(2001) The Bonesetter's Daughter (41 page)

Ruth marveled that a Jewish mother would allow her son to put her in a place like this. Now
that
was an endorsement.

They stepped through French doors into a garden surrounded by hedges. On each side was a shady arbor with a latticed covering of jasmine. Underneath were cushioned chairs and opaque glass-topped tables. Several women glanced up from their conversations.

“Hello, Edward!” three of them sang out in turn.

“Morning, Betty, Dorothy, Rose. Wow, Betty, that’s a spectacular color on you!”

“You watch it, young lady,” the old woman said sternly to Ruth. “He’ll sell the pants off you, if he can.” Patel laughed easily, and Ruth wondered whether the woman was only joking. Well, at least he knew their names.

Down the middle of the garden was a reddish pathway lined with benches, some shaded by awnings. Patel pointed out amenities that might have gone unnoticed to an untrained eye. His voice was resonant, familiar, and knowledgeable, like that of an English teacher Ruth had once had. The strolling path, he explained, had the same covering used for indoor running tracks, no loose bricks or stones to catch a feeble walker off guard, no hard concrete. Of course, if a senior fell, she could still break a hip, he said, but it was less likely to shatter into a million pieces. “And studies show that’s what is so deadly to this population. One fall, boom!” Patel snapped his fingers. “Happens a lot when the elderly live alone and in the old family home that hasn’t been adapted to their needs. No ramp-ways, no handrails.”

Patel gestured to the flowers in the garden. “All thorn-free and non-toxic, no deadly oleander or foxglove that a confused person might nibble on.” Each plant was identified by staked marker at eye level—no bending down necessary. “Our seniors really love naming the herbs. On Mondays, the afternoon activity is herb collecting. There’s rosemary, parsley, oregano, lemon thyme, basil, sage. The word ‘echinacea’ gives them a hard time, though. One lady calls it ‘the China Sea.’ Now we all call it that.”

The herbs from the garden, Patel added, were used in the meals. “The ladies still pride themselves on their cooking abilities. They love to remind us to add only a pinch of oregano, or to rub the sage on the inside not the outside of the chicken, that sort of thing.” Ruth could picture dozens of old ladies complaining about the food, and her mother yelling above the rest that everything was too salty.

They continued walking along the path toward a greenhouse at the back of the garden. “We call this the Love Nursery,” Patel said, as they stepped into a blast of color—shocking pink and monk-robe saffron. The air was moist and cool.

“Each resident has an orchid plant. The flower pots are painted with the names they’ve given their orchids. As you may have already noticed, about ninety percent of our residents are women. And no matter how old they are, many still have a strong maternal instinct. They adore watering their orchids every day. We use a dendrobium orchid known as
cuthbertsonii.
Blooms nearly year-round, nonstop, and unlike most orchids, it can take daily watering. Many of our residents have named their orchids after their husbands or children or other family members who’ve already passed. They often talk to their plants, touch and kiss the petals, fuss and worry over them. We give them tiny eyedroppers and a bucket of water we call ‘Love Potion.’ ‘Mother’s coming, Mother’s coming,’ you’ll hear them say. It’s quite touching to watch them feeding their orchids.”

Ruth’s eyes welled up. Why was she crying? Stop this, she told herself, you’re being stupid and maudlin. He’s talking about a business plan, for God’s sake, concept-sanctioned forms of happiness. She turned away as if to inspect a row of orchids. When she had collected herself, she said, “They must love it here.”

“They do. We’ve tried to think of everything that a family would think about.”

“Or wouldn’t,” Art said.

“There’s a lot to think about,” Patel said with a modest smile.

“Do you ever find any of them reluctant to be here, especially in the beginning?”

“Oh, yes indeed. That’s expected. They don’t want to move out of their old homes, because that’s where all the memories are. And they don’t want to spend down their kids’ inheritance. Nor do they think they’re old—certainly not
that
old, they’ll say. I’m sure we’ll be saying the same thing when we’re their age.”

Ruth laughed to be polite. “We may have to trick my mother into coming here.”

“Well, you won’t be the first family members to do so,” Patel said. “The subterfuges people have used to get their parents here—wow, pretty ingenious. It could fill a book.”

“Like what?” Ruth asked.

“We have quite a few folks here who don’t know it costs anything to live here.”

“Really!” Art exclaimed, and gave Ruth a wink.

“Oh, yes. Their sense of economy is strictly Depression-era. Paying rent is money down the drain. They’re used to owning a house, paid free and clear.”

Ruth nodded. Her mother’s building had been paid up last year. They continued along the walkway and went inside and down a hall toward the dining room.

“One of our residents,” Patel added, “is a ninety-year-old former sociology professor, still fairly sharp. But he thinks he’s here on a fellowship from his alma mater to study the effects of aging. And another woman, a former piano teacher, thinks she’s been hired to play music every night after dinner. She’s not too bad, actually. We direct-bill most families, so their parents don’t even know what the fees are.”

“Is that legal?” Ruth asked.

“Perfectly, as long as the families have conservatorship or power of attorney over the finances. Some of them take out loans against the principal on the house, or they’ve sold their parents’ homes and use the money in trust to make the payments. Anyway, I know all about the problems of getting seniors to accept the idea of even considering living in a place like this. But I guarantee you, once your mother has lived here for a month, she ‘11 never want to leave.”

“What do you do,” Ruth joked, “spike the food?”

Patel misunderstood. “Actually, because of all the dietary needs of our population, we can’t prepare anything too spicy. We do have a nutritionist who makes up the monthly menu. Many of the choices are low-fat, low-cholesterol. We also offer vegan. The residents receive printed-out menus every day.” He picked one off a nearby table.

Ruth scanned it. The choice today was turkey meatloaf, tuna casserole, or tofu fajitas, accompanied by salad, rolls, fresh fruit, mango sorbet, and macaroons. Suddenly another problem loomed: No Chinese food.

But when she brought it up, Patel was ready with an answer: “We’ve encountered that issue in the past. Chinese, Japanese, kosher food, you name it. We have a delivery service from approved restaurants. And since we have two other Chinese residents who get takeout twice a week, your mother can share the selections we get for them. Also, one of our cooks is Chinese. She makes rice porridge on the weekends for breakfast. Several of our non-Chinese residents go for that as well.” Patel returned smoothly to his rehearsed patter: “Regardless of special diets, they all love the waiter service, tablecloths at the meals, just like a fine restaurant. And no tipping is necessary or allowed.” Ruth nodded. LuLing’s idea of a big tip was a dollar.

“It’s really a carefree life, which is how it should be when you’re this age, don’t you agree?” Patel looked at Ruth. He must have picked her as the stumbling block. How could he tell? Did she have a crease in the middle of her brow? It was obvious that Art thought the place was great.

Ruth decided she should get hard-nosed. “Are any of the people here, you know, like my mother? Do any of them have, well, memory problems of some sort?”

“It’s safe to assume that half the general population over age eighty-five likely has some memory problems starting to show. And after all, our average age here is eighty-seven.”

“I don’t mean just memory problems. What if it’s something more…”

“You mean like Alzheimer’s? Dementia?” Patel motioned them into another large room. “I’ll get back to your question in just a minute. This is the main activity hall.”

Several people looked up from a bingo game being conducted by a young man. Ruth noticed that most were nicely dressed. One was wearing a powder-blue pantsuit, a pearl necklace and earrings, as if she were going to Easter services. A beak-nosed man in a jaunty beret winked at her. She imagined him at thirty, a brash businessman, confident of his position in the world and with the ladies.

“Bingo!” a woman with almost no chin shouted.

“I haven’t called enough numbers yet, Anna,” the young man said patiently. “You need at least five to win. We’ve only done three so far.”

“Well, I don’t know. Just call me stupid, then.”

“No! No! No!” a woman in a shawl yelled. “Don’t you dare use that word in here.”

“That’s right, Loretta,” the young man added. “No one here is stupid. Sometimes we get a little confused, that’s all.”

“Stupid, stupid, stupid,” Anna muttered under her breath, as if she was cursing. She gave Loretta the evil eye. “Stupid!”

Patel did not seem perturbed. He quietly led Ruth and Art out of the room and to an elevator. As they ascended, he spoke. “To answer your question, most of the residents are what we call ‘frail elderly.’ They may have problems seeing or hearing or getting around without a cane or a walker. Some are sharper than you or I, others are easily confused and have signs of dementia due to Alzheimer’s or what have you. They tend to be a little forgetful about taking their pills, which is why
we
dispense all medications. But they always know what day it is, whether it’s movie Sunday or herb-picking Monday. And if they don’t remember the year, why should they? Some notions of time are irrelevant.”

“We might as well tell you now,” Art said. “Mrs. Young minks she’s coming here because of a radon leak in her home.” He presented a copy of the letter he had created.

“That’s a new one,” Patel conceded with an appreciative chuckle. “I’ll keep that in mind for other family members whose parents need a nudge. Ah yes, free rent, courtesy of the California Department of Public Safety. Quite good to make it official, mark of authority, like a summons.” He swung open a door. “This is the unit that just became available.” They walked into an apartment overlooking the garden: a compact living room, bedroom, and bathroom, empty of furnishings, smelling of fresh paint and new carpets. It occurred to Ruth that what Patel meant by “just became available” was that the last resident had died. The cheeriness of the place now seemed ominous, a façade hiding a darker truth.

“This is one of the nicest units,” Patel said. “There are smaller, less expensive rooms, studios, and some without an ocean or garden view. We should have one of those available, oh, in about another month.”

My God! He expected someone else to die soon. And he said it so casually, so matter-of-factly! Ruth felt trapped, frantic to escape. This place was like a death sentence. Wouldn’t her mother feel the same way? She’d never stay here for a month, let alone three.

“We can provide the furniture at no extra charge,” Patel said. “But usually the residents like to bring their own things. Personalize it and make it their home. We encourage that. And each floor is assigned the same staff, two caretakers per floor, day and night. Everyone knows them by name. One of them even speaks Chinese.”

“Cantonese or Mandarin?” Ruth asked.

“That’s a good question.” He pulled out a digital recorder and spoke into it: “Find out if Janie speaks Cantonese or Mandarin.”

“By the way,” Ruth asked, “how much are the fees?”

Patel answered without hesitation: “Thirty-two to thirty-eight hundred a month, depending on the room and level of services needed. That includes an escort to a monthly medical appointment. I can show you a detailed schedule downstairs.”

Ruth couldn’t keep from gasping over the cost. “Did you know that?” she asked Art. He nodded. She was both shocked at the expense and amazed that Art would be willing to pay that for three months, nearly twelve thousand dollars. She stared at him, openmouthed.

“It’s worth it,” he whispered.

“That’s crazy.”

She repeated this later, as he drove her to her mother’s.

“You can’t think of it the same way you think of rent,” Art replied. “It includes food, the apartment, a twenty-four-hour nurse, help with medication, laundry—”

“Right, and a very expensive orchid! I can’t let you pay that, not for three months.”

“It’s worth it,” he told her again.

Ruth exhaled heavily. “Listen, I’ll pay half, and if it works out, I’ll pay you back.”

“We already went through this. No halves and there’s nothing to pay back. I have some money saved and I want to do this. And I don’t mean it as a condition for us getting back together or getting rid of your mother or any of that. It’s not a condition for anything. It’s not pressure for you to make a decision one way or the other. There are no expectations, no strings attached.”

“Well, I appreciate the thought, but—”

“It’s more than a thought. It’s a gift. You have to learn to take them sometimes, Ruth. You do yourself wrong when you don’t.”

“What are you talking about?”

“The way you want something from people, some kind of proof of love or loyalty or belief in you. But you expect it won’t come. And when it’s handed to you, you don’t see it. Or you resist, refuse.”

“I do not—”

“You’re like someone who has cataracts and wants to see, but you refuse to have an operation because you’re afraid you’ll go blind. You’d rather go blind slowly than take a chance. And then you can’t see that the answer is right in front of you.”

“That’s not true,” she protested. Yet she knew there was some validity to what Art was saying. It was not exactly right, but parts of it were as familiar as the tidal wave in her dreams. She turned. “Have you always thought this of me?”

“Not in so many words. I didn’t really think about it until these past few months you’ve been gone. And then I started wondering if what you said about me was true. I realized I
am
self-centered, that I’m used to thinking about me first. But I also realized that you tend to think about you second. It’s as though I had permission from you to be less responsible. I’m not saying it’s your fault. But you have to learn to take back, grab it when it’s offered. Don’t fight it. Don’t get all tense thinking it’s complicated. Just take it, and if you want to be polite, say thank you.”