The Unfinished Symphony of You and Me (2 page)

An Opera in Five Acts

It all began on an April day in 1990. I was playing horses in the kitchen with Fiona, my cousin, who had recently moved in with us because she didn’t have any parents of her own. We were in the final round of a tense show-jumping competition when I heard an unusual sound coming out of the radio.

One of the DJs on Beacon FM was playing Cio-Cio-San’s famous aria from
Madam Butterfly
, ‘Un bel di vedremo’ (‘One Fine Day’). Opera was not the norm on Beacon FM; as I recall, it was part of a very unfunny DJ joke. But the sheer spine-tingling tragedy of the tune took me by surprise. I looked over at Fiona who, at seven, had already endured more tragedy than most people would in a lifetime, and promptly burst into tears.

The show-jumping was paused while I cried and hugged my little cousin, who was embarrassed by my actions and told me that I was being something called a lesbian.

When the aria ended, I stared, awed, at the radio. What had that been?

It was my first exposure to opera. I liked it.

But the second time I heard opera, later that year in July, I
loved
it. I loved it so much that my insides started to do funny things. I stopped eating the choc-ice that I had in my chubby little hand. It was ten fifteen p.m. and I shouldn’t have been awake, let alone eating choc-ices, but Mum and Dad were at a bingo dinner and had left Karen Castle babysitting Dennis, Fiona and me. Karen Castle was the closest thing to liberal and artsy that my parents would allow in their house.

I had been asleep about an hour when she arrived in my room, holding my big brother Dennis by the hand, and told me that we had to go downstairs and watch a very important thing on the telly. It was the 1990 World Cup and the famous Three Tenors concert was being beamed in live from Rome.

‘Forget Live Aid,’ Karen Castle whispered fiercely. ‘This is one of the most important moments in music history. It’s going to bring opera to the masses. It’s
huge
.’

‘Don’t want to,’ Dennis mumbled sleepily, but I remembered exactly what opera was and flew down the stairs like a precision missile in pink pyjamas.

Pavarotti, Domingo and Carreras changed my life that night. I found their Andrew Lloyd Webber megamix a bit so-so, but when they started the serious stuff, I was listening. And when they brought that ancient stadium thundering down with ‘Nessun dorma’, I knew that nothing could ever be the same again.

Fiona had been completely unmoved. Dennis had fallen asleep.

I raided my piggy bank and bought a tape called
Opera
Favourites
.
Everything
on it became my favourite. I tingled with pleasure listening to it and after a while – singing as quietly as I could – began to join in. While my school friends rapped along with MC Hammer I kept it real with Joan Sutherland and Marilyn Horne, who sang words I couldn’t understand to tunes that I really could.

If there was anything odder than a seven-year-old girl developing an opera-singing habit, it was a seven-year-old developing a top-secret opera habit. I couldn’t quite put my finger on why but I felt instinctively that I could never, and
should
never, sing in front of anyone else. So I sang in my wardrobe where nobody could hear me.

And I never really questioned this because extreme privacy was a core value in the Howlett family. Mum and Dad, in spite of living on a council estate where private issues were mostly discussed in murderous screams, shared a strangely fearful, Victorian attitude towards privacy. They spent their lives muttering about how our neighbours had no shame, living their lives on show like that, and tried with all their quiet might to be completely invisible.

Which was quite a problem for them, because the circumstances under which Fiona had come to live with us recently had been reported not just in the local papers but the nationals.

Woman’s body found in Midlands Canal

Where’s the daddy? Nationwide search mounted
for touring actor: who will claim this little girl?

No father for Fiona: Canal orphan taken
in by dead woman’s sister

We were a family ‘beset by tragedy’, the papers had said. They showed pictures of Mum at her sister’s funeral and gave them captions like ‘Frozen with grief, Brenda Howlett with her little niece Fiona’. At school Fiona and I overheard a special assembly (from which we had been banned) where the head told everyone that our family had been torn apart by a dreadful catastrophe and must be treated with the greatest sensitivity and respect.

I wondered if everyone had confused us with a different family. There was no grieving in our house. No sense of catastrophe. When Mum was told that her sister had been found floating in a lonely section of the canal, she thanked the officers for their time and went to bed for a week. Then she got up, put on a black nylon dress for the funeral and never spoke about it again.

Dad had busied himself making Fiona a bedroom while a half-hearted search for Fiona’s dad had taken place, and Fiona had just watched TV all day and all night. Dennis and I hadn’t said anything about it because nobody else was saying anything about it.

That was just the way we did things in our family.

The press, hoping for a big circus of grief and hysteria, didn’t like it. They stayed on our doorstep way longer than necessary. ‘Tell us how you’re all coping,’ they wheedled, through the letter box.

‘We don’t air our dirty laundry in public,’ Mum reminded us all. There was a frightening edge to her voice. ‘Mandy has gone and we don’t talk about her, in or out of this house. Understood?’

So, by the time all the fuss had died down, the press had straggled off our estate and Fiona had been installed in the
converted cupboard under the stairs, just like Harry Potter, Mum and Dad’s hatred of being visible had become pathological. ‘Seen and not heard’ was no longer enough. From now on, the Howletts did not wish even to be seen.

Years later, a man with intense blue eyes and an unironed T-shirt would hold my hand in a jazz bar in Harlem and remind me that grief made us behave in very strange ways.

But back to 1990. Summer. IRA car bombs and scorching weather, bright green ice pops and scabby knees. Little Sally and little Fiona living together for the first time on a small council estate in Stourbridge; the Howlett family learning to breathe again after weeks of press hounding.

My wardrobe singing had become the highlight of my day. Singing made me feel tingly and alive: feeling the breath rush in through my mouth and expand deep into my belly, and hearing it coming back out in a proper tune – in the right key, and in the right time, and with a richness that amazed me – was better than cheese and pickle cobs or oven chips or Wotsits. It was better even than Arctic Roll.

Singing insulated me from the hollowness of my family and the tragedy we weren’t meant to discuss. It stopped me worrying obsessively about Fiona, who couldn’t possibly be happy in our house. It lifted me high above everything my little mind worried about and suspended me above my life, as if I was in a hot-air balloon on a summer evening.

But top-secret opera habits are seldom simple.

Fiona was my best friend but she was also very
annoying and, somehow, she managed to overhear me one night. The next day she teased me noisily at school, saying that I sounded like a posh old fat woman, and would only stop when I agreed to dump Eddie Spencer on her behalf, then punch him on the arm and tell him he smelt of bad poos. I did it and Fi, mercifully, stopped teasing me.

Next came the problem of taking opera to the masses. Even though I didn’t want anyone to know that I sang, I did feel quite strongly that the world – or at the very least the town of Stourbridge – needed to know about opera. I began by playing my
Opera Favourites
tape to my first boyfriend, Jim Babcock, who looked bored and farted and said that my music was rubbish. Then at Saturday-morning roller-skating I asked the DJ if he could stop playing ‘Ghostbusters’ and try some Puccini. He announced my request to the leisure centre, the crowd revolted and everyone, including Fiona, told me I was a massive wazzock.

Fiona bought me a blue Slush Puppy from the café afterwards to say sorry, but my lesson had been learned. Opera and Stourbridge would not be friends.

Unfortunately, Mrs Badger – a failed concert pianist and the deputy head of my primary school – had other ideas. She had overheard Fiona teasing me and pulled me to one side during lunch hour. She was armed with a big smile and a very persuasive tone. Somehow, she talked me into singing a short solo in the Christmas concert, even though the concert was usually for the top-year juniors. But Fiona, who was already an outstanding little ballet dancer, was going to do a solo too, and Mrs Badger promised me chocolate and I gave in because I found it almost impossible to say no to anyone.

‘You’ll be wonderful,’ Mrs Badger assured me. ‘Think how proud your mum’ll be!’ I wasn’t convinced but Mrs Badger’s eyes were flashing emotionally. She told me that it would be one of the most memorable nights of my young life so far.

Mrs Badger was not wrong.

By the day of the concert I was ill with nerves. Jim Babcock had hated my opera music. The leisure centre had hated my opera music. And Mum and Dad would … I didn’t know what they’d do, but I knew they would be really upset and possibly angry that I was singing a solo when we were still meant to be in lockdown.

But an innocent, sweet, stubborn little part of me maintained that if opera singing could make me feel so happy, maybe it would cheer up Mum and Dad. Maybe they wouldn’t be so embarrassed and awkward if they could hear how lovely it was.

To calm the nerves I had to eat everything in my lunch box, and then everything in Fi’s lunch box. (Fi, aged eight, was already on her first diet.) Nonetheless, by the time I stepped on stage I was shaking visibly and my breath was short and shuddering.

In a hazy sea of faces I caught sight of Mum and Dad, who had obviously just realized what was going to happen. Mum’s eyes were bursting out of her head. With pride or embarrassment I’d never know, although pride was unlikely. All I knew was that as Mrs Badger started playing the introduction to ‘L’ho perduta’ I felt a stunning certainty that nothing was going to come out of my mouth.

Nothing came out of my mouth. I stood, frozen, a little
girl with a scab on her chin and a badly fitting pinafore dress, completely mute.

Mrs Badger was having none of it, and started the intro again so that I could collect myself. Once again I caught sight of my parents, who seemed like they were in cardiac arrest. Mum’s face, white and frozen, looked like it did the day the police came round and told her that the woman found in the Wolverhampton canal was her sister Mandy.

Then I felt warm liquid run down the inside of my left leg. I stood right there on stage, in front of all the other parents (
and
Jim Babcock, who I knew was going to dump me), and felt the warmth sliding down towards my feet, pooling in a fat oval shape on the floor. I stopped thinking, maybe even breathing, and stood there until Fiona ran on from the wings and dragged me off.

When we got home, Mum marched upstairs where she ran a bath. She filled it with Matey bubbles and rubber ducks, even though it had been years since I’d liked rubber ducks and they were all mouldy and black on the bottom. While it was filling she took me into my bedroom and said, in a scary voice, ‘Where is it?’ It wasn’t a question, it was a command.

I didn’t even bother to ask what ‘it’ was. I simply reached into my wardrobe for my
Opera Favourites
cassette and handed it to her, along with the
Opera
magazine I’d bought a few weeks ago so that I could stare solemnly at the pictures of big-boobed singers.

Mum looked at the cassette and magazine as if I had presented her with a steaming pile of dog shit, and took them downstairs. ‘Sally,’ she called sharply. I followed. Mum threw both in the kitchen bin, then scraped the
remains of Dennis’s ketchupy fish fingers on top of them. For good measure she added a pile of orange mush, the remains of Fi’s. Fi’s favourite thing at the moment was to mash up her dinner and not actually eat any of it. I could see Maria Callas’s face with blobs of deep-fried breadcrumbs sliding slowly down it.

‘No more singing,’ Mum stated.

My lip wobbled. In spite of what had happened tonight, I knew I loved singing. It was the best feeling I’d ever known.

‘You can’t do that!’ Fiona butted in. Fiona was the only person in the house who ever dared take on Mum. ‘She’s really good at it!’

Mum didn’t even look at her.

‘
No more singing
,’ she repeated. ‘If I catch you at it again there’ll be serious trouble. It’s for your own good, Sally.’ Mum never really raised her voice, just hissed in varying shades of angry snake. ‘We don’t need no more trouble with …’ Mum paused. ‘With
performing arts
,’ she concluded shakily. ‘Now go upstairs and get yourself clean, Sally.’

That was that.

But that wasn’t that, not really. I carried on singing because I couldn’t not. Now I did it
only
in my wardrobe and
only
when there was no one else in the house. ‘Nobody,’ I promised myself, ‘will ever hear me sing again.’

On the outside Sally Howlett resumed being normal, dependable and solid. There would have been no point in trying to be alternative and unreliable even if I’d wanted to be: Fiona provided enough drama to keep the entire primary school (indeed, at times what seemed like the whole world) entertained. It sent Mum and Dad crazy
and Fiona was punished again and again, although seldom with any effect. Fiona set fire to things. She tormented people. She showed her flat chest to the boys during Thursday-afternoon hymn practice, then flashed at the headmaster when he tried to tell her off. She cheated at netball and she stole from the canteen. Frequently she implicated me in her crimes but she was seldom believed.

And I didn’t really mind, because she whacked anyone who caused me trouble and wrote stories about me being a brave and beautiful princess and made up pop songs about us being together for ever. She climbed into my bed every night and hugged me and told me she loved me. And I told her I loved her back because I did; more than Dennis, more than Mum and Dad.