Read Cinderella Ate My Daughter Online
Authors: Peggy Orenstein
Tags: #Non-Fiction, #Autobiography, #Adult, #Memoir
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Abby Cadabby, 39, 40–41, 43, 51
advertising, 17, 91, 98, 176–77, 183, 202
n
–3
n
restrictions on, 182, 221
n
Advertising Educational Foundation, 37–38
African-American females, 179–81, 205
n,
220
n
aging, 138–39, 148
Aguilera, Christina, 120
American Girl collection, 26–32, 140, 144
American Girl Place, 8, 27, 29, 31–32
American Psychological Association, 6, 195
n
Andersen, Hans Christian, 107–8, 190
Anglund, Joan Walsh, 165
Ariel, 14, 20, 107, 124, 162, 191
Arizona State University, 66, 67
“Aschenputtel” (Brothers Grimm), 103–5, 111
Austin, Erica Weintraub, 187
Ava (five-year-old classmate), 133–35, 136–37, 143, 151
avatars, 159, 160, 161, 162, 167
baby dolls, 45, 52
“ . . . Baby One More Time,” 121
Barbie, 7, 15, 28, 39, 42, 44, 45–48, 49, 50, 63, 84, 88, 97
Barbie.com, 161, 162
Barney and Friends,
128
Batgirl, 145
BBC, 75, 94
Beanie Babies, 86
beauty pageants, 8, 73–82, 89–94, 125
gowns and outfits of, 74, 75, 77, 82, 89
hair and makeup in, 73, 74, 75, 77, 91
beauty pageants
(cont.)
media coverage of, 75–76, 81, 89, 94
prizes of, 74, 75, 76, 91, 92, 93
parents of contestants, 74–76, 78–82, 85, 90–91
beauty products, 34, 73, 74, 75, 77, 91, 155, 156
for preschoolers and “pre-tween” girls, 7, 38, 42, 52, 82, 83–84, 85, 91
for “tween” girls, 29, 37, 91, 156
Bella Swan (char.), 109–12
Belle, 14, 124, 162
Bem, Jeremy, 60, 203
n
Bem, Sandra, 203
n
Berkeley, Calif., 4, 21, 147
Bettelheim, Bruno, 100, 102, 105, 106, 108, 109, 145
Beyoncé, 86
Bible, 135
Bikini Kill, 153
biological determinism, 52, 56–61, 62–64, 69, 70
board games, 7, 34, 49–50, 152
body image issues, 2, 6, 8, 88, 133–43, 158, 175, 186, 196
n
African-American women and, 220
n
self-loathing and, 6, 18, 134, 137, 141–42, 216
n
Body Project, The
(Brumberg), 140
Bonne Bell, 37, 84, 176
Botox, 138, 139
boyhood culture, 16, 19–22, 35–36, 38, 43, 57, 62, 97
gender segmentation of toys and, 21–22, 38, 43, 45, 50, 51, 97, 98–99
Internet use in, 160–61, 174, 175
nature vs. nurture in, 53–54, 55–61, 62–65, 69–71, 98, 145
playtime patterns in, 67–69, 98, 99, 145, 157–58
segregation of girl culture from, 51–53, 65, 66, 67–72, 156–58
brain development, 59, 60–61, 64–65
Bratz, 48–49, 50, 51, 84, 86, 91, 153, 155, 161
Brave,
188–89
Brown, Lyn Mikel, 151–52, 187
Brumberg, Joan Jacob, 140
Buffy the Vampire Slayer,
112
Burmeister, Jamara, 89–90, 92–93
Burmeister, Jason, 89, 92
Burmeister, Tammi, 89–90, 93
Burnett, Frances Hodgson, 25
California, University of (Berkeley), 84–85
Catmull, Ed, 189
Chapman, Brenda, 189
Cheetah Girls, The,
117
Cherney, Isabelle, 21
childhood consumerism and marketing, 24, 30–43, 49, 79, 98–99, 136–39, 153–56, 187
of beauty products, 7, 29, 34, 37, 38, 42, 52, 82, 83–84, 85, 155, 156
of fashion and clothing, 36, 38, 82, 86, 117, 119, 139, 143, 152
of fictional female characters and role models, 15, 36, 39–43, 46, 50, 117, 118
gender segmentation and color coding in, 7, 35–36, 38–39, 43, 51–52, 53, 58, 63, 70, 72, 98–99
gender stereotyping in, 91, 155, 202
n
–3
n
Kids Getting Older Younger in, 47, 48, 84–85, 91, 139, 183
materialism and narcissistic values emphasized in, 16, 30, 32, 34, 42, 46, 48, 49–50, 83, 88, 104, 155, 156, 161–62
online, 176–77
pink-and-pretty trend in, 33–35, 36, 38–43, 51, 52, 125, 155
in princess culture, 13–16, 23, 24–25, 26, 32, 36, 41, 61–62, 116, 189–90
protecting girls from influence of, 182–85, 192
restrictions on, 182, 221
n
of “sexiness” and “cool,” 47, 48–49, 50, 52, 84, 85–88, 91, 183
television commercials and, 98
of toys and merchandising, 3, 7, 15, 16, 26–32, 33–35, 39–43, 45–52, 70, 85–88, 91, 98–99, 155, 180, 185, 190
of young female celebrities, 26, 114, 115–31
Children’s Digital Media Center, 165
children’s literature, 23, 28–30, 100–112, 140, 211
n
female protagonists in, 12, 20–21, 101, 102, 104–5, 108–12, 149–50, 185, 190–92
rescue-fantasy and landing-a-prince theme in, 12, 20, 23, 101, 102, 103, 107, 110, 111
Twilight
series in, 109–12, 211
n
see also
fairy tales
Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA), 162, 174
child stars, 25–26, 113–31, 221
n
squeaky-to-skanky transformations in, 113–15, 120–24, 126–28, 129, 130
Cinderella, 3, 6, 9, 14, 17, 20–21, 23, 24, 36, 44, 48, 58, 61–62, 89, 102, 111, 114, 115, 116, 123, 124, 152, 162, 182, 185
Brothers Grimm version of, 103–5, 183
Cinderella,
13, 190
Cinderella Complex, The
(Dowling), 111
Clarissa Explains It All,
116, 118–19, 120
Clinton, Hillary, 147–48, 149, 217
n
Club Libby Lu, 83–84
Cook, Daniel, 36
Cookie Monster, 40, 43
cosmetic surgery, 138–40
Couric, Katie, 149
Cross, Gary, 24
cross-sex play, 50, 66, 67–70, 72, 158, 205
n
–6
n
Curtis, Jaime Lee, 215
n
–16
n
cyberbullying, 168–70, 172–73, 174, 175, 177, 219
n
–20
n
Cyrus, Billy Ray, 114–15, 118, 127, 184
Cyrus, Miley, 8, 117–19, 121, 129, 130, 138, 153, 155
concert tours of, 118, 124, 125–26, 128, 130–31
sexualization of, 113–15, 126–28, 221
n
Damned if You Do, Doomed if You Don’t
(Catalyst), 146
Dangerous Book for Boys, The
(Iggulden and Iggulden), 155
Daring Book for Girls, The
(Buchanan and Peskowitz), 155, 156–57
DeCesare, Danielle, 175–76
DeCesare, Hilary, 174, 175–78
depression, 6, 16, 18, 76, 172
dieting, 8, 135, 143, 186
Diller, Vivian, 138–39
Disney, 8, 13, 14, 16, 22, 23, 24, 32, 36, 41, 51, 87–88, 102, 103, 107, 111, 144, 185–86
child stars launched and marketed by, 113–15, 116–19, 120, 124–25, 128–30
first African-American Princess of, 15, 179–82, 189–90
Disney, Roy, 13
Disney, Walt, 116, 120
Disney Channel, 7, 114, 116, 117, 128
Disneyland, 41
Disney Princesses, 3, 7, 8, 19, 20, 23, 31, 32, 33, 48, 49, 61, 62, 85, 111, 114, 115, 124, 135, 138, 142, 143–44, 153, 155, 187
marketing of, 13–15, 16, 23, 24, 26, 36, 104, 116, 125, 182, 189–90
Web site for, 162
Dora the Explorer, 7, 15, 42–43, 51, 161–62
Duff, Hilary, 115, 116–17, 118, 120, 129
eating disorders, 6, 76, 137, 141
education reform, 70–71, 85
Elenita
(Campbell and Juan), 149–50
Eliot, Lise, 59, 60–61, 62–63, 64, 65, 69, 71
Eschberger, Tallon, 80–82
Eschberger, Taralyn, 73–75, 78, 79–81, 84, 89, 92, 93–94
Eschberger, Todd, 80, 82, 93, 94
Eschberger, Traci, 74–75, 79–82, 89, 90, 91, 92, 93
Everloop, 174–78
Fabes, Richard, 66, 67–68, 69, 71–72, 158, 215
n
Facebook, 24, 163, 164–65, 166, 168, 169, 171, 174, 182
Face It
(Diller and Muir-Sukenick), 138–39
fairy tales, 8, 12, 13, 14, 20–21, 23, 25, 101, 108–9, 115, 139, 145, 149, 181, 185, 190, 211
n
by Brothers Grimm, 100, 101–7, 108–9, 183, 190–92
emotional development aided by, 100, 102, 104
rescue-fantasy and landing-a-prince theme in, 12, 20, 23, 101, 102, 103, 107, 144, 182
violent and gruesome imagery in, 100, 102–3, 105, 106–9, 191–92
Fairytopia Barbie, 88
fashion, 82, 86, 91, 117, 119, 123, 125, 139, 143, 152
female heroines and role models, 14, 36, 180–82, 187–91
in fairy tales, 12, 14, 20–21, 101, 102, 104–5, 107, 108–9, 185, 190–92
independent and nontraditional examples of, 30, 42, 46, 50, 101, 108–9, 112, 128, 144–45, 148, 149–50, 153, 185–86
marketing and merchandising of, 15, 36, 39–43, 46, 117, 118
rescue-fantasy and landing-a-prince theme in fiction of, 12, 20, 23, 101, 102, 103, 107, 144, 180, 182
sexualization of, 113–15, 120–24, 125, 126–28, 129–31, 144–45, 149, 221
n
in TV shows for tweens, 116–20, 128–29, 130
in
Twilight
series, 109–12
femininity, female identity, 7, 8, 9, 19, 22, 57, 58, 61, 62, 72, 87, 96, 138–39, 155, 156–58
culture’s emphasis on beauty in, 5, 6, 9, 16, 18, 19–20, 22, 23, 34, 50, 94, 101, 119, 134, 135, 137–39, 140–41, 142–44, 145, 148–49, 152, 158, 183
digital media in shaping of, 159, 160, 162, 163, 165–68, 173, 177
exposure to stereotypes in shaping of, 16–17, 63–64, 91, 150, 198
n,
202
n
–3
n
fashion and, 17, 18, 148, 152
“Girl Power” movement in, 7, 153–55
materialistic values and, 32, 46, 49–50, 77
persisting tensions around power and, 146–49, 150–52
pink-and-pretty trend in defining of, 7, 34, 35, 36, 43, 44, 61, 67, 125
pleasing behavior as cultural trait of, 16, 17, 18, 112
and pressure to be “perfect,” 17–18, 94, 111, 140
sexiness equated with, 112, 125, 130, 134, 167, 183
“tomboys” and, 66–67
two cultural models of, 151–52
see also
girlhood culture
feminism, 4, 19, 22, 46, 51, 56–58, 82, 101, 154–58, 185
princess tales inspired by, 101, 149
Fisher-Price, 51, 53
“Fitcher’s Bird” (Brothers Grimm), 108
Formspring, 168
Free to Be You and Me,
150
Friend Is Someone Who Likes You, A
(Anglund), 165
Funicello, Annette, 120
“Furrypelts” (Brothers Grimm), 108
Garland, Judy, 120
gender development and identity, 55–72, 203
n,
205
n,
206
n
brain development and, 59, 60–61, 64–65, 69, 70
nature vs. nurture in, 53–54, 55–61, 62–65, 69–71, 98, 145
playtime patterns in, 67–69, 98, 145, 157–58
segregation of sexes and, 65–72, 157–58
toy preferences and, 57, 62–64, 68
see also
femininity, female identity
gender segmentation, 52, 72
color coding and, 7, 35–36, 38–39, 43, 50, 51, 63