possession of them. Women do not have the same capacity for dissociation characteristic of men. Women think of marriage, home, and family as integral parts of their entire lives. Men are able to dissociate the family from their work and lead two separate existences, employing much greater concentration upon their work than upon their families. A woman's life is first and foremost bound up with that of her family, with her husband, her children; or if she hasn't a family of her own yet, with the hope and expectation of one.
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Consider a typical situation in the professional field. The profession of medicine, for example, will bring the point out, as it were, in high relief. In medicine today, it is more likely than not that a woman will marry, and she is more likely than not to continue her career. It is, however, less than likely that she will have children, or that, having them, she will continue a fulltime profession. In fact, two-thirds of women doctors with active practices have children, and therefore limit their work hours. To some extent this is a factor in the disparity of earnings between genders in the medical profession.
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The responsibility for young children is the dilemma with which women in most professions are to a greater or lesser extent faced. The male, however, with his uncanny faculty for detaching his mind from his heart, his reason from his emotions, his work from his home, is seldom confronted with such a quandary. For him work and home are two utterly different worlds, so that when he arrives home it is, in large measure, to a totally dissimilar way of life, with new terms and symbols and relationships. The working male doesn't have the same kind of problems that the working female has. He is able to devote all of himself to his work when he is at it, for traditionally the male stakes his whole career upon his performance; a woman rarely does. For the most part women are busy creatively living the life that men can only paint or write about. Because women live creatively, when they write, as they so ably are increasingly doing, they bring an added dimension of humanity to their writing that makes, for example, the novels of Jane Austen, Virginia Woolf, George Eliot, and Toni Morrison among the most distinguished in the English language. Women create naturally, men create less sensitively.
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Great gifts in a woman's mind and character, great achievements made by women, do not usually take the form that brings recognition and fame. Her medium is humanity, and her materials
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