The Education of a Very Young Madam (27 page)

Terminology and Abbreviations from the Internet and the Underground

AKA or Asian Oral sex on the anus (also called Rimming or Around-the-World)

Asian Cowgirl Girl on top, resting on her feet instead of her knees

Automatic A girl whose pimp lets her work on her own without supervision

Bare Back Blow Job (BBBJ) Oral sex on a man without using a condom (also called French Without)

Bare Back Blow Job to Completion (BBBJTC) Oral sex on a man, without using a condom, to climax

Bare Back Blow Job to Completion, No Quit, No Spit (BBBJTCNQNS) Oral sex on a man, without using a condom, to climax, followed by swallowing

BBW Big beautiful woman

Blow Job (BJ) Oral sex performed on a man

Bottom A pimp's number one girl or the girl who has been with him the longest

Break Yourself Pay your pimp

Choosy Suzy A girl who jumps from pimp to pimp

Covered Blow Job (CBJ) Oral sex on a man using a condom (also called French With)

Cowgirl Girl on top

Daddy What a girl calls her pimp

Deep Indicating the number of girls a pimp has working for him, as in "He's two deep" or "three deep"

Deep Throat (DT) Blow job where the penis is taken all the way into the mouth.

Dining at the Y (DATY) Cunnilingus

Doggie Style Man behind girl, standing or kneeling

Dope Boy Drug dealer

French Oral sex

Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM) Not usually full service, expect only massage and hand job (see definition). Also known as Private Viewing or B2B (Body to Body)

Full Service Intercourse to completion (with condom!)

GFE Girlfriend experience. Refers to a type of session that provides a social and physical experience beyond the act itself. More like a date than a quick encounter.

Greek Anal sex with condom

Greek Without Anal sex without condom (aka Death Wish)

Half and Half A combination of oral sex and intercourse

Hand Job (HJ) Masturbation by yourself or others

Incall You meet the girl at her place or at a hotel arranged by her

Outcall The girl comes to your place—your home, your hotel, et cetera

Out of Pocket Talking to or looking at another pimp

Porn Star Experience (PSE) A session that feels like being in a porn or XXX movie. Also, a date with a real porn star.

Quota The amount of money a girl is expected to make in order to pay her pimp

Renegade A girl without a pimp

Russian Penis between a girl's breasts until completion

Simp Wannabe pimp

Trap Amount of money made

Turn Out A girl who is new to the pimp and ho game Tweaker Drug user

Wife-in-Law Another girl with the same pimp

Covered Blow Job (CBJ) Oral sex on a man using a condom (also called French With)

Cowgirl Girl on top

Daddy What a girl calls her pimp

Deep Indicating the number of girls a pimp has working for him, as in "He's two deep" or "three deep"

Deep Throat (DT) Blow job where the penis is taken all the way into the mouth.

Dining at the Y (DATY) Cunnilingus

Doggie Style Man behind girl, standing or kneeling

Dope Boy Drug dealer

French Oral sex

Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM) Not usually full service, expect only massage and hand job (see definition). Also known as Private Viewing or B2B (Body to Body)

Full Service Intercourse to completion (with condom!)

GFE Girlfriend experience. Refers to a type of session that provides a social and physical experience beyond the act itself. More like a date than a quick encounter.

Greek Anal sex with condom

Greek Without Anal sex without condom (aka Death Wish)

Half and Half A combination of oral sex and intercourse

Hand Job (HJ) Masturbation by yourself or others

Incall You meet the girl at her place or at a hotel arranged by her

Outcall The girl comes to your place—your home, your hotel, et cetera

Out of Pocket Talking to or looking at another pimp

Porn Star Experience (PSE) A session that feels like being in a porn or XXX movie. Also, a date with a real porn star.

Quota The amount of money a girl is expected to make in order to pay her pimp

Renegade A girl without a pimp

Russian Penis between a girl's breasts until completion

Simp Wannabe pimp

Trap Amount of money made

Turn Out A girl who is new to the pimp and ho game Tweaker Drug user

Wife-in-Law Another girl with the same pimp

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Acknowledgments

First, I want to thank Christa for her amazing strength and ability to piece together the puzzle of my life into something readable. And, while doing so, for being a personal therapist, ally, and dear friend. It has been an amazing experience.

I want to thank Beth Wareham for being a risk taker with a wild streak, which made me comfortable enough to air all my dirty laundry. This book has helped me confront many demons and saved me a ton of money on therapy! Thanks also to Whitney Frick and the rest of the team at Scribner for their support with this book.

I want to thank Carey for being there for me through thick and thin and for never giving up on me even when I would have. It gives me great hope knowing good people do exist in this world.

I want to thank my three favorite hotels for allowing me the pleasure of creating this book from the comfort of my home away from home. (Let me know if you need to collect those smoking fines you always seem to overlook.) Special thanks to Carlos, Martha, Ammira, Evelyn, and Elizabeth; you guys are awesome!

I want to thank my Brooklyn homies who kept me high on life. (Puff Puff Pass!)

And to save the best for last...to all my ladies and gents who not only made the survival of a thirteen-year-old runaway possible but allowed me to have a very adventurous, exciting, and fulfilling life that most people could only read about!