The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration of Language to Manifest the Life You Desire (29 page)

vous and dread meeting with the acting scouts, but I’m

fairly confident I can ace the performance.”

Positive: loving, sensitive, irregular, artistic, free-

dom-seeking, passionate, and flexible.

Negative: uncertain, power-hungry, dominating, bossy,

withdrawn, and moody.

250 Top Positive and Negative Words

Elusive (3)

Meaning:
“Elusive” vibrates to the 3, the intellectual number of imagination, memory, and inspiration. The 3 also

represents unity or coming together. In the negative, the 3

is wishy-washy due to its self-doubt, self-criticism, and in-

decisive traits. Many things become elusive to the nega-

tive 3 due to the outlook it holds; “True happiness has

always been elusive because I’m so self-conscious.” In the

positive, the intelligent, imaginative, and inspirational 3 is curious about that which appears to be elusive; “I’ve always had a fascination for the mysterious and elusive

things in life. Makes life exciting and an adventure!”

Positive: analytical, intelligent, humorous, social, sensi-

tive, observant, unity, and inspirational.

Negative: critical, vain, grandeur, self-doubting, self-criti-

cal, overanalyzing, and indecisive.

Empty (7)

Meaning:
“Empty” vibrates to the 7, the deep, philosophical, teaching and learning, truth-seeker energy. In the negative, the 7 is distrustful, hesitant, and skeptical, often feeling emptiness if its fragile sense of trust is broken; “My

heart feels empty inside after the way he left.” In the posi-

tive, the 7 is forever the truth-seeker, wanting to reveal the deeper meaning in all things; “I need to uncover why I’m

still feeling so empty inside, despite the great promotion I

just received.”

Positive: wise, contemplative, achiever, truth-seeking, de-

termined, and hands-on.

Negative: stubborn, overactive, distrustful, hesitant,

skeptical, and loner.

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Excessive (3)

Meaning:
“Excessive” vibrates to the 3, the intellectual number of imagination, memory, and inspiration. The 3

also represents unity or coming together. The negative 3

is very familiar with being excessive and is frequently

guilty of over-the-top self-doubt and self-criticism as

well as being overly critical of others; “That’s a bit exces-

sive, don’t you think? There’s a time and a place for such

inappropriate behavior, and it’s not here.” The positive 3

is also known for being excessive in terms of imaginative

and inspirational energy. The 3 is often called the bipolar

number due to its extreme positive and negative sides; “I

know my enthusiasm can be a bit excessive, but I get so

excited when it comes to new ideas.”

Positive: analytical, intelligent, humorous, social, sensi-

tive, observant, unity, and inspirational.

Negative: critical, vain, grandeur, self-doubting, self-criti-

cal, overanalyzing, and indecisive.

Fear (3)

Meaning:
“Fear” vibrates to the 3, the intellectual number of imagination, memory, and inspiration. The 3 also represents unity or coming together. In the negative, “fear” is

based in the self-doubting, self-critical, and indecisive en-

ergies of the 3; “I fear I’ll lose everything if I take that

chance.” In the positive, the inspirational and imaginative

energies of the positive 3 come flooding back in, giving

fear less power over you; “I have a fear of spiders but I’m

willing to do what it takes to overcome it.”

Positive: analytical, intelligent, humorous, social, sensi-

tive, observant, unity, and inspirational.

Negative: critical, vain, grandeur, self-doubting, self-criti-

cal, overanalyzing, and indecisive.

252 Top Positive and Negative Words

Flaw (6)

Meaning:
“Flaw” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. In the negative, the

critical and judgmental 6 points out the flaw like the ele-

phant in the room; “It’s a great plan, but I see just one

minor flaw with the strategy.” In the positive, the

peace-making, visionary energy of the 6 shows you the

bigger picture and that there are no mistakes or flaws,

only choices; “You may see a flaw but I think you’re per-

fect and just as you should be.”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Force (2)

Meaning:
“Force” vibrates to the 2, the number of intuition, sensitivity, cooperation, and dualistic energy. In

the negative, the dualistic, opposing, or separated en-

ergy of the 2 makes “force” a dueling power struggle;

“I’ll have to use all my willpower and force to kick this

habit.” In the positive, “force” becomes a harmonious,

cooperative, and supportive energy, embracing the posi-

tive qualities of the 2 vibration; “Together we’re a force

to be reckoned with.”

Positive: balance, cooperation, sensitive, intuitive, sup-

portive, and harmonious.

Negative: contrast, codependent, uncertain, submissive,

passive, and hypersensitive.

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Frustration (8)

Meaning:
“Frustration” vibrates to the 8, the number of wisdom, independence, confidence, and manifestation. As

the most active soul-plane number, 8 has a direct link to

the spiritual realm, creating a sense of wholeness and

completeness. As the independent number, the negative 8

tends to suffer from episodes of frustration, especially in

situations where it is smothered or apprehended; “She

causes me such frustration when she won’t hear me out.”

In the positive, the wise and assured 8 understands that

whatever is causing the feeling of frustration is either

temporary or for a deeper purpose; “There’s frustration

at the office now but things will smooth out once the new

employees settle in.”

Positive: wise, confident, assertive, independent, mani-

festing, assured, and loving.

Negative: detached, selfish, greedy, dominating, bossy,

and attention-seeking.

254 Top Positive and Negative Words

Grief (9)

Meaning:
“Grief ” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsible

for all the incredible achievements seen in the previous

century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999 had at

least one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most active

mental number, the highest change vibration, and consid-

ered the “big dreamer.” In the negative, “grief ” is misera-

ble and full of anguish from the self-imposed idealistic

limitations set by viewing the situation through the nar-

row-minded, black-and-white, negative 9 vibration; “He

gave her grief for not having it done to his specifications.”

In the positive, the softener and less judgmental humani-

tarian 9 comes through, changing the misery of the nega-

tive grief into a hopeful scenario that will pass soon; “I’m

feeling grief now, but I know it’s just temporary as a part

of loss.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

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Guilt (6)

Meaning:
“Guilt” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. In the negative,

“guilt” plays the blame game, focused on passing judg-

ment and being critical of actions of the individual or

others; “I carry a sense of guilt from not telling her how

I really felt before she died.” In the positive, you are able

to see past the guilt and view the bigger picture through

the visionary energy of the 6; “I’m releasing my feelings

of guilt about this situation because I know it really

didn’t have anything to do with my actions.”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Hard (4)

Meaning:
“Hard” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. In the negative,

“hard” embodies the impatient and self-absorbed energy

of the 4, creating an obstacle when there really isn’t one;

“It’s just too hard, I can’t do it!” In the positive, the en-

during, progressive, and stable energies of the 4 trans-

form “hard” into something that is tough but not

unbreakable; “This course is hard work, but nothing I

can’t handle.”

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

256 Top Positive and Negative Words

Hassle (1)

Meaning:
“Hassle” vibrates to the number 1, with the isolated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy.

The 1 is the only number not divisible by any other

number so it is a stand-alone energy. “Hassle” in the

negative wears the self-absorbed and single-focused 1 en-

ergy; “It’s too much of a hassle for me to be bothered

with their nonsense.” In the positive, to the pioneering,

determined, and ambitious 1, nothing is too much of a

hassle; “As much as it’s a hassle, I know it’s a part of the

plan and needs to be done to get there.”

Positive: verbal self-expression, initiate, action, ambi-

tious, determined, and pioneering.

Negative: aggressive, egocentric, overly driven, self-ab-

sorbed, overachieving, and single-focused.

Hate (7)

Meaning:
“Hate” vibrates to the 7, the deep, philosophical, teaching and learning, truth-seeker energy. In the negative, when you think, speak, or write “hate,” it is compa-

rable to being energetically stripped bare. It is a volatile

inner-change vibration, revealing much truth about the

object of “hate”; “I hate you!” In the positive, “hate” is

softened as it is able to draw from the deeper wisdom

and truth of the 7; “I’ve come to realize I don’t hate her;

it’s just her behavior that’s challenging at times.”

Positive: wise, contemplative, achiever, truth-seeking, de-

termined, and hands-on.

Negative: stubborn, overactive, distrustful, hesitant,

skeptical, and loner.

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Helpless (6)

Meaning:
“Helpless” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. In the negative,

“helpless” is working through the people-pleasing and

pessimistic energy of the 6. When you feel helpless, you

feel powerless to make a change. Being the people-pleas-

ing pessimist, it is easy to feel helpless because you are not able to see the bigger picture; “I feel so helpless to change

this relationship but I don’t want to hurt him.” In the pos-

itive, “helpless” is seen in a wider view through the lens

of the visionary 6 vibration; “There’s no need to feel help-

less in this situation; you have all the help you need to

move forward.”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Hesitate (6)

Meaning:
“Hesitate” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. Taking on the

doubtful and pessimistic energies of the negative 6, “hesi-

tate” is uncertain or unwilling to move forward; “I hesi-

tate to speak my mind in those meetings because I’m not

sure how they’ll respond to my assertiveness.” In the pos-

itive, the visionary 6 steps forward to clear the clouds for a better view of what is best in the bigger picture; “I’m not

going to hesitate this time; I know it has to be said.”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

258 Top Positive and Negative Words

Hinder (4)

Meaning:
“Hinder” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. “Hinder” means to

hold back or delay. The impatience factor associated with

the negative 4 vibration gives “hinder” its creative ability

to manifest obstacles and fabricate excuses; “Whenever I

try to get this done, something always comes up to hinder

my progress.” In the positive, the enduring and progres-

sive energies of the positive 4 gives “hinder” a means to

overcome obstacles; “Nothing is going to hinder me from

making it all the way through this course.”