"cocoanuts from the Fijis, fans and feathers from Hawaii, savage weapons and dancing skirts from Tahiti, and other bright pagan relics." 55
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Because it expressed a domestic ideal, "The Bungalow" was different from the more insistently "manly" environments to which Stoddard had gravitated: the Bohemian Club in San Francisco, where alcoholic high jinks were meant to set obstreperous young writers above the sober business class; Charlotte Street in London, where illustrator Wallis Mackay played genial host to an endless stream of male visitors; "Stag-Racket Bungalow" in Hawaii, where three young men-about-town took in ''Charley" Stoddard as a boarder and good fellow; "Tuckanuck," the exquisitely appointed house of William Sturgis Bigelow on an island off Nantucket, where men took their ease, often naked, in an untamed natural setting; Carmel, where the California literati tried to combine art with physical culture. What Stoddard desired was a homosocial site in which his "feminine" tastes could be more fully expressed, one that literally brought home the worlds of art, religion, and tropical languor. He was most himself in a parlor that could double as a stage from which he retailed his adventures, for attentive visitors, from the comfort of an easy chair, surrounded by the curios that were his props.
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Stoddard also possessed an extraordinary social grace in the homes of others. Wherever he went, either in male homosocial spheres or the domains of women, Stoddard was always welcomed merely for the pleasure of his company. As Howells said, Stoddard's "utter lovableness" endeared him to everyone who knew, "which is to say, loved. him": "He was so greatly and constantly beloved of hospitality that, as he complained once, he was being perpetually passed round on a plate, and there were none of his hosts who did not wish to add some special garniture to the dish." 56 As the metaphor implies, Stoddard readily adapted himself to a variety of social situations, masking his "temperament" when necessary. What remained constant, however, was his aestheticism "of Chopin at twilight, Oriental bric-a-brac, incense, lounging robes, and fragrant cigarettes." 57
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During Oscar Wilde's sensational American tour in 1882, in the course of which he arrived in California "wearing a Spanish sombrero, velvet suit, puce cravat, yellow gloves, and buckled shoes" and proceeded to drink members of the Bohemian Club under the table, 58 Isobel Strong wrote to Stoddard about her meeting the resplendent visitor in San Francisco:
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