Naughty Secrets (10 page)

My husband says he never masturbates on his own but he has played with himself once or twice with me. I find it so erotic
to watch a man pleasure himself. It gives me insight as to what he likes and what works for him.

To get in the mood for my daily masturbation session I think of one of the men I’ve talked with on the Net whom I have special
feelings for. I’ll stretch out on the bed, sometimes with a rubber dildo or sometimes just using my hand stroking my clit,
and relax and fantasize about how it might be with him there with me.

Sometimes I masturbate in the morning when I first awaken. I’ll lie there half asleep, using one hand on my satin sleep shirt
to caress my nipples while the other steals down to my mound, allowing my fingers to slip into my wetness. I slowly stroke
my clit dreaming of my chosen partner, imagining him beside me there in bed.

I’ve asked some of the men I speak to on-line about if it would turn them on to see me masturbate for them, because I thought
it might be a turnoff thinking they weren’t enough for me. Surprisingly to me they were very positive about it.

I masturbate several times a week when I’m alone, but less often when my partner and I are together, although we do like to
do it together. Sometimes we even do it over the phone since ours is a long-distance relationship.

Sure, I masturbate from time to time. When I was married my wife knew and at first she thought it was insulting and gross.
It took a while but I convinced her it was a good thing to do. Eventually she grew to like it and wanted to watch. Now that
we are divorced I have heard from her several times as a friend that she appreciates my teaching her to be less inhibited.

My routine is to think of a girl I know. A lot of times it is an undergrad I am tutoring or someone I see around the campus.
I imagine being seduced as I try to tutor her. At other times I dream that I’m seducing a pretty little freshman.

A lot of times, though, I am tricked into a compromising situation and raped by a woman with a strap-on. I use a lot of lotion
and, as I stroke, my other hand cups my testicles, my back arches off the bed, and I scream very very loudly!

I have masturbated at least three times per day since I was twelve, and about twice a week before that, starting at age nine.
Just to see what it would be like, I masturbated fifteen times in one twenty-four-hour period when I was fifteen.

I typically rub my cock while in the car on the way home, or discreetly under the desk at work. Sometimes women in SUVs or
other tall vehicles will observe me while my car is stopped at a light.

When I get home I enjoy reading erotica or looking at pornographic images as my cock hardens and my balls cinch up. I will
then often rub my asshole and penetrate it with a finger, the top of a shampoo bottle, or a rounded wrench handle.

I like to lie back, lube myself up really good, and slowly stroke myself with a tight grip. I usually read erotic stories
and get close to climax, then slow down, and continue doing this until I can come at the same time as the characters in the
stories. Sometimes I use an anal vibrator when I masturbate, and that provides incredible sensations that lead to explosive
orgasms.

My wife knows I masturbate, and she often asks me if I have masturbated that day. If I have, she asks me to describe what
I did. She occasionally asks me to put on a show for her. That’s really exciting.

She, too, masturbates and it turns me on in an instant when she tells me about it. I especially like it when she tells me
she got so hot thinking about me that she had to go into the ladies’ room at work and rub her clit. When she tells me this,
I usually attack her before she finishes.

I seldom masturbate. Occasionally my wife asks me to do it while she watches. At those times I like to sprinkle powder on
my inner thigh and my willy, then I gently rub it back and forth against my thigh until I’m there. A lot of times I don’t
finish because she hijacks my bone for her own fulfillment!

Even if I have sex with my squeeze, I still masturbate at least once a week.

My lady and I like to play with each other nude. Playing with her breasts while she plays with my nipples is the surest way
for me to get erect. Frequently she doesn’t care whether she gets penetrated (or at least so she says) so we go into the bathroom
and she plays with me while I masturbate. I love for her to suck and nibble on my nipples while I bring myself off.

My imagination will suffice most of the time to get me erect, but I really enjoy reading stories, like your books and stories
on-line.

Stories with sexual violence always get me erect, as do stories involving threesomes and female double penetration, and wife
swapping.

I masturbate about once a week and I usually watch my ejaculation in the mirror. I frequently coat my left palm (I’m right-handed
so doing it with my left feels better) with cold after-sun cream, or something similar. I come when I squeeze buttocks and
thrust cock up and forward while slowly rubbing around tip and rim until I shoot toward mirror.

My wife enjoys masturbation as well. Often when I am at work Saturday mornings she rings me at the office to tell me she’s
doing it or that she’s just come. Boy do I hurry home!

I do it only two or three times a week because I like to wait until I haven’t come in a while. I enjoy the feeling of a full
erection, where my cock is really hard and throbs a bit as I stroke it.

The best is when I use both hands to simulate oral stimulation. Sometimes I shave all of my pubic hair off and masturbate
when I’m finished.

Often I wake up early in the morning and my hand just seems to wander downward on its own accord. Then I begin fondling and
pleasuring myself. I really do enjoy reading erotica and/or watching video clips from the Web. The more turned on I get, the
more intense my orgasm(s) will be.

I sometimes use a Hitachi Magic Wand with a come-cup attachment that slips over the head of my penis and gives me a very intense,
incredible orgasm.

I can control my level of excitement precisely. Sometimes I will keep myself at a high state of arousal for a long time by
masturbating almost to the point of ejaculation and then letting it rest while I do something else. Then, when I come back
to it (which I always do), I’m ready to explode. I also love the feel of my penis leaking pre-come in my skivvies, which it’ll
do for hours after I masturbate and don’t come.

I masturbate almost daily, usually when I get home from work. I open a cold drink and sit down in front of the computer to
browse some Internet porn. I usually start out “dry” (sans lube) and as the excitement builds, I add a lube called ForPlay
that always makes things feel extra sensuous. I like to start with a very light touch and gradually get more tactile, working
just under the glans, teasing the hell out of my cock, holding things right on the edge. When I’ve found a couple of pictures
that really excite me, I download those, revisit them, and take things to their natural conclusion.

I masturbate mainly because it allows me to last longer when my wife and I have intercourse. If I’ve already come I can give
her much more satisfaction.

I masturbate two to three times a month. It feels better if I am viewing images or videos and I often use a vibrator, which
can cause a very intense orgasm in thirty seconds. Sometimes my mind is enough, coupled with a wife who is extremely sexy
and beautiful, even at seventy-five.

My wife not only knows I masturbate, but she prefers to do it for me herself if she can’t have sex for some reason. She is
a love.

A great big turn-on for me was watching my boyfriend masturbate. It was several months ago and I talked him into doing it
the way he does when he is alone.

He undressed, sat naked on his sofa, and began pulling on the head of his penis. I watched as his penis began to respond to
the manipulation, and before long he had a nice erection. The head of his penis was really swollen as he held the shaft and
began stroking very slowly. He then rubbed his scrotum and testicles with the other hand as the stroking got faster and faster.

I got real close so I could see the action and watch the clear pre-come fluid seeping out as he stroked. His legs shook and
he moaned as he pulled hard but slowly on the penis shaft. Finally he pulled down on the shaft and held it there as the semen
shot out in short but powerful spurts. It was amazing to watch.

I don’t masturbate, per se, when I am alone. I prefer phone sex because my boyfriend is a long distance away. We start off
with him teasing me saying he refuses to get naked. From that point, I’m the one who has to get things moving and it usually
ends with both of us having a wonderful climax.

I often fantasize about my partner fucking a girlfriend of mine. With that picture in my mind I rub my clit with my right
pointer finger until I climax.

My partner does not like it when I do it. He says he thinks I am cheating.

I masturbate too many times to count. Frequently I shave my pussy and then tie my ankles and one wrist to my bed with crystal
nipple clamps, an anal plug, and a vibrating dildo in place.

I fantasize that I have been kidnapped for some bad boy’s pleasure. He teases me with his tongue and I use my free hand to
caress my body pretending that it is him. I suck and lick my nipples (yes, I’m really big and I can do that) pretending that
he is forcing me to be a bad girl. Frequently I come several times before I’m exhausted.

What turns me on is a very mixed bag. Sometimes I visualize my wife in various sexy outfits and sky-high heels and at other
times I am cross-dressed and am being fondled by a man.

This last letter isn’t exactly on topic, but it’s a wonderful picture of a great sex life.

My husband and I masturbate together and by ourselves when we need or want to. Personally I like all areas busy: anal, vaginal,
clit, and nipple manipulation.

I like to keep things interesting in our sex life, shake things up a bit and keep him guessing what is next. I love to tease
him every day. I will call him at work and say, “Hi, sexy. I want you to come home right after work. The kids are at their
friends’ tonight.” Sometimes I put my panties in his lunch bag or briefcase or I flash him my breasts as he leaves in the
morning. A few times I put a present from the sex-toy shop in our bed. Anything to put that shy-boy smile on his face.

T
he answers from those who responded ranged from men who said that they don’t remember since they had been masturbating for
as long as they could recall to women who hadn’t masturbated until well into their thirties. I fall into that latter category.

What amazed me as I read the surveys was the depth of ignorance of most first-timers. Many freely admit that they had no idea
what was happening. Sad, isn’t it? I had a most enlightened mother for the mid-1950s when I was a teen. I was a curious kid
and felt free to ask my mother any question at any time. So by the time I reached my early teens I knew the facts, at least.
My attitudes were, of course, a product of the times and my mother’s attitudes toward sex. I was fed the “company line” about
masturbation being a no-no, that it just wasn’t done. So I didn’t touch myself for pleasure until I was in my thirties with
two school-age children. Fortunately I was never told that my hands would fall off or that I would go blind, as I’m sure many
males, and probably some females, were.

Parents, it’s going to happen. Your sons, and probably your daughters, are going to masturbate. A bit of well-thought-through
information will provide your children with truth and, during that discussion, you can also discuss some of your values.