Toygasms! (17 page)

“XXX-tasy”

More and more women are enjoying a little back-door play together with their vibrator play. All you need is a vibrator, a small butt plug, and plenty of lube.

Get comfortable on the couch, lying on your back or side with one leg up. Lubricate the vibrator, and begin buzzing with your favorite clitoral stroking styles. Once your juices are flowing, lube up your butt plug, and begin caressing your relaxed anus with its tip. Feel the ticklish, yet erotic sensations from the responsive nerve endings. When you’re ready, gently probe inward with the plug—you may find it’s already working its own way in! You’ll love the feeling of fullness from behind, together with the heavenly clitoral stimulation from your vibrator.

“Take Me Away”

Go for something new and naughty. And naughty in a good sense—since it’s just you and your lover. Lay on
your side, with him behind you in a spoon-like position. As you rub your favorite lube all over your inner vulva and clitoris, allow him to pleasure you from behind, using his fingers in creative ways and places. There’s nothing like your guy’s loving fingers inside you while you’re taking care of the outer pleasure spot at the same time. After you’ve had an orgasm or two, have him lube up his finger and play around your anus. Remember, this is to be done slowly, sensually and with lots of lube. When the exotic probing of a single finger is getting you off, he can go for two fingers, or graduate to a small anal dildo!

Sadie Sez:

Most people stash their pleasure treasures in the nightstand, but what if they could be “found” there by curious kids and nosy guests? Try this: hide your toys in a shoebox under the mattress, or zippered inside a special pillow with secret inner pockets. Opaque plasticware from your kitchen offers you another safe option. Best yet, hang a draw-string bag on a hanger in your closet, between two of your own garments. No one will EVER find them there!

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re you among the lucky women whose breasts, nipples and areolas are nearly as sensitive as your labia, clitoris and vagina—or just as responsive? If you haven’t experimented with all the playthings designed for nipples, especially during lovemaking, this chapter will change your outlook!

Nipple play for many women and men is a tantalizing treat. And you’ll find an assortment of toys that deliver mild-to-wild sensations that can mimic the tease of a lover’s nibble—to the squeeze of a lover’s bite. The key to your enjoyment? Go slow. Whether your toy has a wide, flat surface to give you a broad, dull sense of pressure, or a thumbscrew to give you eye-watering tension, experiment with different parts of your nipples till you find your own erotic spots.

Nipples clamps

Nipple clamps are heavenly for the nipple-play connoisseur. They come with many different pleasure-enhancing features, such as rubber or vinyl tip-covers to keep you comfortable while protecting you from too much pressure. You’ll also find adjustable clamps, vibrating clamps, and clamps that heat up. Other models feature attractive chains that connect one clamp to the other, so you can gently tug on them for extra sensations.

“Dragon Bite”

Start by discovering which parts of your nipples give you the most erotic sensations. Some people like the clamps on the very tips of their nipples, while others prefer them at the base. Tighten the grip so you feel the sharp, yet enjoyable sensation—which may repeat each
time you move or jiggle the toy. Now, with your clamps in place, begin your solo or partner sex-play. When you’re ready to release the clamps, you may feel that sharp sensation again, but this time it’s caused by the blood flowing back into your nipples—a big erotic rush! Repeat clamping and releasing to your pleasure during each nipple-play session.

You can choose from two types of nipple suction toys: static and hand-activated pumps. Static toys are suction cups or vinyl caps that fit over your nipples. After moistening the edge with lube or saliva, squeeze the sides and place one over each nipple for a suction-y grip.

Hand-activated nipple pumps will give you more suction sensations, but often work on just one nipple at a time, and it can get in the way during lovemaking.
Warning:
Do not use a nipple pump on your clitoris. It could damage your delicate organ.

Sadie Sez:

If you’re a new mother with a breast-feeding milk pump, I don’t need to remind you they also make great nipple suction toys!