Counseling Through Your Bible Handbook (78 page)

1.
Peggy Claude-Pierre,
The Secret Language of Eating Disorders: The Revolutionary New Approach to Understanding and Curing Anorexia and Bulimia
(New York: Times, 1997), 23.

2.
Claude-Pierre,
The Secret Language of Eating Disorders
, 98.

3.
For this section see Raymond E. Vath,
Counseling Those with Eating Disorders
, vol. 4, Resources for Christian Counseling, ed. Gary R. Collins 14 (Waco, TX: Word, 1986), 39-44; Pam W. Vredevelt, Deborah Newman, Harry Beverly, and Frank Minirth,
The Thin Disguise: Understanding and Overcoming Anorexia and Bulimia
(Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson, 1992), 33-45.

4.
See Pam W. Vredevelt and Joyce Whitman,
Walking a Thin Line: Anorexia and Bulimia, the Battle Can Be Won
(Portland, OR: Multnomah, 1985), 69-72.

5.
See Claude-Pierre,
The Secret Language of Eating Disorders;
Vredevelt and Whitman,
Walking a Thin Line: Anorexia and Bulimia, the Battle Can Be Won
, 208-14.

1.
For the following section see Grant L. Martin,
Counseling for Family Violence and Abuse
, Resources for Christian Counseling, ed. Gary R. Collins, vol. 6 (Dallas: Word, 1987), 165-71.

2.
For this section see Grant Martin,
Please Don’t Hurt Me
(Wheaton, IL: Victor, 1987), 52-53.

3.
For this section see Martin,
Please Don’t Hurt Me
, 51-59.

1.
For this section see Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier,
Love Is a Choice
(Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1989), 180-84.

2.
For this section see Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, and J. Keith Miller,
Facing Love Addiction
, (New York: Harper One, 2003), 196-98.

1.
J. Grant Howard,
The Trauma of Transparency: A Biblical Approach to Inter-Personal Communication
(Portland, OR: Multnomah, 1979), 56-59.

2.
On the three God-given inner needs, see Lawrence J. Crabb, Jr.,
Understanding People: Deep Longings for Relationship
(Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1987), 15-16; Robert S. McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 2d ed. (Houston, TX: Rapha, 1990), 27-30.

1.
Brigham Young,
Journal of Discourses
, 26 vols. (Liverpool, England: F. D. and S. W. Richards, 1854-86), 8:115.

2.
See Reverend Sun Myung Moon,
Overview of the Divine Principle
, “The Hidden Dimension of History,”
http://www.unification.org/overview_DP3.html
.

3.
See Herbert W. Armstrong, “Why Christ Died and Rose Again,”
The Plain Truth
, vol. 28, no. 4 (Pasadena, CA: Radio Church of God), April 1963.

4.
Ruth A. Tucker,
Another Gospel: Alternative Religions and the New Age Movement
(Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2004), 222-23.

5.
Watchtower Bible and Tract Society,
Should You Believe in the Trinity?
(Brooklyn, NY: Watchtower Bible and Tract Society, 1989), 20-22.

6.
See Joseph Smith, Jr., Article #8 of
The Articles of Faith
and preface to the
Book of Mormon
, “The Testimony of Three Witnesses.” The claim is that many mistakes were made in the translation of the Bible, but the
Book of Mormon
was translated by divine intervention, making it flawless and superior to the Bible.

7.
See Steven Hassan,
Combating Cult Mind Control
(Rochester, VT: Park Street, 1988); Robert Jay Lifton,
Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism
(New York: W.W. Norton, 1961); Margaret Thaler Singer,
Cults in Our Midst
(San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 1995); Madeleine Landau Tobias and Lalich Janja,
Captive Hearts Captive Minds: Freedom and Recovery from Cults and Abusive Relationships
(Alameda, CA: Hunter House, 1994).

8.
Joan Carol Ross and Michael D. Langone,
Cults: What Parents Should Know: A Practical Guide to Help Parents with Children in Destructive Groups
(New York: Carol, 1988), 21-22. See also Hassan,
Combating Cult Mind Control;
Singer,
Cults in Our Midst
.

9.
Rachel Andres and James R. Lane,
Cults & Consequences
(Los Angeles: Jewish Federation Council of Greater Los Angeles, 1988), 4:30. See also Tobias and Janja,
Captive Hearts Captive Minds
, 86-200.

10.
Andrew F. Ehat and Lyndon W. Cook, eds.,
The Words of Joseph Smith: The Contemporary Accounts of the Nauvoo Discourses of the Prophet Joseph
(Provo, UT: Grandin, 1994), 84; Bruce R. McConkie,
The Promised Messiah
(Salt Lake City, UT: Deseret, 1978), 134.

11.
For this section, see Andres and Lane,
Cults & Consequences
, 6:23-30.

12.
Andres and Lane,
Cults & Consequences
, 6:13.

1.
For the following section see Scott Kirby,
Dating: Guidelines from the Bible
(Grand Rapids: Baker, 1979), 111-21; Diane Eble,
The Campus Life Guide to Dating
(Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1990), 177-83.

1.
Frank Minirth,
In Pursuit of Happiness
(Grand Rapids, MI: Fleming H. Revell, 2004), 25.

2.
For this section, see Archibald Hart and Catherine Hart Weber,
Unveiling Depression in Women: A Practical Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Depression
(Grand Rapids: Fleming H. Revell, 2002), 49-65.

3.
Hart and Weber,
Unveiling Depression in Women
, 55.

4.
Hart and Weber,
Unveiling Depression in Women
, 56.

5.
Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary
,
S.V
. “Repression,”
http://www.m-w.com
.

6.
Roy W. Fairchild,
Dictionary of Pastoral Care and Counseling
, ed. Rodney J. Hunter,
et al.
(Nashville: Abingdon, 1990),
S.V
. “Sadness and Depression.”

1.
What Every Congregation Needs to Know About Domestic Violence
(Seattle, WA: Center for the Prevention of Sexual and Domestic Violence, 1994), n.p.

2.
For this section see Patricia Riddle Gaddis,
Battered But Not Broken: Help for Abused Wives and Their Church Families
(Valley Forge, PA: Judson, 1996), 27-29; Kay Marshall Strom,
In the Name of Submission: A Painful Look at Wife Battering
(Portland, OR: Multnomah, 1986), 44-46; Lenore E. Walker,
The Battered Woman
(New York: HarperPerennial, 1979), 55-70.

3.
For this section see Texas Young Lawyers Association,
Family Violence: Legal Choices for Battered Women
(n.p.: Texas Department of Human Services, 1985). Be sure to check the current laws in your area. For this paragraph see Cawthon,
Getting Out
, 123.

4.
On the three God-given inner needs, see Lawrence J. Crabb, Jr.,
Understanding People: Deep Longings for Relationship
(Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1987), 15-16; Robert S. McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 2d ed. (Houston, TX: Rapha, 1990), 27-30.

5.
For this section see Strom,
In the Name of Submission
, 20-26.

6.
S.R. McDill and Linda McDill,
Shattered and Broken Tarrytown, NY: Fleming H. Revell
, 76-82; Ginny Nicarthy and Sue Davidson,
You Can Be Free: An Easy-to Read Handbook for Abused Women
(Seattle: Seal, 1989), 16-19; Kay Marshall Strom,
In the Name of Submission
, 35-39.

7.
Marie Marshall Fortune,
Keeping the Faith: Questions and Answers for the Abused Woman
(New York: Harper SanFrancisco, 1987), 15-17.

1.
For this section see Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier,
Love Is a Choice
(Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1989), 157-59; H. Norman Wright,
Always Daddy’s Girl: Understanding Your Father’s Impact on Who You Are
(Ventura, CA: Regal, 1989), 163-71; Nancy LeSourd,
No Longer the Hero: The Personal Pilgrimage of an Adult Child
(Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1991), 38-45.

2.
For this section see David Field,
Family Personalities
(Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 1988), 19-29.

3.
For this section see LeSourd,
No Longer the Hero
, 198-204.

4.
For this section see Jim Conway,
Adult Children of Legal or Emotional Divorce
(Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity, 1990), 127-240.

5.
LeSourd,
No Longer the Hero
, 175-77.

6.
LeSourd,
No Longer the Hero
, 175-77.

7.
David Field,
Family Personalities
, 153-54.

1.
For this section, see Norman L. Geisler and Ronald M. Brooks,
When Skeptics Ask
(Wheaton, IL: Victor, 1990), 68; C.S. Lewis,
The Problem of Pain
(New York: Collier, 1962), 27.

2.
For this section, see Geisler and Brooks,
When Skeptics Ask
, 63-64.

3.
For this section see Peter Kreeft and Ronald K. Tacelli,
Handbook of Christian Apologetics
(Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity, 1994), 128-29.

1.
American Heritage Electronic Dictionary
(Houghton Mifflin, 1992),
S.V
. “Fear.”

2.
W.E. Vine, Merrill Unger, William White
Vine’s Complete Expository Dictionary of Biblical Words
, electronic ed. (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1996),
S.V
. “Fear.”

3.
American Psychiatric Association,
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders: DSM-III-R
, 3d ed. (Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Association, 1987), 432.

4.
Phobia Center of the Southwest, “Agoraphobia,” 1990.

5.
See Karen Randau,
Conquering Fear
(Dallas: Rapha, 1991), 44.

6.
Shirley Babior and Carol Goldman,
Overcoming Panic Attacks: Strategies to Free Yourself from the Anxiety Trap
(Minneapolis, MN: CompCare, 1990), 59-62.

1.
Robert Jeffress,
When Forgiveness Doesn’t Make Sense
(Colorado Springs: WaterBrook, 2000), 47-49.

2.
David Augsburger,
The Freedom of Forgiveness
, rev. and exp. ed.(Chicago: Moody, 1988), 47-50.

3.
For this section see Lewis B. Smedes,
Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don’t Deserve
(San Francisco, CA: Harper & Row, 1984), 21-26.

4.
Augsburger,
The Freedom of Forgiveness
, 44-46.

5.
For the following section see Smedes,
Forgive and Forget
, 31-37.

1.
See Gary R. Collins,
Christian Counseling: A Comprehensive Guide
, rev. and updated ed. (Dallas: Word, 1988), 352-53; H. Norman Wright,
Crisis Counseling: What to Do and Say During the First 72 Hours
, updated and expanded ed. (Ventura, CA: Regal, 1993), 154-56; H. Norman Wright,
Recovering from the Losses of Life
(Tarrytown, NY: Fleming H. Revell, 1991), 53-61.