has no experience with hysteroscopic myomectomies, find one who does; the procedure is the best first-line attack against symptomatic fibroids.
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Even when the fibroids are inaccessible to hysteroscopic scoop-out, they can be removed abdominally, by opening the uterus, cutting out the fibroids, and sewing the uterus back up again. Now we're talking about major surgery, but if you research the medical literature, you'll find that abdominal myomectomies compare favorably with hysterectomies in factors such as blood loss, postsurgical complications and infections, and healing time. I observed an abdominal myomectomy performed at Bryn Mawr Hospital by Dr. Michael Toaff, who specializes in the procedure, and it was surprisingly clean. The woman sacrificed perhaps twenty or thirty cubic centimeters of blood, no more than she would have for a few routine blood tests. She, as well as many others I talked with who had similar operations, recovered in a couple of weeks and felt exhilarated, liberated, resuscitated from the dead just the way women say they feel after a hysterectomy.
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Ah, but doctors can always retort, You may be fine for now, but remember, fibroids grow back . Then what will you do, Lady Womb-Keeper? Have another myomectomy? Or accept the hysterectomy at last? In fact, while it's true that a woman who has fibroids is prone to fibroids, the great majority of the tumors will give no trouble at all, so that even if a new fibroid does appear in the wake of a myomectomy, it will likely be meaningless, the way most fibroids are. Just because one fibroid caused you misery doesn't mean your next one will. Nonetheless, accepted verities are hard to shatter, and the purported dangers and futility of a myomectomy continue to influence physicians' attitudes and thus the advice they give to their patients. Yes, women should have "choices," including a hysterectomy, but it's hard to choose wisely when the best items on the menu have been edited out beforehand.
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To assert our choices freely, we need stronger tongues for ourselves, of course, to proclaim what we must about our bodies and our desires, but also for our doctors, so they can hold those tongues in check rather than say thoughtless, callous things. For better or worse, we often feel meek when we visit doctors. They are like our parents, and they can hurt us too easily. Doctors should never tell patients that they are beyond needing a uterus, that the uterus is "just a sack, whaddya want it
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