Authors: John Marrs
I’d vowed never to speak to them again after our confrontation, but I was furious enough to make an exception.
“No, you’re not,” Roger replied firmly. “You’re going to stay in the house and let me do my job. We’re not going to find anything, but the quicker we can get this over with, the quicker we can leave before your kids and neighbours wake up.”
I glared at him in both frustration and disgust, scared that even a tiny piece of him might believe my poisonous in-laws. But there was nothing but embarrassment in his eyes.
“Just do it, then go away,” I fired back and left him to it. Then I hid, ashamed and humiliated, behind the dining room curtains as officers silently searched the garden, your shed, and prised up random patio slabs around the pond.
They bagged samples of ashes from your bonfire heap; trawled through the boot of your car with sticky tape and sieved earth in the borders by the lawn. But when they focused their attention on the pink rosebushes you’d planted for me during the depths of my depression, I couldn’t contain my anger any longer.
“What the hell are you doing?” I yelled, running towards them. “You don’t know what they mean to me!”
“The ground’s freshly dug, so we have to check,” a faceless man in a uniform replied. I grabbed the spade from his hand and threw it across the lawn.
“That’s what you do in a garden – dig soil and plant things, you bloody idiot!”
I stomped back into the kitchen and finished off a half-empty bottle of wine in the fridge, then hurled it against the wall. A frightened Oscar scarpered for safety into the living room.
The sun had almost risen when the police put their tools in the back of the van and Roger reappeared on the doorstep.
“We’ve finished. As I said, we didn’t expect to find anything. I’m so sorry for putting you through this, Catherine.”
“So am I,” I replied and slammed the door on him.
August 14, 9pm
“Simon is not dead,” I told my reflection in the bathroom cabinet mirror. “He is not dead. He is not dead.”
Each time a shadow of a doubt crossed my mind, I’d say the same thing out loud over and over again until I believed it again. But as each week passed, it was getting harder and harder to stay positive.
I peered inside the cabinet to make sure everything was where it should be for when you came home. I did that a lot. Your razor, shaving cream, brush, comb, cotton ear buds and deodorant stick were still lined up neatly, and all as redundant as me.
I closed the doors and commiserated with the haunted face staring back at me. I asked myself if I’d been unfair by offering the kids false hope that you were still alive. I may have stopped feeling your presence, but intuition told me you wouldn’t be gone forever. Was that enough? And what lessons would I be teaching them if I gave up on you so quickly?
You were my first and final thought each day, and probably every other thought in between. Each night in bed I’d tell you about my day but you never replied. Still, I was sure you were out there somewhere, waiting to be found. But I felt like I was in a shrinking minority.
It was subtle at first, but I began to see a change in our friends. No one actually had the guts to put it into words, but I began to pick up on little signs of doubt when I brought your name up. Steven didn’t mention you as much unless it involved the business. Annie would tug awkwardly at the blonde curls touching her neck and then change the subject. Even my ever-reliable Caroline began to look at me like I was naive for not considering you could’ve just walked away.
Without her knowing it, she hurt me more anyone else because we were so close and she didn’t trust my instincts. And it made me ask myself if I shouldn’t be talking about you so much. But why should I stop? You were my husband and it wasn’t your fault you’d been taken away from us so why couldn’t everyone else see that?
I became resentful towards anyone whose sole focus wasn’t to help find you. I knew people had their own lives to live and I envied them, but their doubt frustrated the hell out of me. I wanted to tell them all to sod off. But I needed their help to keep myself together, so I got my support from a bottle of red wine instead. It understood what I needed more than any friend did.
I lead a double life as one foot sank in quicksand and the other flailed around desperately seeking enough solid ground to keep myself stable.
Family dinners became subdued affairs. I’d entice the kids into talking or give them something to focus on like empty promises of fun holidays, birthdays and Christmases to come. But it didn’t matter what I said, because all they wanted was you. So most nights, we’d sit quietly, shuffling chicken kievs around our plates like chess pieces, trying to stop ourselves from staring at the empty chair at the dining room table.
In the end, I moved it to the garage. It made no difference. We’d gawp at the empty space instead.
September 2, 3.15pm
It took a six-year-old boy to shame his mother into action.
“Look what I’ve made, Mummy,” said James proudly as he pushed a piece of paper into my chest.
My heart bled when he showed me a drawing of you with a reward of his fifty pence pocket money for the person who found you.
“We can put it in the window,” he suggested helpfully. It was the kick up the backside I needed.
Three months after you’d vanished, Roger admitted his colleagues had drawn a blank. I’d let them do their job even if it meant searching my house or digging my garden for your remains. But there was only so much I could take of feeling stupid when the children and neighbours asked me for updates and I couldn’t give them answers.
I’d fallen into a vicious circle of feeling sorry for myself and relying on others to find you. And then I’d get frustrated when they hadn’t. James’ reward poster reminded me there was nothing stopping me from finding you myself.
I sprang into action with a second wind and called our local newspaper, which sent a reporter to the house for a renewed appeal. And once the interview made it to print, regional news programme Countywide asked to come to our house and film a segment. I can’t say I’m proud of it, but I used our children’s anxiety to tug at viewers’ heartstrings.
“Mummy’s trying to make people feel sorry for us,” I whispered to them out of earshot of the cameraman.
“Why?” asked Robbie.
“Because if someone knows where Daddy is but hasn’t said anything yet, then they’ll see us on the TV and realise how much we’re missing him and they might tell us where to find him. But we all have to pretend to look sad when they start filming us.”
“But we don’t have to pretend; we are sad,” replied a puzzled James.
Of course they were. I paused to ask myself if I was exploiting their pain to prove something to myself or to help our family as a whole. Would parading them publicly heap more psychological damage on what they’d already suffered? Or did the end justify the means?
I didn’t see I had much of a choice so I shoved them into the lounge wearing long faces. I was a terrible mother. But fired up by a breath of fresh interest in us, I blanketed surrounding villages, bus and train stations, hospitals, libraries and community centres with A4 posters I’d had printed with your photograph and description.
I delivered them to each place by hand instead of by post so they’d be less inclined to throw them away if they saw my sad face in person. I wrote three-dozen letters and sent your photo to homeless shelters and Salvation Army Centres around the country, in case you’d turned up confused. And being proactive gave me a lift I’d not felt in a while. I was optimistic and in control; now all I had to do was wait.
The police received thirty or so calls after the TV appeal but none of the leads came to anything. I drew a blank with the Salvation Army and only one shelter in London recalled seeing someone with a vague similarity to you. But that person had left weeks ago.
By the end of the month, I was back to square one.
It’s funny what the mind can do when it’s grasping at straws and only touching nettles. It was down to either the wine or the desperation but I began coming up with ludicrous theories to explain your absence. If it offered a faint glimmer of hope, I latched on to it.
I scanned through newspapers on the library’s microfiche to see if there were any serial killers on the loose you might have fallen victim to. I asked Roger of the probability you could’ve been forced into a police witness relocation programme. I spoke to a very sympathetic woman at MI6 to ask if you’d been leading a double life as a Cold War spy on a mission in Russia. She couldn’t, or wouldn’t, confirm or deny it.
I spent a day reading interviews with people who claimed they’d been abducted by aliens and experimented on. You hated your doctor prodding and poking you, so I chuckled to myself picturing your face as ET tried to stick his long finger up your bottom.
I even visited a friend of Caroline’s mother, a psychic who frowned when she held your comb in one hand and a photo in the other. She closed her eyes and hummed.
“Well, he’s not passed to the other side yet, dear,” she began, to my relief. “I’m sensing that he’s safe and well but far away. Somewhere sandy. I’m getting mountains and people speaking in funny accents. He’s smiling a lot. He seems very happy.” I stormed out before she’d finished, cursing myself for throwing money at a fraud.
I walked through our front door, slumped across the kitchen table and without taking my coat off, finished off a glass of wine I’d left earlier.
Three months after you vanished and I was back to the morning of June the fourth – without you and none the wiser as to why.
September 7, 9.10pm
I went to bed early and turned off the lights, hoping the wine would knock me out quickly. It didn’t. My stomach rumbled but I couldn’t be bothered to even make myself a sandwich.
I’d long ceased closing the curtains so that I could stare out of the window during my frequent bouts of insomnia. The moon was brighter than I’d ever seen it and lit up the bedroom. I stared at the lumps and bumps of the Artex on the ceiling and tried to put them together to form your face.
It wasn’t anything in particular that set me off, but I’d spent most of the day in a new low. It doesn’t matter if you’re holding the hand of a loved one as the death rattle slowly dissolves into a rasp; or if Roger or one of his colleagues turns up on your doorstep to tell you there’s been an accident. No matter how death happens, the pain is hideous.
Some people build barriers to hide from themselves or those who share their pain. Some shut down completely and others dedicate the rest of their lives to mourning. The brave ones simply get on with it but I couldn’t do any of that. I was the exception. Because when someone simply disappears into thin air when there is no reason, no explanation and no closure, all you’re left with is an interminable void. A gaping, aching, chasm that can’t be filled with the love, sympathy or the strength of others.
Nobody knew my heart was now a black hole, swirling with the debris of unanswerable questions. Until physical proof of your death came along, I would never, ever, truly be able to let you go.
I had no funeral to arrange; no body to bury; no-one to blame; no autopsy to offer a medical answer or suicide note to explain a reason; no nothing. Just months of absolute nothingness.
And as everyone else’s lives carried on beyond our garden gate, I was stuck in purgatory and feeling so very, very alone.
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Saint-Jean-de-Luz, France, Twenty-Five Years Earlier
July 14, 3.15pm
There was emptiness in my belly that needed to be fed. My imagination was hungry and I craved a project to sink my teeth into. Even as a boy I had an urge to construct. Bird houses, dens, rabbit hutches, dams in streams… it didn’t matter as long as it was a tangible object I could build from scratch and be proud of.
My life in France was content and free of stress. But while I’d shaken most of the trappings of my past, living in a hostel that was once so splendid and now cried out for help made my desire to design and actualize impossible to ignore. It was what I did. I made things. I created things. I restored things.
And the more time I spent under its roof, the more familiar I’d become with its personality. I knew which floorboards creaked and which had barely enough strength to support my weight. I knew the windows to keep closed or risk the rotting frames disintegrating. I knew on which side of the attic the mice preferred to nest. I knew the rooms to avoid in a heavy downpour and the places to find maximum sunlight for Bradley’s indoor garden of cannabis plants to thrive.
I’d fallen in love with its every delight and failing. I’d accepted its flaws in a way I couldn’t do with a person. I also knew that papering over the cracks of something couldn’t disguise its deeper issues. I longed to transform the Routard International back into the Hotel Pres De La Cote.
Local folklore revealed the hotel seemed to appear from nowhere in the mid-1920s. It had been designed by a promising Bordeaux architect who’d only ever made two visits to his project – once as they broke ground, and again when the doors were declared open to paying guests. Nobody could remember his name.
He’d been commissioned to design it for a wealthy Jewish German family who, after the First World War, feared their country might implode again. So they fortuitously made their property investments abroad. But when Germany crumbled for a second time, their hotel remained while they disappeared from the face of the earth. Their legacy was in tact, but orphaned and with no owners to trace, the manager at the time retained the hotel as his own. Upon his death, its fate lay in the hands of a succession of distant relatives who cumulatively did little to prevent it from falling into rack and ruin.
I was dismayed at how something once so treasured could have been wilfully abandoned, before recognising the irony. But I related more to buildings than to people. If you gave structures time, detail and attention, they would protect you. You would be safe beneath their roofs. People never truly offered such guarantees. So I made it my mission to give it the help it had given me.