Women Act of 1994, and the Gender Equity in Education Act signed into law that same year. And, by 1993 all fifty states had revised their laws so that under certain conditions husbands could be prosecuted for sexually assaulting their wives. However, legal equality does not mean that the relationships between the sexes will become automatically and harmoniously balanced. Such recognition is helping; but the basic age-old problems between the sexes can no more be solved by constitutional amendment than have the much younger racial and religious problems. These difficulties are all problems in human relations and until they are solved, human beings will in large numbers continue to behave unintelligently and ineffectually.
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What, then, is the solution? It lies in a revaluation of our values; in a complete revaluation and reorganization of what today passes for education, but represents nothing more than instruction, a very different thing. Instruction is really just a training in techniques and skills, the three Rs. Such training is, of course, indispensably necessary, but it is only a limited part of what should be understood by education . The very word is derived from the Latin educare, meaning to nourish and to cause to grow. And what is it that one should nourish and cause to grow? It has taken us late into the twentieth century to at last discover the answer to that question. It is: the basic behavioral needs of the child, the needs for growth and development as a physically and mentally healthy person, a whole person, one who is able to love, to work, to play, and to think soundly. These are the four great chords of mental health, and that is what education should be about.
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The basic behavioral needs are complementary to our basic physical needs, the latter are the needs for food, oxygen, water, shelter, respiration, activity, rest, sleep, bowel and bladder elimination, and the avoidance of dangerous and noxious stimuli. These physical needs must be satisfied if the organism is to survive. What has not been recognized is that there also exists a set of complementary basic emotional needs, the basic behavioral needs are the need for love, sensitivity, friendship, stimulation, curiosity, wonder, thinking, work, enthusiasm, imagination, creativity, song, dance exploration, experiment, learning, and many others. It is the nourishment and encouragement of these behavioral basic needs that should be the primary
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