Authors: Editors of Reader's Digest
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M
ARGARET
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HATCHER
Downing Street Years
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Pay attention to your enemies, for they are the first to discover your mistakes.
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NTISTHENES
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A friend is someone who makes me feel totally acceptable.
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R
IISNA
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The best mirror is a friend's eye.
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AELIC PROVERB
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HE BEST HELPING HAND . . .
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Sometimes the best helping hand you can get is a good, firm push.
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J
OANN
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HOMAS
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What do we live for if it is not to make life less difficult for each other?
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G
EORGE
E
LIOT
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Whoever is spared personal pain must feel himself called to help in diminishing the pain of others.
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LBERT
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CHWEITZER
Memoirs of Childhood and Youth
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Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
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No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of it for anyone else.
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C
HARLES
D
ICKENS
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Great opportunities to help others seldom come, but small ones surround us every day.
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ALLY
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OCH
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Wisconsin
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I have always held firmly to the thought that each one of us can do a little to bring some portion of misery to an end.
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A
LBERT
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CHWEITZER
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We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop.
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M
OTHER
T
ERESA OF
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ALCUTTA
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It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding.
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K
AHLIL
G
IBRAN
The Prophet
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He who helps early helps twice.
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T
ADEUSZ
M
AZOWIECKI
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Expect people to be better than they are; it helps them to become better. But don't be disappointed when they are not; it helps them to keep trying.
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ERRY
B
ROWNE
in
National Enquirer
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You may give gifts without caringâbut you can't care without giving.
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F
RANK
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C
LARK
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Never hesitate to hold out your hand; never hesitate to accept the outstretched hand of another.
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P
OPE
J
OHN
XXIII
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It is one of the beautiful compensations of this life that no one can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.
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C
HARLES
D
UDLEY
W
ARNER
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We love those people who give with humility, or who accept with ease.
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F
REYA
S
TARK
Perseus in the Wind
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Basically, the only thing we need is a hand that rests on our own, that wishes it well, that sometimes guides us.
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H
ECTOR
B
IANCIOTTI
Sans La Misericorde du Christ
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Extending your hand is extending yourself.
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R
OD
M
C
K
UEN
Book of Days
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The miracle is thisâthe more we share, the more we have.
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L
EONARD
N
IMOY
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To ease another's heartache is to forget one's own.
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A
BRAHAM
L
INCOLN
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The more sympathy you give, the less you need.
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ALCOLM
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F
ORBES
in
Forbes
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He is not an honest man who has burned his tongue and does not tell the company that the soup is hot.
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UGOSLAV PROVERB
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Honesty is stronger medicine than sympathy, which may console but often conceals.
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G
RETEL
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HRLICH
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Correction does much, but encouragement does more.
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J
OHANN
W
OLFGANG VON
G
OETHE
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Money-giving is a good criterion of a person's mental health. Generous people are rarely mentally ill people.
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D
R.
K
ARL
M
ENNINGER
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The impersonal hand of government can never replace the helping hand of a neighbor.
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H
UBERT
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H
UMPHREY
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You can't get rid of poverty by giving people money.
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J
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O'R
OURKE
A Parliament of Whores
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We'd all like a reputation for generosity, and we'd all like to buy it cheap.
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M
IGNON
M
C
L
AUGHLIN
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The greatest pleasure I know is to do a good action by stealth and have it found out by accident.
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C
HARLES
L
AMB
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Real charity doesn't care if it's tax-deductible or not.
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D
AN
B
ENNETT
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Criticism, like rain, should be gentle enough to nourish a man's growth without destroying his roots.
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F
RANK
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C
LARK
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Nobody wants constructive criticism. It's all we can do to put up with constructive praise.
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M
IGNON
M
C
L
AUGHLIN
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The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him his own.
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B
ENJAMIN
D
ISRAELI
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The pleasure we derive from doing favors is partly in the feeling it gives us that we are not altogether worthless.
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RIC
H
OFFER
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Deceiving someone for his own good is a responsibility that should be shouldered only by the gods.
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H
ENRY
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H
ASKINS
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Life's unfairness is not irrevocable; we can help balance the scales for others, if not always for ourselves.
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H
UBERT
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H
UMPHREY
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We ought to be careful not to do for a fellow what we only intended to help him do.
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F
RANK
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C
LARK
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The more help a person has in his garden, the less it belongs to him.
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W
ILLIAM
H
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D
AVIS
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The difference between a helping hand and an outstretched palm is a twist of the wrist.
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L
AURENCE
L
EAMER
King of the Night
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Few things help an individual more than to place responsibility upon him and to let him know that you trust him.
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B
OOKER
T
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W
ASHINGTON
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Do not free a camel of the burden of his hump; you may be freeing him from being a camel.
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C
HESTERTON
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No matter what accomplishments you achieve, somebody helps you.
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A
LTHEA
G
IBSON
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Do not commit the error, common among the young, of assuming that if you cannot save the whole of mankind you have failed.
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J
AN DE
H
ARTOG
The Lamb's War
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If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one.
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M
OTHER
T
ERESA OF
C
ALCUTTA
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From what we get, we can make a living; what we give, however, makes a life.
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A
RTHUR
A
SHE
Days of Grace
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No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor has been the reward for what he gave.
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C
ALVIN
C
OOLIDGE
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The dead take to the grave, clutched in their hands, only what they have given away.
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D
E
W
ITT
W
ALLACE
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The only things we ever keep are what we give away.
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L
OUIS
G
INSBERG
The Everlasting Minute and Other Lyrics
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The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose.
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H
ADA
B
EJAR
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OVE DOESN'T JUST SIT THERE . . .
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Love doesn't just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.
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RSULA
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L
E
G
UIN
The Lathe of Heaven
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In our life there is a single color, as on an artist's palette, which provides the meaning of life and art. It is the color of love.
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M
ARC
C
HAGALL
Chagall
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True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.
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NTOINE DE
S
AINT-
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XUPÃRY
The Wisdom of the Sands
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At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.
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P
LATO
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This is the true measure of love: when we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, and that no one will ever love in the same way after us.
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J
OHANN
W
OLFGANG VON
G
OETHE
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Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.
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A
NTOINE DE
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AINT-
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XUPÃRY
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In the coldest February, as in every other month in every other year, the best thing to hold on to in this world is each other.
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L
INDA
E
LLERBEE
Move On: Adventures in the Real World
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Only discretion allows intimacy, which depends on shared reticence, on what is not saidâunsolvable things that would leave the other person ill at ease.
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H
ECTOR
B
IANCIOTTI
Sans La Misericorde Du Christ
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We don't believe in rheumatism and true love until after the first attack.
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M
ARIE VON
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BNER-
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SCHENBACH
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As soon go kindle fire with snow, as seek to quench the fire of love with words.
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W
ILLIAM
S
HAKESPEARE
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I kissed my first woman and smoked my first cigarette on the same day. I have never had time for tobacco since.
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RTURO
T
OSCANINI
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All our loves are first loves.
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S
USAN
F
ROMBERG
Schaeffer, Mainland
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Two things only a man cannot hide: that he is drunk and that he is in love.
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A
NTIPHANES
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Is it not strange that love, so fickle, is ranked above friendship, almost always so worthy?
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G
ABRIELLE
R
OY
La Detresse et L'enchantement
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Love is a game that two can play and both win.
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VA
G
ABOR
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The giving of love is an education in itself.
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E
LEANOR
R
OOSEVELT
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We English have sex on the brain, which is not the most satisfactory place for it.