Negative: uncertain, power-hungry, dominating, bossy,

withdrawn, and moody.

Dynamic (6)

Meaning:
“Dynamic” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. In creative mode

with the 6 energy, “dynamic” is full of life and is moti-

vated by the bigger picture with the creative visionary at

the wheel. Those who display the trait of being dynamic

often embody the optimistic and forward-thinking posi-

tive qualities of the 6; “She’s such a dynamic individual,

a real firecracker and so outside-the-box with her think-

ing.” In the negative, “dynamic” acts as more of a tool

or mask as the people-pleasing 6 takes the stage; “She’s

such a show-off in front of the boss.”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Top Positive and Negative Words 175

Easy (5)

Meaning:
“Easy” vibrates to the 5, the number of the

heart, emotions, and compassionate “freedom of ex-

pression” energy. As an erratic and free-flowing energy,

“easy” has the freedom to bypass all obstacles; “It’s easy

to express my emotions when I’m free to put it into my

own words.” In the negative, the uncertain, withdrawn,

and moody 5 comes out, giving “easy” a whiny over-

tone; “It’s not as easy as it looks, you know.”

Positive: loving, sensitive, irregular, artistic, free-

dom-seeking, passionate, and flexible.

Negative: uncertain, power-hungry, dominating, bossy,

withdrawn, and moody.

Enjoy (6)

Meaning:
“Enjoy” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. The 6 is a nurturing

energy, direct in an outward way by nurturing others

but also in an inward way by nurturing the self; “I en-

joyed every moment of that experience.” In the nega-

tive, “enjoy” brings forth the judgmental and critical 6;

“I can’t enjoy myself under these circumstances.”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

176 Top Positive and Negative Words

Essence (7)

Meaning:
“Essence” vibrates to the 7, the deep, philosophical, teaching and learning number of truth-seeker en-

ergy. Working through the truth-seeker 7 vibration, use

the word to get to the core or “essence” of anything;

“The essence of her nature is to be harmonious.” In the

negative, the skeptical and distrustful 7 turns “essence”

into a fact-seeker; “I’m going to get to the essence of her

true motivations.”

Positive: wise, contemplative, achiever, truth-seeking, de-

termined, and hands-on.

Negative: stubborn, overactive, distrustful, hesitant,

skeptical, and loner.

Essential (5)

Meaning:
“Essential” vibrates to the 5, the number of the heart, emotions, and compassionate “freedom of expression” vibration. When something is essential, it is

vital or fundamental. The erratic, free-flowing, free-

dom-seeking 5 allows you to strive for and acquire your

essential piece of the puzzle in your own way without

demanding it; “It’s essential for me to have peace and

harmony in my life to feel balanced.” In the negative,

the bossy 5 demands you must have an essential person,

thing, or result; “It’s essential that everyone be onboard

with this.”

Positive: loving, sensitive, irregular, artistic, free-

dom-seeking, passionate, and flexible.

Negative: uncertain, power-hungry, dominating, bossy,

withdrawn, and moody.

Top Positive and Negative Words 177

Exactly (9)

Meaning:
“Exactly” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsi-

ble for all the incredible achievements seen in the previous

century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999 had at

least one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most active

mental number, the highest change vibration, and consid-

ered the “big dreamer.” The black-and-white, right-and-

wrong quality of 9 gives “exactly” its matter-of-fact and

justice-seeking qualities; “Exactly! I think we’re on the

same page.” In the negative, the judgmental, critical, and

opinionated 9 passes judgment and forces its opinion;

“That’s not exactly what I had in mind.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

178 Top Positive and Negative Words

Exceptional (7)

Meaning
: “Exceptional” vibrates to the 7, the deep, philosophical, teaching and learning, truth-seeker energy. You

are most exceptional when you are standing in and liv-

ing your own truth, which is the essence of the 7 vibra-

tion as the truth-seeker. To be “exceptional” is to be

extraordinary, and that is only possible when we are re-

vealing our uniqueness or truth; “That was an excep-

tional piano performance tonight; we all loved it!” In the

negative, as the most active physical-plane energy, the 7

shifts from the inner to the outer, living in a state of

over-activity as a means of striving to be “exceptional”;

“I’m exceptional at what I do because I’ve worked day

and night to get there.”

Positive: wise, contemplative, achiever, truth-seeking, de-

termined, and hands-on.

Negative: stubborn, overactive, distrustful, hesitant,

skeptical, and loner.

Top Positive and Negative Words 179

Exciting (1)

Meaning:
“Exciting” vibrates to the 1, with the isolated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy. The 1 is

the only number not divisible by any other number so it

is a stand-alone energy. When something feels exciting,

it is usually a new experience or a different take on a fa-

miliar experience. As the number of new beginnings

and the pioneer, 1 is the essence of “exciting”; “It’s excit-

ing to finally be hitting the road on this adventure!” In

the negative, the more physical, self-absorbed, and ego-

centric traits of the 1 want to create something exciting

through selfishly gratifying experiences; “It’s so exciting

and such a rush to be center stage.”

Positive: verbal self-expression, initiate, action, ambi-

tious, determined, and pioneering.

Negative: aggressive, egocentric, overly driven, self-ab-

sorbed, overachieving, and single-focused.

180 Top Positive and Negative Words

Fantastic (3)

Meaning:
“Fantastic” vibrates to the 3, the intellectual number of imagination, memory, and inspiration. The 3

also represents unity or coming together. “Fantastic” is a

reflection of the imaginative and inspirational 3; “It is so

fantastic to finally be living my dream.” In the negative,

the self-doubting and self-critical nature of the 3 steals

the thunder from “fantastic,” and it becomes something

unbelievable rather than incredible; “That’s a fantastic

idea but it doesn’t seem feasible.”

Positive: analytical, intelligent, humorous, social, sensi-

tive, observant, unity, and inspirational.

Negative: critical, vain, grandeur, self-doubting, self-criti-

cal, overanalyzing, and indecisive.

Flourish (9)

Meaning:
“Flourish” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is respon-

sible for all the incredible achievements seen in the

previous century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999

had at least one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most

active mental number, the highest change vibration, and

considered the “big dreamer.” To flourish is to grow and

thrive, calling upon the ambitious big-dreamer energies

of the 9; “It’s important to allow your children to flour-

ish in their own way and in their own time.” In the nega-

tive, the opinionated, judgmental, and critical 9 is

dominant; “She can’t flourish under those conditions.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

Top Positive and Negative Words 181

Fun (5)

Meaning:
“Fun” vibrates to the 5, the number of the heart, emotions, and compassionate “freedom of expression”

vibration. The erratic, free-flowing, freedom-seeking,

and flexible 5 is the heart and soul of “fun”; “That was

so much fun! I haven’t been that wild and crazy in

years.” In the negative, the power-hungry 5 turns “fun”

into a self-gratifying, pleasure-seeking campaign;

“C’mon, let’s go for it. I don’t care what people think,

it’s so much fun.”

Positive: loving, sensitive, irregular, artistic, free-

dom-seeking, passionate, and flexible.

Negative: uncertain, power-hungry, dominating, bossy,

withdrawn, and moody.

Gentle (9)

Meaning:
“Gentle” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsible for

all the incredible achievements seen in the previous cen-

tury; everyone born between 1889 and 1999 had at least

one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most active mental

number, the highest change, and considered the “big

dreamer.” In the positive, the responsible and humanitar-

ian 9 gives “gentle” its softness; “Be gentle on her, she’s

been hurt enough already.” In the negative, the opinion-

ated and narrow-minded 9 gives “gentle” a tougher exte-

rior; “I’m as gentle as I can be with her given the behavior

she’s displayed lately.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

182 Top Positive and Negative Words

Glowing (6)

Meaning:
“Glowing” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. “Glowing” is the

embodiment of the creatively expressive visionary num-

ber 6. When you are engulfed in your own creative ex-

pression, you are glowing from the inside out; “She was

glowing after her performance last night.” In the nega-

tive, “glowing” is often used as more of a people-pleas-

ing tactic; “You’re glowing! Did you go to the spa?”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Grace (7)

Meaning:
“Grace” vibrates to the 7, the deep, philosophical, teaching and learning, truth-seeker energy. To have or exercise grace is to capture the essence of the 7 vibration it-

self as the number of deeper wisdom and truth. When

you express true grace, you are drawing upon your inner

wisdom; it is not an expression of your personality, but

rather your soul. In the negative, “grace” becomes an act

or a mask representing your personality qualities. The dis-

trustful, isolating, loner qualities of the 7 emerge, trans-

forming “grace” from selfless soul expression to ego-based

superiority, withholding mercy, charity, or forgiveness as a

means of control.

Positive: wise, contemplative, achiever, truth-seeking, de-