N
ineteen seventy-six was one of those good news/bad news years on Eden Lake Court. The good news was, Kat and I had become best friends. In the past two years, she’d looked out for me like nobody had since Daddy left me to fend for myself. She never questioned my helping my mother, but always took my side when Mama acted up. Kat always noticed whenever I was down, and cheered me up with funny stories from her life. She could even tell when I was getting sick, before I could (she said I “had that coming-down look”), and always brought me flowers (mostly from my own garden, but I didn’t mind). It’s the thought that counts, and she didn’t have any flowers in her own yard.
We shopped together, did projects together. And we went to every chick flick that came to town. So, in the past two years, we’d been good company for each other, in spite of our opposite ideas about most everything, especially politics.
The bad news was, 1976 was our first major election as friends, and a sorry election it was.
Of all the Georgians in the history of my native state, why the good Lord and the devil made a pact to run Jimmy Carter, of all people, as our first and only presidential candidate was beyond me.
I’m not saying he wasn’t a good man. I truly believed he was—committed to his ideals and Christian faith, and his marriage vows, which counts for something. But his platform and politics were pure pie-in-the-sky. He’d won the governor’s seat by painting himself as a fiscal and political reformer, promising to clean up the excess and corruption that had pervaded Georgia politics since Reconstruction. But all Carter did, once elected, was shuffle departments and rename them, which didn’t accomplish much besides infuriating the powers that be (including our Antichrist of a political boss, Tom Murphy). The most notorious example was the renamed state trade delegation, which couldn’t even get anybody overseas to take their calls, much less see them, till they went back to being the Georgia Trade Commission—with a whopping big stationery bill, paid for by we the people. Multiply that times twenty, and you get the picture. So much for fiscal reform.
Not that I don’t give the man credit for trying. But it’s like what Teddy Roosevelt said about trying to reform the Department of the Navy: it was like boxing with a feather bed; when it was over, he was worn out, but the feather bed was in the same shape it was when he started.
So there Carter was, running for president, promising to fix things nobody could fix. All the transplants in the neighborhood and at church thought I’d be thrilled to support a native son for president, but I set them straight, making sure to compliment his morals.
I tried to set Kat straight too, but she refused to listen. Seems Carter met Zach at some state function several years ago and asked if he was married, and Zach told him he and Kat had been together for two years. Carter clapped him on the back and said a good woman was hard to find. Then, last June when Zach was in New York on business (I guess plumbers have conventions too), he ran into Carter and his entourage in a hotel lobby, and Carter not only remembered his name (hard to forget Zach and all that hair), but asked how Kat was doing.
After that, it was all over but the shouting. The day Zach got home, he staked Carter signs every two feet along the sidewalk in front of their house, then bumper-stickered the Vanagon to smithereens. The next thing you know, Kat was volunteering fulltime at Carter’s campaign office downtown.
Forget issues—most notably, who was going to
pay
for all these programs he was promising. (We, the people.) But Kat and Zach, like most Americans, had been seduced by image, and there was no talking to them about the bottom line.
Meanwhile, I was left having to support
Gerald Ford,
of all people, a national joke with the face of a Gila monster, who’d pardoned Tricky Dicky (don’t get me started on him!). Worse still, the party had picked Bob Dole for his running mate, who made a pressure-treated two-by-four look like the life of the party. Most recently, Ford had embarrassed us further by publicly declaring that the Poles were free and unoppressed. How ignorant can you get?
I mean, what kind of choice was a man like that? Definitely
not
the person I wanted with his finger on the red button in the war room.
For the second time (Watergate being the first) I’d seriously considered canceling my membership to the Republican Party. But Greg—a die-hard fiscal reactionary—asked me not to, for business reasons, and my fellow party members played the Armageddon card (spendthrift Democrat policies), so I sucked it up and stayed on board.
So, as president of the Young Republican Women, I agreed to host a makeover brunch at nine on the first Tuesday in October for fifty prospective members, with a drawing for three complete makeovers. I’d invited Kat, who needed a makeover more than anybody I’d ever known, but she’d turned me down, horrified that I’d thought she might consider fraternizing with so many Republicans.
That morning dawned clear as a bell, with a crisp, seductive little breeze that cheered up everybody, including me. By nine, the refreshment committee had set up the buffet, and the hairdresser and makeup artist were ready to make over the three lucky women who won the door-prize drawing.
People didn’t really start arriving till twenty minutes later, which was to be expected, and they all made straight for the buffet. I stationed Sarah McGuire at the front door while I checked to make sure the homemade goodies were replenished. Sure enough, we were running low on my special spiced cider. I was adding some brown sugar and lemon to a fresh pot of apple juice on the stove when Sarah came up behind me and tugged at the sleeve of my Sunday dress. “Betsy, I don’t know how to tell you this,” she said in an urgent whisper, “but some scary-looking bums are out there picketing your house. They’re yelling at the guests and blocking their way.”
What?
“How did they get past security at the subdivision gate?”
Alicia shrugged. “I have no idea.”
“Here.” I threw some nutmeg into the pot, then jerked off my apron and handed Alicia the ladle. “Stir. I’ll take care of this.”
On the way to the front door, I saw that everyone had gathered at the windows, craning their necks and buzzing.
I got to the front porch and saw Kat, along with about thirty disreputable-looking hippies chanting “Vote for Carter, vote for change!” as they picketed on the sidewalk in front of my house. Whenever one of my guests approached, the picketers deliberately blocked their way, so the sidewalk was stacking up with a frustrated traffic jam of women in their best tea party attire.
I could not believe my best friend would do this to me. When I glared at her, Kat shot me a mischievous grin. “Down with Republican corruption,” she hollered. One side of her placard read GERALD FORD SUPPORTS CRIME, and the other, FORD WOULD PARDON HITLER.
The other placards bore similar Democrat hysteria, interspersed with Carter signs.
“Shame,” the picketers shouted to our approaching guests as they tried to come up the driveway. “Vote for Carter! Vote for change! Nixon was a criminal, and Ford pardoned him!”
“Tommy,” Kat called to one of the men over their chanting. “Where’s the media?”
The media! Spare me.
“I called the paper and the TV,” he shouted back. “They were supposed to be here, but some guy got his legs caught in a ditch cave-in downtown, so they’re all down there covering that.”
“Bummer,” another man weighed in as Kat made a face.
Furious, I forced myself to conceal the anger and betrayal I felt as I hurried down the driveway as fast as my three-inch heels would allow. When I came alongside Kat, I said, “Kat, honey, I know we don’t see eye-to-eye on politics, and I’ll be the first to defend your right to free speech. But you and your people can’t go intimidating my guests. Or blocking their access to the house. So could you please just ask your people to back off?”
Kat shot me a confrontational glare and kept right on marching as if I were just some annoying stranger, which hurt my feelings even more.
I tried one more time to get her to listen to reason. “Nobody’s saying y’all can’t picket. You just need to leave my guests alone.”
Without even looking at me, she returned fire with, “Oh, really? The way you and these reactionary so-called pro-lifers leave women alone when they’re trying to git a perfectly legal abortion?” Whoa. “’Scuse, me, but what’s sauce fer the goose is sauce fer the gander.” Her features congealed. “We’re only doin’ what we have to do to save this country from four more years of those criminals in Washington.”
“Oh, please,” I said. “Like the Democrats didn’t have any criminals in Washington?”
Kat scowled at me and picked up her pace.
This was ridiculous. “Kat, honey,” I bit out, “I’m asking this as a favor, friend to friend: have your people leave my people alone. I don’t want any trouble here.”
Her only response was to hold up her sign and holler, “Vote for the people, not the fat cats! God save democracy!”
“I’ve told you a million times,” I snapped, “America is a democratic
republic, not
a democracy. Pure democracy is tyranny of the masses. It didn’t work for the Greeks, and it won’t work here.”
She just smiled at me in challenge, then yelled to her cronies, “Sit-in for democracy!” In a blink, they broke ranks and sprinted for my front walk and the garage doors. Propelled by adrenaline, I ran after them, heels and all, and barely managed to get to the front porch before they formed a human blockade, then lay down, making it impossible for my guests to get in without climbing through my three-foot-tall azaleas.
Buzzing with outrage, my guests surged up the driveway, then congregated on the other side of the demonstrators.
Oh, Lord. What was I supposed to do now?
Kat and her thugs were trespassing, but if I called the cops, they’d arrest her along with the others. Even after what she’d just done to me, I didn’t want that.
At the forefront of the waiting guests, several members of my thrift shop committee from church stopped in consternation, looking to me as if I could wave my magic wand and make this go away.
Think! There had to be some way to deal with this diplomatically.
The last thing I wanted was to have my best friend hauled off to jail. No matter how betrayed I felt over what she’d done to me, I refused to stoop to her level.
Then it occurred to me that Kat might want me to call the cops, so she could get some publicity. But friends don’t have friends arrested, in my book, even if they are rabid Democrats with no respect for private property.
I had to think of something.
Then it came to me, like a ray of sunshine on a stormy day.
“Ladies,” I called to my blockaded guests, “if y’all could please bear with me, I’ll be right back and deal with this.”
I raced inside to my dressing room and the bathroom, grabbing what I needed, then I headed for the kitchen. “I need this,” I told Sarah as I untied the cutwork apron she was wearing, then put it on and dropped what I’d collected into its deep pockets.
I motioned to the stylist and makeup artist. “Could you two please bring some of your things and follow me?”
They exchanged curious glances, then nodded. The stylist grabbed his comb and scissors, and the makeup artist gathered a few brushes and her tackle box full of cosmetics.
Back on the front porch with them in tow, I smiled and raised my voice to declare, “As you ladies know, we are giving away some free makeovers today, thanks to two of Buckhead’s finest cosmeticians, Stephen Manus for Salon Divine, and Kelly Cooper from You, You, You on East Paces Ferry.”
A smattering of applause prompted the cosmeticians to take a bow.
I went on. “As it turns out, we have quite a few uninvited guests.” A murmur went up among the women. “Never let it be said that the party of Lincoln lacks manners,” I went on. “So I am now extending the makeovers to include our protesters.”
A confused murmur passed among the lie-ins.
I bent over to tell them, “Anybody who wants to participate, please remain lying on the ground. We will take this as a sign that you want to have a makeover. If you don’t want one, simply get up and go back to the sidewalk.”
Amused chuckles and applause spread through my side of the confrontation.
Kat tucked her chin in consternation.
I straightened, waiting for a response. When none of the picketers got up, I summoned my courage and initiated Plan A. “Well, it looks like you all want to participate. This is going to be fun.”
Pulling my battery-powered hair clippers from my apron pocket, I stepped over behind the head of the hairiest of the lot, a tall, fat man with tattoos and long, frizzy hair, plus a huge multicolored beard. “You, sir, are our first lucky ‘Dress for Success’ makeover winner!” I flicked on the clippers, then grabbed his beard and managed to cut off two-thirds of it just below the chin before he jerked away from me and shot to his feet.