Mastering Multiple Position Sex (25 page)

Place one knee over his flat leg, and sit down on his penis, so that you are facing 45 to 90 degrees to the center of his body. You can rest your hands wherever they might naturally fall—perhaps on his chest, on a knee, or an ankle. They are also free to provide stimulation if you don’t need them for support.

POSITION 2

POSITION 3:
Twist and Shout

The final position in this chapter encourages deeper penetration without thrusting, while providing eye-to-eye contact and immeasurable pleasure.

Begin to move up and down on his penis. If you need additional stimulation, get it from grinding or by enlisting any of the three or four free hands.

Use your two free hands to meet your additional needs—to rub your pecs, or to touch her body or anywhere else. If your needs are met, use your hands to assist her in reaching climax. It could be the case where you swap hands. The hand farthest away from you might be best to stimulate your ass, and you can lend her one of your hands as well.

With slight undulations of your hips, you can create a slight twisting motion, which might please you both. You could also dismount and try this position from the other side, especially if his penis curves to a particular side; each variation will surprise you.

Because kissing is hard in this position, you can suck on each other’s fingers after kissing or sucking on them yourselves. It’s like giving your partner a long-distance kiss!

CRESCENDO

At this point, there is no need to change positions, but rather to increase stimulation. She will be able to control the depth and speed of entry, and he can still push up into her, if he needs to combine thrusting with other stimuli that he is getting from himself or his partner.

If you enjoy more shaft stimulation, change the speed and depth of your thrusts. If you need additional turn-ons—from touch, sight, smell, taste—make them happen or ask for help in making them happen.

Think of a blended orgasm as an exercise in connect the dots. What dots still need to be connected? Can you do it, or do you need to ask for help?

Focus on yourself, on your partner, and on both of you. Work to achieve an amazing orgasm without shortchanging your partner. If you come first, ask how you can help her climax. Grab a body part or grab a toy. Grab both. Whatever it takes, lend a hand.
To reach and experience blended orgasms can leave you both exhausted. Cuddle and savor the moment. If you want to start over again, go for it.

Brava! Bravo!

Striking a chord in bed can be as simple or as challenging as combining two or more of your erogenous zones for an amazing rush. Don’t get locked into what constitutes somebody else’s definition of a “real” or an “authentic” orgasm.

Leave it to the experts to argue over what a “real” or “authentic” Stradivarius is, and you can name your blended orgasms as you experience them. Hell, from now on, their “yourgasms.”

“Some people enjoy having their body stimulated by somebody’s mouth, and others get turned on when their mouth is on some body.”

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The Key of A: Anal Play for Amateurs and Professionals

In his play,
As You Like It
, Shakespeare calls everyone “players” who “have their exits and their entrances.” Though I don’t agree that everybody is a player—and, trust me here, I am not a player-hater—I will admit that in the case for the best sex, even our exits can be entrances. Anal play and anal intercourse can provide immeasurable pleasure for men and women, because we know that both partners have been created equal, that they are endowed with anal-able rights, and that both can be provider or receiver, pitcher or catcher.

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