Sex Secrets of an American Geisha (33 page)

I’ve asked you to buy certain items, the vibrator being the most impor tant, and to become familiar with your vagina, and to masturbate,
now.
If you have not done any (or any one) of these things, please begin,
now.
Again, to marry quickly, you must
act
on these secrets; you must
do
what is required to attract, satisfy, and keep your Good Man.

Once you begin to
act
and to
do,
to
use
these hot, sexy Asian Geisha se crets (all of which are action verbs), you begin to change your Geisha Con sciousness, incorporating into it more of that person you are becoming, an American Geisha. Do it now, please.
Today
, begin your journey to sexuality, love, and marriage to your Good Man.

Good luck from your American Geisha Older Sister in your search for your Good Man and in finding the happiness, love, and marriage that you deserve as a Good Woman.

I want to know how I’ve helped you. Visit my website, at www.American GeishaHouse.com, and share with me your success story of love, sex, and marriage. Tell me what is working for you.

Even invite me to your wedding. I promise I’ll at least send you a per sonal message in return.

G L O S S A R Y

A Hot and Sexy List of Terms

American Geisha:

the author’s term for a woman who uses Asian Geisha wisdom and secrets in her pursuit of sexuality, love, and marriage with a Good Man; the author is the first or Older Sister American Geisha, and the reader is invited to become a trainee or Younger Sister American Geisha.

anterior vaginal wall:

the front wall of the vagina (the top wall when a woman is lying on her back); where the G-spot is located.

areola:

the pink-brown, sometimes rough-to-the-touch ring of flesh surrounding the nipple.

Asian fetish:

being particularly attracted to Asian women, often due to thestereotypes concerning them. Also called “yellow fever.”

Asian Geisha:

author’s term for the blending of the Japanese
geisha
and the Korean
kisaeng.

Asian Geisha’s training:

learning the art of conversation, dance, song, music (
shamisen
and drums), tea ceremony, dressing, flower arrangement, poetry, walking, entering a room, pouring drinks, serving food, and much more.

blended orgasm:

see “G-spot orgasm.”

blow job:

fellatio; sucking and licking the cock (and balls) to please a man and to bring him to orgasm.

bondage:

voluntary tying up of your man before having your sexy way with him; or vice versa.

calories in and out:

a fundamental law of physics. If you consume fewer calories in a day than you burn up, you will lose weight that day; and vice versa.

cervix:

the neck of the uterus, which connects it to the vagina. Deep cock thrusting can reach the cervix.

clitoral orgasm:

the pudendal nerves send messages of sexual arousal from the clitoris to the brain, eventually resulting in a clitoral orgasm, which involves the contraction of the front two-thirds of the PC muscles. Female ejaculation will not accompany strictly clitoral orgasms.

clitoris:

one of the centers of sensual/sexual feeling in the woman, located where the inner vulval lips join just below the mound of Venus; covered by the clitoral hood; becomes engorged with blood when sexually excited; involved in both clitoral and blended orgasms.

coccyx bone:

the tailbone, located at the base of the spine and to which one end of the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles attach.

cock:

preferred sexual name for the penis (“penis” is a urological term).

conscious relationship:

a continued focus on and awareness of the state or quality of your love relationship.

danna:

patron, supporter, sponsor; the lover for whom a Japanese geisha saves her greatest commitment of attention, time, and sexuality; the relationship is formalized through a marriagelike ceremony.

erectile dysfunction:

when the male has difficulty getting or maintaining a satisfactory erection.

erectile tissue:

network of tissue in the genital areas of both men and women that fills with blood or other liquid and swells when either indirectly or directly stimulated during sexual arousal; includes the urethral sponge in women.

female ejaculation:

emission through the urethra of a nonurine fluid stored in the urethral sponge during indirect arousal of the female prostate through direct stimulation of the G-spot (in this book the ejaculate is also called Gräfenberg Juice, Love Juice, Feminine Waters, Love Lava, Feminine Fountain).

female prostate:

formerly known as the Skene’s glands, a network of glands and ducts surrounding the urethra and bladder. The engorgement of the female prostate with blood can be felt from within the vagina by applying direct pressure against the area of the upper vaginal wall known as the G-spot.

female prostate orgasm:

see “G-spot orgasm.”

female sexual anatomy (organs):

includes the clitoris, urethra, vagina, vulva, prostate, G-spot, pelvic muscles and nerves, and other erectile tissues.

feminine-ist:

a woman who happily operates out of her sense of her femininity; not to be confused with
feminist,
which is practically the opposite of feminine-ist.

flower and willow world:

the Asian Geisha life; geisha society; the geisha district; the geisha world; poetically,
karyukai
in Japanese.

Four Core Characteristics of a Good Man:

four traits a Good Man has as a basic part of his personality; nonnegotiable characteristics you seek in a Good Man: 1) has good values; 2) is aware and responsible; 3) is nice and treats you well; and 4) is a happy person.

Four Fundamental Needs, Your:

absolute, basic needs in your relationship with your Good Man: 1) need to marry; 2) need for a strong love relationship; 3) need for a passionate sexual relationship; and 4) need for only a Good Man to date and marry.

geisha:

Japanese artist entertainer; in Korea,
kisaeng.

Geisha Attitude:

particular attitude toward men, similar to the attitude of the Japanese geisha toward her male clients. See “Geisha Consciousness.”

Geisha Attractiveness:

the combination of an Asian Geisha’s or American Geisha’s physical beauty, beautiful clothes, sexiness, and femininity.

Geisha Consciousness:

developing a way of thinking like an Asian Geisha, particularly toward men; understanding geisha ways of looking at the male-female relationship.

Geisha Femininity:

an appreciation that the Asian Geisha has the power of her femininity in relationship with men; the Asian Geisha is seen as the embodiment of femininity (which the American Geisha also seeks).

Geisha Plan:

American Geisha Weight Loss and Maintenance Plan; not a diet
.

Good Man:

Mr. Right, Prince Charming, a near-perfect-for-you man, an appropriate man for your future husband. He has the Four Core Characteristics; the only type of man to date or marry. See “Four Core Characteristics of a Good Man.”

Good Woman:

You, the reader, the American Geisha; has the same Four Core Characteristics as the Good Man; a woman worthy of finding a Good Man; the type of woman sought by Good Men.

Gräfenberg Juice:

after the doctor who first clinically identified the G-spot, the juice or liquid that is ejaculated following G-spot stimulation; Love Juice, Feminine Waters, Love Lava, Feminine Fountain.

G-spot:

small, slightly raised, sexually sensitive area located one and a half to two inches inside the vagina on the front wall; associated with the female prostate and female ejaculation. Clinically identified in the 1950s by German physician Ernst Gräfenberg.

G-spot orgasm:

the physical and emotional sensations and climax created by simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and the G-spot; often involves female ejaculation; also known as a blended orgasm.

female prostate orgasm:

same as G-spot orgasm.

inner and outer vulval lips:

labia minora and labia majora, respectively.

Kegel exercises:

a set of biofeedback exercises originally designed by Dr. Arnold Kegel to strengthen the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles to reduce urinary stress incontinence; they also strengthen the grip of the vagina; strength of these muscles is critical to the ability to female ejaculate.

kisaeng:

in Korea, the equivalent of the Japanese geisha
.

labia majora:

outer vulval lips; defines the outer limits of the vaginal area, like a raised curb; swells some with sexual stimulation.

labia minora:

inner “butterflylike” vulval lips, composed of thin, very sensitive skin that often swells and engorges quite noticeably with sexual stimulation; lie inside the labia majora.

latent sexuality:

becoming aware of one’s sexual potential later in life.

Lucky Seven development areas:

to be 1) positive, optimistic, and happy; 2) relaxed, at ease, confident (not desperate); 3) sexually aware of your desires and capabilities; 4) at just the right weight; 5) fit, toned, healthy; 6) beautiful and feminine; and 7) dressed and made up well.

maiko:

in Japan, younger sister; geisha-in-training; apprentice geisha.

manhood:

cock; also, a man’s psychological identity tied to his cock.

masturbate/masturbation:

playing with yourself; stimulation of your own genitals to achieve orgasm. Sometimes involves using sex toys; sometimes in front of your partner.

mizuage:

in Japan, the ritual taking of a
maiko
’s virginity by the highest bidder (now illegal).