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Adele and Alan, security and erotic vitality and,
(i)
,
(ii)

Against Love
(Kipnis),
(i)

aggression.
See
domination and submission

Alan and Adele, security and erotic vitality and,
(i)
,
(ii)

Alberoni, Francesco,
(i)

Amanda and Nat, fantasy and,
(i)

Amber, parenthood and,
(i)

anchor and wave, security and,
(i)

Andrew and Serena, intimacy and,
(i)

Anger, excitement and,
(i)

Arlene, fidelity and,
(i)

Arousal
(Bader),
(i)
,
(ii)
,
(iii)

autonomy

Bachelard, Gaston,
(i)

Bader, Michael,
(i)
,
(ii)
,
(iii)

Barthes, Roland,
(i)

Beatrice and John, intimacy and,
(i)
,
(ii)

Ben, work ethic and,
(i)

Benjamin, Jessica,
(i)

Bliss
(film),
(i)

Boccio, Frank Jude,
(i)

body-mind continuum,
(i)

Buñuel, Luis,
(i)

Candace and Jimmy, intimacy and,
(i)

Can Love Last?
(Mitchell),
(i)

Carla and Leo, parenthood and,
(i)

Charlene, parenthood and,
(i)

Charles and Rose, security and erotic vitality,
(i)

childhood lessons, about balancing self and others,
(i)