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Authors: Janet Gurtler
14. Dear old Dad ditched the family before I was born.
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Amy drops me off on the sidewalk in front of my house. “You can do this,” she calls out the window. “Good luck.”
There's a humming in my head. I'm home. And I still haven't heard from Bob. Does that make my mom right? He didn't want kids. And that's all I get from him? Tea?
Instead of facing that or her, I turn back to the sidewalk and walk, but my knees are stiff and my gait lopsided. Mrs. Phillips from next door is working on her garden and waves and stares a little too long at my bare legs. I walk on, trying to figure out what to say to my mom. My fear bothers me. Should I really be the one who's worried? She knows that I know. But no matter how irrational it is, I can't stomp the feeling that I'm the one who messed things up.
All my life, I believed that my dad left because of me, that he wanted to have nothing to do with meâthat I was too flawed to love. I clench my hands into a fist and my fingernails press into my skin.
This is my life.
It's time to deal.
***
Mom is perched on the couch in her pink robe, her head in her hands as I yell. She hasn't said a word since I launched into my tirade.
“How could you have made that choice for him?” I pace in front of her. “And for me? You had no right to do that.”
She says nothing. Her silence is worse than shouting. “Talk to me,” I beg. “Tell me why.”
She lifts her head and presses her knuckles against her mouth and stares at me. I stare back, and then her gaze darts back to the carpeted floor.
“Mom? Say something! How did you keep this up?” I shout. “How do you not talk about it for eighteen years? That takes a lot of dedication.” I narrow my eyes. “And alcohol.”
I've crossed the line and I know it, and she glances up then, her quivering chin and watery eyes showing I finally hit a mark. Jake and Josh hurry in from where they've been hiding out in the kitchen, proving they've been hovering and waiting to swoop in to her rescue. The synchronicity in their steps and the expression on their faces irks me. It's not fair.
“All right, Morgan. Stop yelling. She just got out of the hospital,” Josh says. His face is still clean-shaven; it appears his '70s phase was cured by mom's heart condition. He walks over and sits beside her on the couch. It makes me crazy, and my head pounds with resentment. Always her over me. Always.
“She got out of the hospital over a week ago. I think the discovery she lied to me about my father for eighteen years deserves a little yelling. I've been holding in my shouting for eighteen years.” The ugliness inside me is turning inside out. “Why don't you go run off with one of your little groupies, Josh? Stay out of it!”
“Morgan,” she snaps, because heaven forbid I insult her precious Josh.
“What?” I snap back.
“Morgan,” Jake says in a lower and calmer voice. “Settle down, okay? It's not helping either one of you to be screeching.” He sits on the loveseat across from Mom and Josh and leans forward, running his hand over his closely cropped hair.
“She was trying to protect you,” Josh says. “She wanted to warn you after you went running off on your trip, but you wouldn't answer her texts.”
“That was too late.” I shake my head. I'd known in my gut that she had something to say when she kept texting. But it was too late. “How would
you
feel if some girl appeared in your life eighteen years from now saying she was your daughter and her mother didn't want you to know?” Heat flushes my face.
“Let her explain,” Josh says.
“I'm waiting! I've been waiting but she won't say anything.”
“That's because you're not talking; you're yelling,” Josh says.
“I've been holding things in for a long time. You guys, you precious twins, you were allowed to make noise and complain but not me. I've grown up feeling not good enough, that if I did something wrong, I'd be sent away.” And then my body deflates. It's the closest I've ever come to understanding the truth about myself. I sink down on the chair closest to me and drop my head.
“I wanted to protect you from being hurt,” my mom says, repeating Josh's excuse quietly, and then she sniffles loudly. For effect. For the boys. It's not for me. Or for my dad. Or what she did.
I glance up and she's wiping under her eyes. “You were protecting yourself,” I say.
Part of me feels like I'm inside my body watching myself. I've read all the books about how hard it is for girls to grow up without fathers. I checked half of them out of the library.
Josh still has his arm protectively around her. “Morgan,” Jake says, and he glances at Mom. “She had to have good intentions.” He stares at her as if he's waiting.
Mom doesn't say a thing.
“You did what you thought was right,” Jake tells her. “Right?”
“Lying about something so major?” My head swims in the understatement.
“She didn't lie,” Josh says, but the expression on his face doesn't match his words, and he takes his arm away from around her shoulder.
“Lying by omission is still lying. That, I believe, is a direct quote.” We all know it.
Mom jumps to her feet. “You have no idea what it was like for me,” she cries.
Her robe opens at the waist, revealing pajamas underneath. She looks tiny and vulnerable. I think of her heart and want to get up and re-tie her belt for her, tell her to calm down. But I don't. “So tell me,” I say instead, “why you never told him about me.”
Mom puts her hand to her mouth, and her eyes open wider. Jake and Josh jump to their feet and each one takes an arm, but she shakes them off.
“I loved him, okay?” she says quietly. Her eyes are cold and hard. “I loved him, but he didn't want a child. The day I found out I was pregnant, he told me he was going back to Canada, to get his MBA, for God's sake. He never asked me to come. He never invited me and the boys. He certainly wasn't about to go back to school with me and three kids to look after.” She grabs each side of her robe and pulls it tight around her and belts it.
“But you never even gave him a chance,” I say in a low voice.
“And if I did? He would have done the right thing. And how long until he would have resented me? I would have been the one responsible for ruining his life, his dreams. He would have left eventually, and I couldn't deal with that. I was young, pretty. We had fun. He never wanted my family. He wanted me as I was.” She laughs but it's bitter. She wipes her dripping nose on the back of her terry towel bathrobe sleeve and sighs. “I didn't tell him about you. I told him it was over. No long distance thing. And the truth is, he never came after me. He never tried to fight for me. Not once. Maybe if he had, I would have told him. I let him go, and he never looked back.” She sits back on the couch and puts her head in her hands. The boys each take a seat beside her and pat her back.
I jump to my feet. This wasn't supposed to be about her, how hard it was for her. She had years and years to make things right. It took a lot of stubbornness to keep that up.
“You were scared, Mom,” I yell. “You made the choice for you. You never thought about me, what I might wantâor need.” I sweep my arm out. “My whole life, I felt like it was my fault, that he wanted nothing to do with me. But he didn't even know! I deserved to know that.”
She buries her head in her hands, but I spin on my heels. “I will never forgive you,” I tell her as I walk out the front door. It's not true. It's horrible and I hate myself for saying it, but I want to hurt her. I want her to feel some of the pain I've been feeling. I don't know what to do with all the emotions swirling around my head, competing for attention. I head to the front porch. The clouds aren't hiding the sun anymore. It shines bright, mocking me. It's a waste. What could have been mocks me.
“Hey!” a voice yells to me.
I lift my hand to block the rays. Adam is standing at the end of the driveway.
Adam smiles. “I tried to call. Text. Tweet. But you weren't answering.”
My phone is still in my backpack. Inside the door. “You lied to me too,” I say, as if he's been part of the conversation I was having with my family. “You lied to me too.” I walk down the steps of the porch toward him, and he raises both hands in the air as if he surrenders. I march on, open my eyes wider, and tug on the bottom of the cotton shorts I'd changed into. My cheeks warm. The overexposure suddenly matters.
“You okay?” he asks.
“No,” I say. And it's the best I have right then. His hair is wet and combed back. He's got on a black T-shirt and black jeans, different clothes from when I was dropped off not so long ago.
“Thank you,” I say and glance down at the dirty T-shirt I'm still wearing. The greasy stains on the front. The splotches of mud from the side of the road. “For coming. But you lied about your girlfriend.”
He tilts his head as the sun zips behind a cloud, and we look at each other without squinting. “I told you, Morgan. It was an excuse. For work. It's not always easy being in charge of people our age. And I was going to tell you the truth⦔
“I know.” I gesture my hand to the house behind me. “It's not you I'm mad at.”
There's a spraying noise, and I glance over and see Mrs. Phillips at the bush growing between our property with a hose in her hand. Doesn't she realize it just stopped raining? She sprays the bush but makes no attempt to hide her curiosity.
“You look good,” Adam mumbles.
I look down. I'm a mess. The breeze has turned cool and the sun has slid behind a cloud. I wrap my arms around myself, wanting to lie down and sleep.
“I guess I don't need to ask how it went?” Adam asks.
I shake my head. “Not really.” I walk forward until I reach his side then stop, looking up at him. “What are you doing here?”
“I thought you might need someone to talk to.” His cheeks are blotchy and he avoids my eyes. He's making it a habit, showing up when I need him. I don't want to like it. But I do.
“Do you want to go for a walk? Or a drive?” He points at a truck parked in front of Mrs. Phillips's house.
“That's yours?” It's an old red truck. A small one, rusty on the bottom.
Adam nods. “Sort of. I use it when my mom doesn't need it.”
“Hmmm. I wouldn't have pegged you for a truck guy,” I say.
“I wouldn't have pegged you as someone who would dance around in men's underwear.” His mouth turns up, and under his glasses, his eyes shine.
I relax a little and laugh, like I know he intended me to. “Sorry,” I say again, shrugging my shoulders and rolling my neck around to get out some of the kinks. “It's not you.”
“Yeah. I kind of guessed that. So? Walk or ride?” he asks again.
I press my lips tight, wishing I had my ChapStick handy. Something flitters by my face and I glance up and see a black, orange, and white butterfly. It flaps its wings gracefully and flies up over my head and quickly out of my sight.
“How about a ride?” I tell him. “I already went for a walk. In these shorts, my neighbors might make a call to family services.”
He laughs. The sun comes out from behind the cloud. “Come on, cheeky,” he says. I tug the bottom of my shorts and join him to walk down the sidewalk to his old truck. He opens the passenger door. It feels like a date. He stands, holding it and waiting for me to climb in.
“Uh. I can get in on my own,” I tell him, worried stepping up in front of him will expose way too much of my rear end. He already thinks I'm an assâI don't have to show it to him. I make a quick decision. “Wait,” I say.
He stares down at me, still holding the door.
“Are you in a rush? Can you wait while I go and change?”
He shakes his head. “Uh. No. Not if you want to. But you don't have to. You look fine to me.”
“I want to.”
He steps back and holds out his hand. I pull down my shorts again and run back toward my house. “I'll just be a minute,” I call.
I run into the house, past my mom and brothers sitting in the living room. Mom is sipping from a wine glass. I stop and glare at her. She puts the glass down on the table beside her.
“You sure you should be drinking that?” I can't help asking.
“Don't judge,” Josh says. He's got a bottle of beer in his hand. “She's allowed one glass a day.”
I shake my head and start walking down the hallway.
“What're you doing?” Jake calls.
“Changing,” I yell and open the door to my room and go inside.
“Into a nicer person?” I hear Josh say, but I ignore him and close my door behind me.
I hurry to my closet and stand in front of it, staring at a sundress hanging in the middle. It's never been worn. It's so pretty, with greens and blues. I bought it with Lexi last year. On sale. We were going to wear the sundresses to a dance. And then the video went viral, she stopped talking to me, and I stayed home from the dance. I've been saving it for a new special occasion. I take a deep breath. This is it.
I pull off my dirty shorts and T-shirt and chuck them on the floor beside my bed. I carefully remove the dress from the hanger and pull it over my head. Then I slide on a pair of sandals that are on the floor of my closet, go to my dresser, and take two seconds to finger comb my messy hair. There's permanent frizz in it from the damp air, so I fluff with my fingers, decide I don't have time for makeup, and sigh.
I run back in the hallway, past the living room.
“Hey,” Jake calls. “Where you going in a dress?” He stands up and follows me to the front door. I bend down to dig through the backpack I left there, grab my purse, and shove my phone inside.
“Was that a boy out there?” my mom asks from where she's sitting in the living room. I hear hope in her voice and frown.
“Seriously?” I force myself to look at her.
“You look pretty,” she says softly.
I press my lips together, say nothing, and turn away.
“We're going to take Mom to a movie,” Jake says, “if you come back later and we're not home.”
Do they think I'm over this? That all is forgiven?
I reach for the door. “Fine,” I tell him. “I think I can handle it.”
“You going out with a boy?” Jake asks.
“Yes.” Without saying bye, I run out the door, trotting up the driveway and up the sidewalk to Adam's truck. He's sitting inside, so I climb in and put on my seat belt.
Adam turns the volume button down on the radio. “Wow,” he says. “You look like a real girl.”
“As opposed to a fake girl?” I say.
“No. A real girl. Real pretty.”
I make an embarrassing scoffing sound and realize how transparent I am, trying to impress him with a dress.
“I like it,” he says.
I dip my head to hide my smile and force myself to say what I'm thinking. “You look nice too.”
He revs up the truck and pulls out on the street.
“So, you want to go somewhere in particular?” he asks.
My tongue's suddenly thick and I shake my head.
“How about I drive for a while?”
“Sure.”
“So,” he asks after we pull out of my neighborhood and onto the main road, “how'd it go with your mom?”
“Probably about how you think.” I glance out the window as we pass by a row of lavender trees. I press the button to unroll my window and inhale the scent. “I love that smell. Lavender.”
Adam doesn't respond.
I press the window closed and sigh. “There was screaming. And tears. But that was from my mom.”
“Hmm.”
“I'm mad. So mad. So mad I don't know what to do with all the anger. I don't want it to take over or control me. But how do I forgive her?”
“I don't know,” he says honestly. “Time?”
“I need a lot of that,” I say and glance at his profile. His slightly turned-up nose. The strong cheekbones. “Thank you.”
“For what?” Adam asks.
“For coming.”
“How could I not?”
I look into his eyes, and my anger begins to fade until it's more of a low-grade headache dulled by medicationâI'm aware it's there, but it doesn't need my attention anymore.
We're quiet as we drive through the familiar streets of Tadita, until my phone beeps in my purse to tell me I have a new text. I think about ignoring it but then I reach for it. “It's probably Amy,” I tell Adam.
When I see the message, my heart speeds up.
Adam glances over before returning his attention to the road. “What? You okay? Amy okay?”
“It's not Amy.”
Hey. What's up? I miss you,
the text says.
“Who's it from?”
“Lexi.”
“Lexi the video girl?” Adam asks.
My lips turn up in the corner. “Technically I think I'm the video girl.”
He makes a raspberry sound. “She's the one who posted it. I'd like to put up a video of her dancing on YouTube.”
I glance at his profile. He's pressing his lips tight, scowling. It makes me smile. “She's a terrible dancer.” It's true, but I never said that about her before. I never would have. But she is a terrible dancer. And she ended things. And never told me she was sorry. I can't blame her completely for the video going viral. Maybe I could have stopped it. But she started it in the first place.
“Figures,” Adam says. He glances at the phone. “So what'd she say?”
“She said she misses me,” I say softly, staring at the message. I think of how many times I'd hoped to see a message from Lexi, how much I'd wanted her friendship backâhow I wanted us to be friends again. But no matter what, she didn't ask my permission to send out that video. And then I think of Amy, driving all the way to Canada for me, furious with my dad on my behalf, crying on my behalf. In the short time I've known Amy, I know that she would never ever do what Lexi did. And maybe, just maybe, that's what I deserve. Amy.
I stare down at my phone and then press delete.
Adam pulls his truck into the parking lot of the high school.
“Getting in line early?” I say. “Beating the rush, Dr. Adam?”
He rolls his eyes at me. “Let's go for a walk,” he says, turning the ignition off.
We hop out of the truck at the same time, but Adam walks to my side and reaches for my hand. “This okay?” he asks. I bite my lip and nod, and his bigger hand closes over mine. It feels like heaven.
We walk to the playground without saying anything, but when I spot the swings, I drop his hand and run and jump on one. Adam gets on the one beside me and we start pumping our legs. We laugh, racing to get higher faster. For a while, we are in sync, and I remember swinging like this with Lexi. “We're double dating,” I yell, like I did when our swinging matched. It's more fun with Adam.
I drop my head back, and my hair blows in the wind while I pump my legs, going higher and higher.
“You're beautiful,” Adam shouts.
A cackle rings from my throat. “You're only saying that because you can see up my dress on the swing.” My insides like being told I'm pretty.
“Not from where I'm sitting,” he calls. “But I could move.”
I laugh, feeling free and light. Adam jumps off his swing, and I scream and jump off too, afraid he really will see up my dress.
We both laugh, and he grabs my hand and pulls me toward the grass, and we sit.
I flop onto my stomach and pick up a white wildflower. A beautiful flower among weeds on the schoolyard. I study the flower, watching the petals fall and blow away. Some of my anger floats away with them. Adam's eyes watch me.
“I don't know how I'm going to forgive my mom,” I say without looking up. The grass underneath me is damp, but not enough to soak my clothes. It feels cool and smells fresh.
“I bet,” he says. “But she's still your mom. That doesn't change.”
“How I look at her has.” The sadness drags my body closer to the ground, and I flip over onto my back so it doesn't crush my lungs. It erodes some of the layers of anger that have been protecting me from hurt. So much hurt.
“What about Bob?” Adam asks.
I breathe in deeply and close my eyes, splaying my hands out on the grass like I'm going to make an angel. A grass angel. “I don't know. I haven't heard from him since we had tea. I think I'm getting ticked off.”
“What a mess,” he says. “You're handling it amazingly well.”
“Not really.” I roll up so I'm facing him, crossing my legs and adjusting my dress to make sure everything that's supposed to be covered up is.
“What's your dad like?” I ask him.
Adam stretches his long legs out in the grass, resting back on his hands. “My dad? He's okay. We get along okayâexcept when he's pissed off.”
I pick a wildflower and start shredding it, wondering what it would be like to have Bob pissed off at me. Not normal and almost natural, like it must be for Adam.
“Like the day we left for Victoria,” he adds.
I glance up. “Why? What happened?”
“My brother was having a bad day, and my dad was heading out of town. My mom was fed up, so he wanted me to stay home and help her. But I knew Mom would settle down and be fine, because I've seen it a million times, but my dad was overreacting. That's when you guys showed up. I ran out in the middle of his rant, and I was afraid he was going to race out on the street and cause a big scene. Or drag me back inside.”
I laugh and then cover my mouth. “Sorry. I'm not laughing at you. It's just that my mom did run out on the street. Remember?” And then I frown. “There I go again. Talking about myself. Ugh.” I stick out my tongue and groan.
“You've got a lot going on.”
I frown and shake my head, focusing back on him. “What's wrong with your brother?”