Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot (40 page)

it by the change in reaction from the person. Somme girls like it slow some fast, some hard, some soft, some Just like to get f***ed, others live to be made love to, it really Depends on your partner. Again, communication is the key.”

“Yes , I had a vibrator she cum all over the sheets first time in her life , she’s my x now but she wont forget it, I am sure.”

“Yeah I really didn't know I thought I had broke the bitch she was all shaken on the bed and she bit me on the shoulder it was kinda scary the first time it happened.”

“Well me and this one girl in my school we got together in the bathroom and she told me to eat her out so I did she had a big orgasm and pussy juice flowed into my mouth it was so cool.”

“I was going done on her and when she hits her peak she frequently squirts a little clear liquid. Very yummy. Nothing special brought it on, just gave her head until she went nuts. Nothing fancy.”

“My girlfriend has at least one every time we have sex. It usually happens after a long session of intercourse followed directly by oral sex. They are so intense she has passed out from having one before, but she says it is the best feeling in the world.”

“Yes, it was almost like a quick pee, it happens the most when I finger her.”

“I have my tongue pierced and i have a large ball w/8 smaller balls around it. and I rolled it between her inner lips while I squeezed her g-spot w/ my index and middle finger.

I thought it was great and she still begs for me to do it again.”

“Yes....she was able to have them because I could hit the g-spot with her on top and me moving her back and forth.”

“Yes. Every time. I think a girl needs lots of oral sex first. and also, you need to last a long time for her and finger her while having sex.”

“If I put my girl on her hands and knees, place two, three, and occasionally four fingers inside her "love box", then reach just over her pelvis. Stroking her "G-spot" she will squirt all over me. We both love it.”

Note:
While this section is titled “Techniques for Men to stimulate their partners
”
All of the manual techniques would work equally well for a bi-sexual or lesbian women and their female partners.

In this section I am going to teach you the best methods for giving your lover a G-spot orgasm and also for giving her an ejaculatory orgasm if it is possible for her to do so.

Maybe you have massaged a woman's G-spot before but she did not have an orgasm or ejaculate. Why?

There may be a few reasons that she did not have an orgasm. The most common are:

• She may not have been relaxed enough.
  

• She may not feel comfortable enough with you to let her self go.
  

• You may not have stimulated her in the right manner, place, or used the right pressure.
  

• You may not have stimulated her long enough or intensely enough.
  

• You may have put mental pressure on her or she on herself to perform.
  

• She may believe that she can't, and then she most likely won't be able to.
  

• She may have weak sexual muscles.
  

• Her State of Arousal was not high and/or intense enough.
  

  For a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm she must be stimulated properly. But for a women to have an ejaculatory orgasm there are several other variables that must be present for it to happen. I have stimulated many women to G-spot orgasms that did not have an ejaculatory orgasm. And as you have read many of the women who answered the survey had ejaculatory orgasms but not G-spot orgasms. While the female ejaculate does come from the area behind the location of the G-spot is it not necessary for all women to have their G-spot it stimulated to have an ejaculatory orgasm. Many women say that they have ejaculatory orgasms from oral sex. For many others oral sex combined with finger or manual stimulation of the G-spot or intercourse. Others require a vibrator. But there is one thing that is common to almost of the women that were surveyed was:
  

  • A Very High Level of Arousal:
    Some women required a X-rated move or Dirty Talk, Nipples Bitten or to be spanked. The key here is to find out what turns your lover on the most, what arouses her the most and do that thing! Over and Over!
    

Bring her to a very high level of arousal. In order for a woman to ejaculate, she must be very aroused mentally and physically.

• Prolonged stimulation:
  Before a woman can ejaculate her G-spot must be very engorged. Some women do not need any G-spot stimulation to achieve this and that is why they can ejaculate without any G-spot stimulation. But most women will require some or a lot of G-spot or combined G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Before they will be able to have an ejaculatory orgasm. You will need to stimulate her for at least 20-30 minutes up to over an hour in some cases, until she has been stimulated enough to ejaculate. This may before her first orgasm or for some women after they have already had a few.
  

• Intense Stimulation:
  Once she has reached a very high level of arousal and her G-spot has swollen up inside her. She will require very intense stimulation. That can mean constant pressure or harder pressure or faster stimulation or even slower stimulation. Every women is different. You need to find out what works for her. Talk to her and ask her what she likes. Ask her to show you how to touch her.
  

• She Must Have Strong Sexual Muscles.
  If her sexual muscles or PC and pelvic floor muscles are weak she probably will not be able to ejaculate and in some cases might not even be able to orgasm. In the woman’s section I cover how she can build up and improve her sexual muscle tone and strength.
  

• She Must Be Relaxed and Have a Clear Mind:
  it's not going to work if she is thinking about her grocery list, something that happened at work today or about how hard she is trying to ejaculate. Most of all it is absolutely essential that she feel very comfortable with you. And you make her feel very safe and secure. That you are not pressuring her to have a G-spot or ejaculatory orgasm, that you make her feel that you are only there to be with her and pleasure her.
  Stimulation alone is not enough
  ; you must also help her break through the psychological barriers as well.
  

People have written volumes and volumes on sex and only a handful mention female ejaculation and they almost all say them same thing "some women experience ejaculatory orgasms with G-spot stimulation", but they don't tell you how to do it. You might rub your woman raw trying to figure it out. She may have a few orgasms on the way and if you are very lucky she may ejaculate, but once again it is hit and miss.

Next I will show you the exact techniques that have been used to help women achieve ejaculatory orgasms. But in order to do that we have locate the G-spot or
G-Spot Area
which would actually be more correct as there is no exact spot that will be in the same place in all women, but more of a localized area where the G-Spot will be found in most women. You will have to find the G-Spot in each individual woman. The G-Spot Area is located about 1-2" inside the vagina, on the upper wall (see previous Figure 1 again).

If your lover knows where her G-Spot is, by all means ask her to show you and to guide your hand to where it is located. If she doesn’t know and/or you would rather not ask, you can use this simple little technique to locate the general area.

Positions for manual G-Spot Area stimulation:

Before we go any farther I want to acquaint you with several positions for manual GSA stimulation that I will be referring to throughout the rest of this book.

Woman on her back with the man between her legs is a great position for GSA stimulation and allows easy access to the Clitoris, G-Spot and at the same time you are able to view your partners reactions to your stimulation.

Woman up right on her knees with the man in front of her is also a great position for GSA stimulation and also the position I recommend that you use when trying to find her G-Spot and GSA for the first time and also when using the technique for manually pumping her G-Spot to produce a female ejaculation.

The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulation for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derriere. He can also add other erotic stimulation by spanking or slapping his partner on her ass (if he and she enjoy that type of play.)

In any position from behind the woman the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the GSA because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.

The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-Spot and/or an ejaculatory orgasm for the first time because of the physical closeness and emotional security that you can provide in this position that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

How to locate the G-Spot Area:

Make sure your partner is highly aroused by extended foreplay before you use this technique.

1. You should be in front of her, and she should be on her knees facing you. (see figure 2 in the previous section)
   

2. Slide your hand down over her pubic area, covering her vagina.
   

3. Slowly slide your two middle fingers into her vagina (with your hand palm up).
   

4. Slowly curl your fingers back toward your palm.
   

5. You should be able to feel your fingers hook around and over her pubic bone. The area where the indentation is behind the pubic bone is where the G-Spot Area is.
   

6. The G-Spot itself, will feel like a little bump, mound or slightly swollen area that will have a rough or ridged texture the size of a nickel to the size of a quarter.