Carry the Ocean: The Roosevelt, Book 1 (4 page)

C
hapter Four

Jeremey

Nobody ever asked me what it’s like to have depression. Not Bart, not the school guidance counselor, not our doctor, not my parents. Everyone treated me like a freak and wrote me off.

Everyone until Emmet.

A train did come at one when we were supposed to meet, but I could see him waiting in his yard, rocking on his heels and tapping his finger on his leg as the cars rolled by. He didn’t look at me, which still felt strange, but the truth was, sometimes when people stared at me, I felt overwhelmed and had to look away.

I wondered if he was overwhelmed, or if with autism it was different.

I wondered if I could ask him about it.

When the train passed, I started down the ditch to the train tracks, and so did he. He still didn’t meet my gaze, though he glanced at me a few times. A tiny smile played around his lips.

“Seventy-seven cars, three engines. One at the back.” Emmet wrapped his arms around himself and stood rigid, fixing his gaze over my shoulder and rocking slightly on his heels. “I’m sorry. That’s a rude way to greet someone. Hello, Jeremey. It’s good to see you again.”

I smiled and wrapped my own arms around my body, mirroring his pose. “It’s good to see you too.”

He seemed agitated, but when he spoke, his voice was clear and even. “It’s a nice day. Seventy-seven degrees, only seventy percent humidity. No chance of rain. I enjoy rain, but today I’m okay without it. It’s sunny, but we have an umbrella on the deck and large trees. It’s shady and comfortable. Would you like to sit outside on our deck?”

The no eye contact wasn’t half as difficult as the wall of words he threw at me. I did my best to sift through for the question. Did I want to sit on the deck with him? I did, but it took me a minute to answer. “Yes, thank you.”

“If you’re too nervous, we could sit on your deck. Except my mom made banana bread. Gluten free, no sugar. We use stevia. The effects of gluten on ASD are unsubstantiated, but it doesn’t hurt to cut it out in case there are hidden benefits. Sugar is inflammatory and bad for your brain and your body. Health is important and food is health. Except sometimes my dad takes me for ice cream anyway because he says fun is important for health too.” He paused and started to rock again. “I think I am giving you too much information. I’m sorry. I’m nervous. It’s hard to remember what not to say to you.”

This, his bluntness, was what had drawn me to him yesterday, and it pulled me in just as much today. To say Emmet was honest was as understated as saying the surface of the sun was warm.

Plus, he was cute, and I could stare at him because he wasn’t looking at me. His lips were not too thin, not too plump and a soft pink. But more than anything I liked his neck. The cords, the divots of his clavicle, his smooth skin. I worried if it was okay to think he was cute. I worried, a lot, that it made me a perv to crush on him. Then I worried it was rude
not
to perv on him, since he’d demonstrated clearly that autism wasn’t mental retardation.

Though this is pretty much me in a nutshell. I worry about all the rules, and then panic because there’s no definitive answer to anything.

I hadn’t said anything back to him. Except he wasn’t angry or agitated. Only waiting.

I took a deep breath and replied. “I’m nervous, but I always am. It’s okay. Let’s go sit on your deck. The banana bread sounds good.”

He relaxed. “Okay. Let’s go.” He started toward his house, but he kept talking, turning his head so I could hear. “She makes two kinds. One with walnuts and one without. I don’t care for walnuts in food. The texture is too strange. You can have whichever kind of bread you want. But she’ll probably make us have water to drink.”

I nodded, realized he couldn’t see, since he wasn’t actually looking at me, so I said, “Okay.”

He kept talking, explaining all the ingredients in banana bread and how different flours behaved in baking and the binding properties of egg versus gluten, and I listened, but mostly I was thinking. I’d never met anyone like Emmet. He reminded me of a guy in our class, Kyle, who had cerebral palsy. With CP sometimes there’s brain damage and sometimes there isn’t, but the physical defects made him seem different. In middle school Kyle and I were friends, but he moved away in ninth grade. Kyle wasn’t dumb any more than I was. But it was easy to forget that his barking laugh and strange noises and flailing hand gestures outside didn’t accurately reflect his insides.

It’s the same with me. I’m quiet, and it’s hard for me to explain what I’m feeling, but I feel a lot of things, and I do want friends. It was tricky with Emmet, though. I usually watch people for cues to know how to behave around them, and Emmet didn’t give any. I wished I could ask him about autism, but I worried it would be rude. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings.

As we came onto the deck, Emmet pointed at a chair. “You sit here. I’ll put up the umbrella and tell my mom we’re ready for a snack.”

He turned the crank on the umbrella until the canvas spread above us. He watched the crank as it turned, and I thought I heard him hum, but only once. When he was finished, however, he didn’t go inside the house. He pulled out his phone. He texted something, then put the phone on the table and sat down.

“I’m leaving the phone out, but I’ll only answer if it’s my mom. She might have questions. Oh. Which kind of bread did you want? With the walnuts or without?”

I had a moment of panic, trying to decide which was the right or wrong choice, but it was difficult to stay nervous when Emmet was so nonthreatening. Besides, I didn’t like walnuts either. “Without, please.”

“Okay. I’ll tell her.” He typed another text, then pushed the phone aside. He sat on the edge of the chair, and I got the idea he was deliberately not rocking. “What should we talk about?”

It was a simple question, but it felt like a land mine, or rather a big rushing chute, sending me down a river into waters I didn’t know how to navigate. I didn’t know what to talk about. I never did. This was going to be a disaster. I felt sweaty and uncomfortable, and I wanted to go home. Then I felt horrible for feeling that way. The dark waters pulled me harder.

“You have hunched shoulders. You’re nervous. Did I say the wrong thing?”

His question drew me out of the mire enough to blink in surprise. “What? No. I’m…sorry. I’m not good at this.”

Emmet stared at the umbrella crank. “That is not specific. The word
this
is a pronoun, but you gave me no antecedent. What are you not good at?”

He was so
intense
. I wasn’t sure what to do, or say. “I’m not good at much. I have a hard time talking to people.”

Emmet nodded. “Me too. I want to talk to people, but they don’t understand me. They get mad a lot. Or they get mean, which is worse. This is because of the autism, why I can’t understand. I can’t read faces, and people say confusing things. You said,
I’m not good at this,
but you didn’t tell me what
this
is, so I can’t understand you. I try to be clear and exact when I talk, but sometimes that’s bad. Talking with people is tricky for me. Why is it difficult for you?”

It took me a second to digest the fact that he’d spoken of his disability as casually as he might a paper cut. Plus he’d given me so much information about himself, helpful information. Intense and direct. It was, honestly, refreshing.

I wondered if I could dare to be the same.

“If I say the wrong thing, I’m sorry,” Emmet said. “If you tell me what was bad, I won’t say it anymore to you.”

I made myself look at his face while I answered. “It’s okay. I’m trying to find my answer is all. That’s one of the reasons it’s hard for me to talk to people. I worry about saying the wrong thing, and sometimes it means I can’t say anything. It takes me a long time to give an answer to a question.”

Emmet brightened. “This is why we can be good friends. If you say the wrong thing to me, I’ll tell you. Then you can stop, and it will all be fine.” He rocked in his chair, clearly a subconscious gesture. “Thank you for telling me how sometimes it takes time for you to answer. I will try to wait. You’ll have to tell me if I’m not being patient enough.”

He made it sound so easy. “I wouldn’t want to upset you, though, even by accident.”

“Accidents happen. Even if we all stick to a schedule, the world is unpredictable. Sometimes I’m late to an appointment because of traffic. Sometimes the power goes out because of a storm or the weather closes the roads. It upsets me, but I can’t let it ruin my life. If you said the wrong thing and upset me, I would tell you, and then you would stop, and it wouldn’t matter that you had said something wrong. We’re friends. Friends forgive each other.” He started rocking, then stopped. “Does it bother you when I rock? It bothers people sometimes, but it calms me down.”

“I don’t mind.” I watched him begin to rock slightly in his seat. “Are you nervous, though?”

“Yes, and I don’t know why, which makes me more nervous. But I don’t want to end our date. So I’m calming myself down.”

The more I sat with Emmet, the more fascinated I was. Basically he kept saying out loud what I was feeling, except where I scolded myself and felt awkward, he…rocked. Or reached for some kind of pragmatism I could barely dream of.

I didn’t want this date to end either. Though that gave me pause, that he called it a date.

Obviously he didn’t mean
date
.

Except, maybe he did. The thought made me feel jumbled and heavy, and I had to push it away.

His mother appeared then with a tray bearing two plates and two glasses of water. Emmet took his own plate and glass from the tray, but I let his mother serve me, and I told her thank you after.

“You’re welcome.” She smiled at me and held out a hand. “Hi. I’m Marietta Washington. It’s good to meet you.”

I accepted her hand. “J-Jeremey. Good to meet you too.”

Her face was as animated and bright as Emmet’s was cool. “If you need anything, let me know.”

“Mom, go away. I want to be with Jeremey by myself.”

I startled at his rudeness, but Marietta took it in stride. She turned to Emmet and without a word extended two closed fingers in front of him.

He grimaced and touched three fingers to her two.

“I’ll be inside if either of you need me,” she said, and went into the house.

Emmet rocked in his seat, staring at the umbrella crank. “Do you want to eat, or do you want to keep talking?”

I was confused. “We can’t do both?”

Emmet shook his head. “No. Separate is better. I want to keep talking, but it’s rude to keep a guest from their food. I can wait if you’re hungry.”

“Talking is okay,” I told him. I wasn’t actually hungry at all.

Emmet remained agitated. “I wish she would have texted. The interruption was unexpected. I wanted to ask you more about being nervous, and about depression.”

I blinked. “You did? I mean, you do?”

“Yes. I want to know about you. So I don’t make mistakes.”

Well. That was…pragmatic. I leaned back in my chair, thinking. “Can I ask about your autism?”

He smiled. Not big, not long, but it was there. The gesture arrested me.

“Yes. You may always ask me about my autism. Then you’ll know. Knowledge is important.” His rocking was gentle now. It made me think he was happy-rocking. “But I’ve told you some things about autism already. It’s your turn to tell me about depression. I refreshed my research about it this morning. It’s fascinating, but there seem to be few determinable causes, which makes treatment difficult. Which medicine do you take?”

“I don’t take any medication. They’ve talked about it, but…I’m not taking anything now.”

“There are many kinds, but some of the side effects are bad. It’s inefficient that they have to use trial and error to find the right one, and then there is relapse. You should consider exercise and Omega 3 fatty acids. My mom is a doctor. You can always ask her questions about depression if you want. And health food. It’s all she wants to eat. Except my aunt Althea is worse. She’s vegan. Mom and Althea have fights about paleo and vegan diets. Sometimes my dad and I let them fight and we go to Subway and get meatball subs and watch
The Blues Brothers
together.”

I smiled, then ducked my head to hide it.

He continued to rock gently, but sometimes now he flapped his hands too. “How does depression feel? The article talked about low mood and self-esteem, but they weren’t specific. Does it mean you’re sad all the time? Also, it said clinical anxiety and depression are often present together. Do you have anxiety too?”

“I—don’t know.”
Clinical
anxiety? What the hell was
that
? I wanted to say no, I didn’t have it, whatever the hell it was. It wasn’t as if I needed anything else wrong with me, but it was hard to argue I wasn’t anxious when I hid in the school bathroom and got nervous about going to the store.

Except
clinical anxiety
was probably the flip side of
major depressive disorder
. Why hadn’t the doctor asked about that? Was it because I didn’t tell them about the panic attacks? If I told them, would they say I had clinical anxiety too? Would that mean I was too messed up and they’d put me in an institution?

Tiny claws of terror sank into my brain, and I thought,
Yeah, you totally have clinical anxiety. You have both. That has to be bad.

I picked at the bread, mostly for something to do with my hands. “I didn’t always have depression. But I was always quiet. It got bad in high school.”

I tried to think of how to answer Emmet’s question, about how it felt. I put the anxiety question away in a box inside my head and sealed it shut with mental duct tape. “Depression feels like there’s a bowl over you. A glass bowl you can see out of, but it makes the world further away. It feels lonely and heavy. But sometimes the bowl gets cloudy.”

I could see the bowl in my head, myself in the glass. “Even though I’m inside the bowl, everything from the outside still gets in, too loud. So I’m under glass, full of clouds, with a loudspeaker piping in all the sounds, and the smells and lights get in too. Sometimes they make me panic, but sometimes there’s all the sound and it makes me feel flat and dull. Or nothing at all. It makes it difficult for me to be with people, but if I’m not with people, I feel more lonely.”