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Seek compromise.

In everything you do in life, whether it is in or outside the bedroom, favor compromise.

Owen Darbishire
is an expert in organizational behavior, employee relations and decision making who teaches at Oxford University and has done extensive research on everything from compromise to negotiation to organizational effectiveness.

The topic of compromise is central to Professor Darbishire’s research, and he shows clearly how companies can decide quickly and boost internal decision-making by having the right framework of compromise.

That is very important because internal rivalry — or interdepartmental animosity, whichever you prefer — has a corrosive effect on companies’ productivity and profitability/

Now, guess what?

The same thing applies to individuals, because, remember, companies are operated and managed by individuals.

If you are not happy, you will not be productive. If you are not productive, there starts a downward spiral for your company…and also you, when your manager finds out and shows you the exit door.

What is the gist of all this?

Seek compromise in life, so you can spread happiness around you.

Being happy also means letting go of opinions you hold dear, so the other person also can make a favorable analytical movement toward you, embracing your viewpoint partially or wholeheartedly.

My mother always says that compromise is not just the middle solution, it is the best solution.

Let that idea sink in as you read this book.

In everything you do, moderation should be essential.

And moderation shows you the value of the middle way, the medium alternative between one extreme view and another extreme view.

If you compromise at the right moment, with the right people, and under the right circumstances, you will increase your capital of positivity, which you can use in other areas in your life.

People will also respect you and regard you favorably, which will make your life even easier.

Believe you have extraordinary talent.

Don’t hesitate to tap into your inner potential to invite happiness into your life.

We all have our fair share of supernatural power, extraordinary talent we can use to improve our own lives but also the destinies of others.

The sad truth is that most people go through life unaware of that grand, inner capacity.

Most folks struggle with things they normally could conquer had they taken notice of their talent.

It is simple to find out what your talent is: It is what you love to do so much that you would do it even if you were not paid.

To stay motivated even when things are difficult and you want to drop everything, see
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NE557L0

Remember everything you just read.

I cannot force you to remember everything you just read.

But I can humbly try to appeal to your inner, better angel, and say “Wouldn’t it be good if you could just recall the most important things you learned here?”

Here is the deal: Tell me your take-away. Be honest with yourself.

What are the two or three essential things you gleaned from this book? And why are they important to you? Do they relate to your job, life, relationship, business or faith?

Write those things down, and commit them to memory. In the next 7 to 14 days, I suggest you take each of these things, and spend five to 10 minutes pondering them.

Don’t take my word for it; just do it, and you will be surprised how your understanding will expand.

After 7 days, and three or four quiet 10-minute meditations on the important things you took away from the book, I recommend you go back to the book and read your preferred section again — or the entire book, why not?

Then, I want you to explore the Discussion Group questions I listed a little further in this book. These questions are thought-provoking, but they are exactly what you need to get out of your comfort zone and see things more clearly.

Do this, and watch goodness and success come into your life gradually at first, then exponentially.

So what have we learned, really? Here you have it. They said a picture is worth a thousand words, so if there is anything you should take away from this book, it is the picture below.

Love unequivocally.

Bertrand Russell wrote in
The Conquest of Happiness
that “of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.”

That is so true.

When you are in love, love unequivocally. Don’t refrain from giving your time, energy and delight to your partner — because he or she will reciprocate.

Keeping your emotions under wraps, even vis-à-vis your significant other, is not conducive for mutual bliss in the long term.

Some people are cautious in relationships because they have been hurt several times.

That is understandable, but you cannot say today’s weather will be worse simply because yesterday’s weather was awful.

Every day is unique, and so is each person you meet.

It is up to you whether or not you want to fulfill your own fantasies.

It is up to you whether or not you want to implement some of the fancies listed in this book.

But it is also up to you to decide whether you wish to enliven your relationship and give it the oomph it once had.

Ultimately, these scenarios help you understand what your sweetheart secretly thinks when it comes to sexuality – and by using some of them astutely, you can put your relationship onto another level.

Peace and love.

Good luck!

To your romantic success and relationship bliss!

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Thank you for reading my book and connecting your mind to mine. I hope you have found it as pleasurable to read as it was for me to write.

If you enjoyed the book, won’t you please take a moment to leave me a review at your favorite retailer? A simple sentence is enough. Even one word, such as “Wow,” would make a big difference for me, because I would know my book modestly helped someone on their life journey, made a difference in a family’s destiny, gave solace to a troubled couple, somewhere raised hope in a better tomorrow…blah, blah, blah…you get the idea.

I read every single review or comment posted on forums, retailers’ portals, literary blogs and news media’s websites.

As an author, my homework does not end once a book is published. Quite the opposite: the hard work, the rigorous research and the perpetual questioning continue when readers email me, post reviews, stir fervent debate about the topics I cover, and enhance my understanding of things.

Drop me a line at
[email protected]
to continue the conversation. Thanks and stay blessed!

Karma Peters

Discussion Guide for Reading Groups and Related Associations or Activities

I have compiled the below questions to help you continue the conversation on the topic discussed in this book.

Don’t worry too much if some of these questions are tough — they are meant to be just that: thought-provoking.

I want you to take the conversation further; explore other areas that space and time did not allow me to cover in this book; and see how the principles enunciated here could apply to your own life and your loved ones’.

The goal here is to stir debate — the more passionate, the better. Nobody said life was easy, and so are questions about life.

These thought-provoking questions are suitable for reading groups, learning activities, informal conversations, everyday meditations, academic initiatives and social-discourse campaigns.

You can ponder these questions in solitude, but I would recommend, if possible, that you can discuss them with other people.

That way, you benefit by confirming or doubting the merits of your own assumptions — and, trust me, this is a good thing for your personal development in the long term!

Readers love reading my Discussion Guide questions, and then bombard me with their own questions — especially those they feel I’ve forgotten or ignored. I love it when readers do that!

Those comments keep me on my literary toes, sometimes shatter my own assumptions, help sharpen my prose, and make me a
slightly
smarter person!

I take great delight in reading those comments, so please keep them coming.

And now, the fun part!

Breathe, relax, go get some coffee or tea, and brace yourself for my ‘tough, thought-provoking’ questions:

Do you like the way your relationship is at the moment?

If not, what would you like to change or improve?

Have you discussed it with your partner?

On a scale of 1 to 5, with 5 being excellent and 1 being poor, how would you rate your love life?

Does intimacy play a big role in your relationship – and has it always been so?

Are you open to the subject of love play, romantic game or fantasy?

Do you have secret love plays you would love to implement with (or without) your partner?

What stimulates you the most, when it comes to romantic play?